I met this guy while camping (Im 20, hes 21) and right off the bat, there was a really intense chemistry between us..We were inseperable the whole time, and would just sit there and talk for hours.The only problem is he lives in a different province (about a 1.5 hour plane ride).He still calls me everyday, and we talk for hours, last night when we talked we were on the phone for 6 hours, but it felt like maybe 2 hours. I am going to visit him in a few weeks, then a few weeks after that hes coming to visit me. I really care about this guy and can see it developing into something really good. He is going back to school in January and told me last night he was thinking about transferring to the school close to me. I have been in a 2 year relationship, and i have never felt this kind of connection or chemistry! What do you think about all this?? Do you think he feels the same way that I do about him??? How do I show him how much I care about him??
2007-08-20 05:29:30 · 10 answers · asked by sallyh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can make it work, maybe, like all relationships, if you get closer together living arrangements-wise. You have a lot more up close contact to come before making a big commitment.
2007-08-20 05:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think he cares the same way about you, that you do for him.
Because he's really considering changing schools in order to be close to you.
THAT IS BIG.......that sounds like a could be "love".
And I think you already are showing him how much you care because you are going to visit him.
You wouldn't be doing that if you weren't really interested in him.
Go with your heart.
That's where happiness is.
And it sounds like your heart is with him.
You, sound the same way I was when I fell in love with my husband.
The chemistry was so strong with us in the beginning.
And you know what that lead to?
A very intense "love".
And we still feel that way today, 8 years later ;)
2007-08-20 12:37:21 · answer #2 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously feels the same way that you do, or else he wouldn't be willing to relocate. I'm happy that you've found that person who touches your soul, but be careful, and don't move too fast. You'll have a lifetime to regret a decision that only took moments to make.
2007-08-20 12:40:00 · answer #3 · answered by LunaRossa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? Of course he does. If he's taking the time to come and see you and is even thinking about transferring what do you have to worry about? Just go with the flow and if it works out it works out, if not it doesn't. You'll never know though.
2007-08-20 12:36:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl he must feel the same way of he is thinking about transfering. I would show him how much you care by just being honest and telling him how you feel about him.
2007-08-20 12:35:37 · answer #5 · answered by Dena D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easiest way cook for him I mean a real meal like a pot roast or something really really good that takes you a long time and then have him over. The quickest way to a mans heart is through his belly
2007-08-20 12:40:24 · answer #6 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow talking on the phone for 6hours? Get a life.
2007-08-20 12:37:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think so... come to think of it... he wont be wasting time, effort and money just to call you and see you.. imagine he even plans to transfer to different school just to be near you... it is not easy to leave your old school because you would need rebuilding relationships with new classmates and teachers.. but just because of you.. he is willing to do that...
good luck to your relationship... hope it will work well.. do your best to keep him... i think he's worth to entrust your heart again...
2007-08-20 12:36:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he does feel the same way, so tell him that you really likehim and you never felt like this before. why not?
2007-08-20 12:35:42 · answer #9 · answered by sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES HE DOES FEEL THE SAME WAY ABOUT YOU!!!!
2007-08-20 12:33:37 · answer #10 · answered by L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋