My boyfriend just recently signed up for a myspace account, actually I helped him.. anyways, I was showing him that you can look for people on there that you went to school with and reconnect! Well, we were scanning through all of the people on there when he said "hey, I know her, we use to hang out in high school". I look at the profile, and it is this skanky girl that was a year behind me in school that he was talking about. I was kinda appauled, but I kept it to myself. After he sends her a friends request, the next thing I know they are calling each other. Nice huh? She supposively has a baby and is getting married, but I can't help but get upset when I see her comments on his page such as: "Hey you, was gonna call you yesterday, but I was at my Mom's all day. When are we gonna hang out?". It could be completely innocent, but I know this girl (and her sister's) track record and it makes me uncomfortable. What should I do?
2007-08-20 05:22:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do an invite for the 3 of u to hang out or the 4 of u; include her soon to be husband. I am one that does not trust a lot of girls, even those w/ kids n married. But then the question is, do u trust ur b/f... u cant have a relationship w/o trust.. but then u dont need some skank trying to make ur b/f cheat... i'd be weary expecially w/ that track record!! people change but they always slip
2007-08-20 05:39:49 · answer #1 · answered by Sick of F*ckwits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As it was your idea to sign up for the MySpace account, it is your own fault.
Now you have to make a choice if you can live with the results or not; you should try letting your boyfriend know how uncomfortable his new-found old acquaintance is and see if he is willing to terminate his relationship with her to stay in a relationship with you; however, don't count on it, especially since you were the one that opened the door and pretty much gave him persmission to seek out people he used to know.
2007-08-20 12:36:39 · answer #2 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Track record or not, I would not want my bf having regular phone conversations with another girl. Tell him to step into your shoes and see how it feels.
2007-08-20 12:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by tnca 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it and let him know how you feel. You gotta trust him! I mean, she does have a kid and she IS getting married..
2007-08-20 12:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him about it!
2007-08-20 12:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by Dalzz 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋