Family & Relationships - 20 August 2007

There is this girl who I've known for a couple of years now. I've always been attracted to her, but I never really pursued her beyond occasional flirting. Problem is that now, I like her alot.

She is known to be quite the tease and is always getting insane amounts of attention from these inexperienced guys. I only see her face to face about once a week or so.

When we're out at parties and she's constantly staring and touching at me-- I always make a point to ignore her or make her jealous. This works to make her chase more, but regardless, she is still quite a tease and I think she'd take advantage if I slipped up. She has only dated very inxperienced guys and I know that some charm and a little agression would have her whipped. But, like I said though, she is a huge tease.

I want to make her my tease though! How else should I go about making her my girlfriend?

Detailed info would be most appreciated.

2007-08-20 05:47:43 · 5 answers · asked by Ricky Jones 1 in Singles & Dating

i am in love to my husbands friend.
the 3 of us were in the same university.
this is 20 years ago,i am 39 now and have 3 kids.
this man i was in love with him befor my marrage,and when his friend told him that he wants to propose to this girl ,he said nothing to him.our love was inside us with only eyes ,we were feeling it but without one word about this love.
when i found his friend asking me for marriage and my real love has gone after university i accepted.
all these years i cant forget him for one day,and when i see him i feel very happy with my kids and also my husband.
all these years we were playing together ,and spending the week ends together as two famillies,by the way his wife also my friend and he has 3 kids also.
from 5 months ,we started messages with our selfphones,and ended with emails.
all this without any tuch ,only talking,and from this talk we knew that we are loving each other for 20 years.so must i feel guilty for just writting emails?

2007-08-20 05:47:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im 17 years old growing up in a tough neighborhood in the united states. Hope you know what i mean when i say tough. Anyways, at night my mom goes for a walk for exercise, i go with her because its night and the streets are dangerous for anyone at that time. Dont want anything to happen to her. My friends call me a momma's boy for doing this, should i stop?

2007-08-20 05:46:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i had a friend scince 6th grade we were very close until we got to highschool sophmore year where she found this guy and just always ditched me for him and on top of it i hated the guy he was a scum bag and i knew she deserved better i tried to tell her but she wouldnt listien so one day me and her boyfriend got into a fight & she refused to talk to me scince then she gave up years of a friendship for that guy they lasted a year she finally realized how much of scum he was but she never apologized to me & ever wanted to start over with me 2 years have passed and i still think about it i always thought about going up to her & just talk everything out and start over but why should i u know why should i go out of my own way when she never even tried to talk to me its so sad how i used to consider her like a sister to me and my parents loved her and her parents loved me to for a while i actually forgot about her but today i saw her again & i was like i cant believe we turned out like this

2007-08-20 05:45:13 · 28 answers · asked by A.A 4 in Friends

that don't do drugs, are nice to people in general and family, laid back but also stands up for what he beleives, looks on the inside and doesn't matter whats on the outside. laugh and can make me laugh, send flowers for no reason, always be there....ya know things like that. its hard to find a guy in a small town. all the good ones are taken, and then u've got drugies, drunks, or just plain out @ssholes that don't have respect for others.

2007-08-20 05:43:59 · 9 answers · asked by LUCY JO 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-20 05:43:18 · 20 answers · asked by SUN 1 in Singles & Dating

okay....me and my best friend have known eachother since i moved here from the other side of the city and she has moved here from California....but then i meet this guy named John. And you know i just LOVE HIM!! And she says he loves me back, but he never acts like it,...and she's never lied to me before!! Since third grade, i wanna believe her, but...i don't know, can anyone help me??? PLEASE?

2007-08-20 05:42:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Me and my boyfriend are both virgins and I wanted to have sex with him. I am a freshmen and he is a Sophmore in highschool. But the thing is my mom and dad are protective and wont' let me. where could i do it and how could i hide it from them? and what age is a good age to loose your virginity at?

2007-08-20 05:40:28 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-20 05:40:21 · 6 answers · asked by sallyanne 3 in Friends

I remember when I was ten or eleven and sitting in front of our family shed. Some southern guy and I were hanging out when all of a sudden he grabs my face in his hands and says [with a beautiful southern drawl], "I've been wantin' to do this for some time now," and plants the sweetest kiss on my lips, tongue and all. It was so erotic. To this day when I suck a raw oyster from the shell it reminds me of the texture of his tongue.

2007-08-20 05:39:16 · 18 answers · asked by mysterygirl 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend ashley has a new boyfriend but hes really mean 2 every body and he cheats on her but she dosnt care even if hes being rude and dumb to her friends! I dont like it but when ever i try 2 talk 2 her she always gets mad at me what do i do?

2007-08-20 05:39:08 · 19 answers · asked by cutieprincess 2 in Family

Before I say anything, remember I'm only 16. How do you like your girlfriends to act in public. I'm a little out going, but well behaved, and I do as I am told. But do you only want your girlfriend to make you look good. And also, Should we hold hands, stuff like that.

2007-08-20 05:38:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Check out this link:

http://www.grandparentsrights.org

I'm posting this question, because apparently some grandparents actually think they have certain rights with regard to their grandchildren. Don't get me wrong. I think that it's sometimes tragic when grandparents lose contact with their grandchildren, because of family acrimony or for various other reasons. However, I can't help but think that only the PARENTS and the GUARDIANS are the ones who should have the final say regarding whom their children should have contact with and that no court should be allowed to interfere with this right.

2007-08-20 05:37:03 · 10 answers · asked by tangerine 7 in Family

I have this friend who thinks these really deep thoughts. He gets all the girls. I can't help but feel jealous. His thoughts even get me thinking. He talks about love a lot and the chicks really dig that. Why can't I think these thoughts? I'm such a loser. I feel like I don't have a place in the world. I don't always have anything to say, I'm failing at school, I don't have a lot of friends, I'm not very creative and on top of all of that, my family is poor and dysfunctional. It's like God doesn't have a plan for me. I feel like his *****. The only think I'm good at is music. Hendrix's music is really important to me. I find his music so beautiful. I don't mean to brag but I can play all of his songs almost like he did. But I will never play them like he did, and I can admit it. I can get close, and I like it like that. He can write the most lovely, placid guitar riffs and he can also write the eeriest blues riffs. I love music. I'm not in a band yet though. I also play classical.

2007-08-20 05:35:18 · 15 answers · asked by rainyday,dreamaway 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-20 05:34:00 · 2 answers · asked by High M 1 in Singles & Dating

4.5 years of relationship. Both mid 20's. We've been fighting a lot lately. Mostly because he picks fights or starts saying bad things about me, or saying that i don't care because of this or that (lies, by the way) and when i try to explain that it isn't like that he doesn't listen. Also, he's always making comments when he sees hot girls on tv or anywhere, being all sad 'cause he can't have what he wants. So, i was changing the channel of the tv and he told me to leave the channel where there were hot girls. I didn't. I left it on an rock video instead. He got mad and left. Later, he called me saying i had 5 minutes to apologize for controlling what he can and can't see, otherwise it would be the last 5 minutes that we talk, ever. I started telling him it was childish and i tried to reason with him. He said time was running out, that he was serious. I said that i have told him lots of times i don't like to be treated this way and i hung up. Haven't talked since.

2007-08-20 05:31:43 · 58 answers · asked by jade 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you have any horror stories because you didn't get a prenup?

2007-08-20 05:31:41 · 18 answers · asked by phjun8383 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-20 05:31:08 · 6 answers · asked by Fun2010 4 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy while camping (Im 20, hes 21) and right off the bat, there was a really intense chemistry between us..We were inseperable the whole time, and would just sit there and talk for hours.The only problem is he lives in a different province (about a 1.5 hour plane ride).He still calls me everyday, and we talk for hours, last night when we talked we were on the phone for 6 hours, but it felt like maybe 2 hours. I am going to visit him in a few weeks, then a few weeks after that hes coming to visit me. I really care about this guy and can see it developing into something really good. He is going back to school in January and told me last night he was thinking about transferring to the school close to me. I have been in a 2 year relationship, and i have never felt this kind of connection or chemistry! What do you think about all this?? Do you think he feels the same way that I do about him??? How do I show him how much I care about him??

2007-08-20 05:29:30 · 10 answers · asked by sallyh 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Brand new to this tickling stuff but want ti try some minor tie & tickle games, any suggestions on how to get involved slowly, what works best, wifes a 10 on the ticklish sclae and don't to over due it......any stories on your first time?

2007-08-20 05:28:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance tends to delete the temporary internet files from our computer. He must have forgotten one time because I found that "someone" typed in the address to a gay porn website...It was either him or his sister who visited for two. I asked him, and he said he wasn't looking at gay porn.

But then today, i was about to enter the living room...He was sitting at the computer, and a full screen video was playing, showing a guy masturbating...He heard me coming, clicked out of it fast, then said hi to me...I was too surprised to say anything so I turned around and acted like I hadn't seen it...and of course, he deleted all of the temporary internet files before he left for work.

What am I supposed to say to him? He just left for work...what should I do when he gets home later tonight?

Lately, he keeps asking me to give him a B.J., but I never do...Is he watching gay porn because I don't him B.J.'s, or is he bi? And if he really is bi...what am I supposed to do?

2007-08-20 05:26:32 · 29 answers · asked by Em S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Have you ever browesd through a ring store in the mall for the heck of it with your g-friend, whether it was your idea or hers? How did it make you feel?

2007-08-20 05:25:05 · 5 answers · asked by kitty kitty 3 in Singles & Dating

The guy I like and I were talking about relationships, and discussing what might happen with ours. In a relaxed, friendly way. He told me he doesn't want a proper relationship with anyone, he just wants casually see a woman (for sex and a bit of a chat) whenever he has time in between watching sports and going to the gym. I couldn't believe my ears!!! Can this be true for some guys, and why, or did he just want to hurt me?
This guy is divorced.

2007-08-20 05:24:50 · 20 answers · asked by Summer 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend just recently signed up for a myspace account, actually I helped him.. anyways, I was showing him that you can look for people on there that you went to school with and reconnect! Well, we were scanning through all of the people on there when he said "hey, I know her, we use to hang out in high school". I look at the profile, and it is this skanky girl that was a year behind me in school that he was talking about. I was kinda appauled, but I kept it to myself. After he sends her a friends request, the next thing I know they are calling each other. Nice huh? She supposively has a baby and is getting married, but I can't help but get upset when I see her comments on his page such as: "Hey you, was gonna call you yesterday, but I was at my Mom's all day. When are we gonna hang out?". It could be completely innocent, but I know this girl (and her sister's) track record and it makes me uncomfortable. What should I do?

2007-08-20 05:22:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband was married for almost 2 years. No kids. They lived in different states for 1 year (they werent together) but didnt bother going through with a divorce bc of money. Then I met him and it made him push for a divorce and they did. But she decided to keep his last name. And I dont understand why she didnt choose to change her name back to her maiden name. It cant be that big of a pain to change it right? I personally feel that she's not as a way to try to stay close to his family. Anyways, do most women who get divorced do this? Or do they normally change their name back? BTW I was pregnant with his child before they were officially divorced, and she was also pregnant with someone elses baby. They WERE NOT together though so please no rude comments.

2007-08-20 05:22:28 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i really like this boy at my school but his friends are always around him so i never get the chance to talk with him not like i would talk to him though i am soooooo shy but i really like him and i need to know wat to do i need a boy's persective to (his name is jerrod)

2007-08-20 05:22:22 · 12 answers · asked by water_angel247 1 in Singles & Dating

When I met my now boyfriend of almost 2 years he didn't travel for work (apparently before he did some). Recently he has starting going on a weeklong trip once a month. We have talked about this because I have an issue with him being gone for one week of the month. My main issue is that I didn't enter the relationship to have a part time boyfriend and I want a boyfriend that is home with me at night (we live together). He doesn't discuss his tentative trips with me (he can usually flex the dates) to see if it is workable (I have 2 sons that he helps get to school because I go in early in the morning). He just comes home and says " oh yeah, next week I have to go to where ever for the week". The other issue I have with it is that he never calls when he says he will. For example: he says he will call around 7 every night (gives him time to eat and whatnot) but hours later he hasn't called. He drives me nuts when he goes away. What do I do to make this better?

2007-08-20 05:21:25 · 5 answers · asked by Mommy in NY 2 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone else beside me, live this way?

2007-08-20 05:21:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married in May of 08 and I need 4 Bridesmaids dresses but cant afford to buy them I need to rent does anyone know of any reasonably priced dress rental shops in middle TN I would truly appreciate any help

2007-08-20 05:21:05 · 21 answers · asked by lynnluvsbrett 1 in Weddings

We just recieved a phone call from our neighbor that lives quite far away from us (About 6-7 acres) that we make love to much and should cool it down because we will burn out. And she said we need to use birthcontrol because she "Knows we don't" and we aren't ready to have any mixies.

First of all we are active only at night and in the morning. Second she can't possibly hear us because we are far away and we don't make too much noise )We like the hearing of the motions and other non-verbal noises. Third why is she all in our buisness?

This made my wife "very upset" because I think she is ashamed of sex anyway and to have another person come into our marriage and try to tell us what to do......

What should we do besides not answer her phone calls? She is an older pervy like lady who is a widow. I can't go over to her and scare her off and my wife wants to beat her *** but I have no time for her going to jail.

I think this counts as harrasment.

2007-08-20 05:20:48 · 12 answers · asked by Blackman married to Redhead 1 in Marriage & Divorce