We just recieved a phone call from our neighbor that lives quite far away from us (About 6-7 acres) that we make love to much and should cool it down because we will burn out. And she said we need to use birthcontrol because she "Knows we don't" and we aren't ready to have any mixies.
First of all we are active only at night and in the morning. Second she can't possibly hear us because we are far away and we don't make too much noise )We like the hearing of the motions and other non-verbal noises. Third why is she all in our buisness?
This made my wife "very upset" because I think she is ashamed of sex anyway and to have another person come into our marriage and try to tell us what to do......
What should we do besides not answer her phone calls? She is an older pervy like lady who is a widow. I can't go over to her and scare her off and my wife wants to beat her *** but I have no time for her going to jail.
I think this counts as harrasment.
2007-08-20 05:20:48 · 12 answers · asked by Blackman married to Redhead 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think this woman definitely needs to mind her own business. She has no right telling you what or what not to do. I would blow a whistle into the phone the next time she calls. Guaranteed she won't do it again!
2007-08-20 05:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Maybe I have watched too many police shows on TV, but you really need to see if she is bugging the house with cameras and/or microphones. I would be freaking out.
Talk to your local police department to see what is the appropriate course of action.
Take the advice of using birth control if you are not ready for kids, even if it is from the pervy old lady.
If your wife is ashamed of sex, which she should not be, there is lots of information online from credible websites such as WebMD to help her become feel more comfortable.
The worst thing you could do is not do anything at all.
Good Luck and Stay Safe
2007-08-20 13:03:13 · answer #2 · answered by Terri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you can determine how she "knows" these things you might have some recourse - for example if she is peeping - meaning if she breaks out the binoculars or a telescope and is looking into your window that's against the law (in most places)
otherwise I would answer her next call and tell her straight up to mind her own business and that if she contacts you further regarding this subject you will pursue your legal options against her - that should be enough to make her stop - if not get a couple dozen eggs and 'decorate' the exterior of her house (especially any windows that look toward your house)
if you want to get more intense - break out the BB gun and take out a window or two
2007-08-20 12:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by lancej0hns0n 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How would this woman know that you and your wife is having sex. Being that you live so far away. This widow is lonely and has nothing to do with her time. But dont get her up set either becausse you dont want to be responsible for anything happening to her. just try to not answeer her. Best of luck
2007-08-20 12:30:50 · answer #4 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best response to such foolishness is no response. Don't answer her phone calls and don't respond to her mail. She actually sounds like she's lonely, but this isn't the way to make friends. Be wise and ignore her. If she comes on your property, you can ask her to leave and call the police. Most likely, however, she won't visit you.
2007-08-20 12:49:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would take legal action agaisnt her. I mean how does she KNOW all of this? Plus, she knows you dont use BC. Shes too wierd if you ask me. YOu and your wifes sex life aint any of her business, and if ya ask me, this woman is borderlining on some sort of harassment, invasion of privacy or something just down right wrong. Dont take her calls anymore. Period!
2007-08-20 12:48:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really oogy. Gross; this woman sits in her house all day long and thinks about you and your wife having sex everyday. YOU KNOW SHE CAN'T HEAR YOU!...or can she...hmmm... She's got issues. I'd be upset too, not because I'm insecure about sex, but because it's none of her business. You're doing it in the privacy of your own home. I'd be disgusted, too. Yeah, this is harassment, and I hope you told her how you felt about it.
2007-08-20 12:29:55 · answer #7 · answered by ron-D 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you better draw the blinds. And maybe call the police and tell them that you saw someone who looked a lot like her walking around your property at night. You could not tell for sure...it was dark. Not that it was her, but it was an elderly woman...
2007-08-20 12:26:17 · answer #8 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes you wonder if she sits at night watching your house with a set of binoculars!
I would contact the police or a lawyer,
2007-08-20 12:30:49 · answer #9 · answered by Mama~peapod 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How would she know how much sex you have? And tell her what business it is of her's,that you have a healthy sex life and there's nothing wrong with enjoying each other.
2007-08-20 12:42:46 · answer #10 · answered by Marge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋