Family & Relationships - 20 August 2007

was she in the right?

2007-08-20 21:33:48 · 21 answers · asked by bow_hunter110 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-20 21:27:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been hearing about this recently and, despite the fact I feel I parent our 3 boys as their personalities dictate (as opposed to where they fall in the family), I would love to hear from anyone who has a view on 'middle child syndrome'

My Husband is a middle child and he is one of the most adjusted and caring people I know. He is quieter than his siblings, but to me that's just his personality, not that he was overlooked as a child.

2007-08-20 21:23:50 · 13 answers · asked by steph c 3 in Family

And they even are proud before their friends to show such signs left…

2007-08-20 21:22:42 · 7 answers · asked by Ekaterina E 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

the feeling when u get together with ur families, maybe u prefer being with friends instead or sth. like that...

2007-08-20 21:18:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

why did people stop saying good morning to each other , are they very busy which is not an exeucse, or is it a sort of old fashion to say good morning, people did even stop smiling to each other as if they live in their own world, does this comes from too much pride or what??

you can see this everywhere, schools , colleges, and especially at work.

i would like to share your opinions and see why is this happeneing, and how can we solve it if you do not like, and if you like it, then why ??

thanx alot,

2007-08-20 21:12:31 · 15 answers · asked by lara 2 in Friends

close friends for years and he's liked me since then; he's the "shy type" yet comfortable telling me things and never had girlfriend.
Beg of this yr, i fell for him deeply and we "got together" (gave him his first kiss, cuddles, holding hands, 1st base - innocent).
BUT we decided to stay friends and not rush things. After this, he was going through a hard time with tragedy and we haven't really talked.

about a month ago we texted, he heard about a guy liking me and just was asking about him (i think he wanted to hear my reaction) and after i said this line:
(i'll try w. someone else, its too bad he's far away) that's when he started acting like an A S S and telling me how to play the game and that i should be with other
guys so they could get with me - very rude.

Someone told me it's because he was jealous and was so hurt and sad that i had moved on - why would it bug him so much? The truth is, i never stopped loving him
but i don't want a relationship. If he "didn't care",why would it matter IF i did stop liking him?

2007-08-20 21:08:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is there anything wrong in that???

2007-08-20 21:02:36 · 25 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

This probably seems ridiculous to some of you but would it offend any other women if your husband wore a t shirt with a drawing of a woman in a bikini on it? My husband was on a trip and someone was selling t shirts for peanuts so he bought a couple.

2007-08-20 21:01:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Religious beliefs aside---I've been married/together with the same person for almost 20 years. I am still young (36) and attractive, and find myself very attracted to someone and almost obsessing. I do not want a "relationship" with this person, other than the friendship we already have. I would just like to have sex/make-out sessions with him. I have only ever had 2 sexual partners in my whole life. I kind of feel like I missed out on a few things in my younger years, and so want to sow a few wild oats. Obviously, I don't want to hurt my husband, and don't want to completely end that relationship just so I can have-a-go with some other guy. Would appreciate feedback from people who've gone through/are going through similar feelings---not just people who will tell me I'm evil and wrong. Let's just assume that 5000 people already told me that I'm evil and wrong, and that all the religious platitudes (which I don't agree with) have already been flung at me. Other opinions?

2007-08-20 21:00:43 · 36 answers · asked by P-nuts and Hair-dos 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, everyone. maybe this question will disturb your knowledge. However, let me know something!

2007-08-20 20:55:06 · 14 answers · asked by discoveryman 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a friend, he is from india and he is muslim, he wants to get married just i dont know how i can help him.the girl is other religion than his.is it possible that they both can marry without any problems regarding their religion?it must be difficult..
pls if u can give some advice i would really apreciate
thank you

2007-08-20 20:47:54 · 23 answers · asked by peter b 1 in Weddings

2007-08-20 20:30:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-20 20:28:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-20 20:12:38 · 37 answers · asked by marincaligirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

they are not insulting you, just criticizing you all the time without supporting you for anything

2007-08-20 20:09:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm adopted, and I get made fun of for it.

I don't know why.

I was born on accident, emaning, I wasn't supposed to be born.

My biological mother smoke, and drunk while pregnat with me.

She smoked about 2 packs a day.
I was her fourth child.

And she didn't want me.
all her other kids were in college when I was born.

And my 'sisters' don't know I exist.

Would you make fun of me, or is she just a little buttface who has no life?

2007-08-20 20:08:35 · 9 answers · asked by Emmerz 2 in Family

My husband and I just filed Chap. 7, eliminating all bills. He said to me "I need to get a job, so he can get his 745" I said, did you not learn from the last 10 yrs, bills are debt, so don't create them. My motto is cash everything out. My truck is cash out, my ins is paid up for 12 mos. I hate bills and paying finance charges. He said he like nice things and he can't afford to cash out $130K, but he can afford to pay $700. It's like out of the frying pan and into the fire. What should I do??

2007-08-20 20:07:10 · 4 answers · asked by sassy lady 4 in Marriage & Divorce

so there is this boy i like.. who we have the oddest relationship.. for instance.. we get in these huge fights and we stop talking, but he'll like after awhile he'll be like i miss you.. and he'll come in my work with this girl he used to like.. and he'll stare at me (people have caught him)or.. if i talk to another guy and leave with out saying good bye... he gets jealous. or he always comes in work when im working.. or i flirt wth another guy he'll be like you sooooo like him... and i can sometimes feel him watching me. you know? hes also a super flirt, and hes also told me i was in the "friend zone". what do you guys think?

he has the whole.. i dont want you, but i dont want anyone to have you aspect going on too.

2007-08-20 19:56:17 · 3 answers · asked by confused 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband is always itching down there and whenever we have sex he has to go to bathroom to clean his thing or else he gets these pimples he is not circumsized. so its lil red dots on his dik. is it normal or a sexual disease he has.i am clean i dun get things like that so why is he always getting that?
any info mite help

2007-08-20 19:49:29 · 14 answers · asked by baby doll 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Two years ago my family and I were in a bad car accident. We lost our son. My husband had critical injuries and my other two daughters were injured but recovered. Because of that my husband was medically discharged from the military. We lost everything our income place to live etc. My husband now works but with medical ins. and other bills we never had to worry about before because we were in base housing. That leaves little left after the bills. I want to work but after loosing our son we both thought it would be better for our daughters if I stayed home with them. Thats fine but we need the extra money. So I am looking for an online job. I don't want to sell or get into the metabolife or any of that. So if anyone knows of a actual job that can be done on line and you get a paycheck please tell me. I don't mind working hard for things. I can work it's just finding a job that isn't a scam. Thanks so much

2007-08-20 19:37:56 · 5 answers · asked by luve 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okey lets see..
well idk wtf im gnna do now but
i need advice ppl!
i told this hot guy i needed advice..
and he was like TELL MEE NOW=]
and im all like noooo later cus its kidna long..
and he was like okeyy ill meet u in starbucks!!
but wtf idk wat to ask him hahahaha
sooooo


ANYONE give me excuses like adivice somthing long something dramatic..NOT DRUGS OR PREGNANT hhahahaha=]




lov u all =]]



oh yeah ill give u guys 10 points=]

2007-08-20 19:31:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Seriously what are your thoughts?

2007-08-20 19:29:04 · 2 answers · asked by Kristy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

when my great auntie got custody of her two horrible grandchildren who are 14 and 15(same age as me) my mom offered to take them to school because it was insisted that they went to the same school as me and my little brother and their nan apprently doesn't like to drive around that area( dont ask me why) so my mom has to pick them up when the nurse calls or something, my mom is getting quite sick and worn out but she wont say anything to her. they also tease me and call me things like ugly,fat,drug addict and the boy who is 15 and quite fat pushes me around and sends me nasty sms's and he does it around his gran and my mom and gets away with it! i can't handle anymore i cry at night and sometime stay up all night because i am dreading seeing them in the morning what should i do?

2007-08-20 19:28:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-20 19:25:06 · 85 answers · asked by evildevin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a few weeks ago I felt alot of pain when i went to the toilet but it soon went away. my wife has just started to complain of serious pain when she goes to the toilet. i dont want her to know i was with a prostitute. what can i do??????

2007-08-20 19:21:19 · 26 answers · asked by jazzman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and this guy are good friends now. I really like him. I think he may like me too. I mean he gives off the basic signs, makes eyecontact when we talk, touches my arm, etc. Also when we are talking to eachother and someone says stuff like its so obvious you like her or w/e, he sorta blushes and then quickly changes subject to something else.

Im pretty sure he likes me too but im just not 100% certain that he does. What do you think?

2007-08-20 19:20:59 · 4 answers · asked by AMAN DUHH 3 in Singles & Dating

My fiance has been there for me and my two boys more than anyone has ever in the past. He does so much for us. Helps us get by everyday. And I don't want him to feel like he unappreciated. And since funds are low he never asks for anything. What can I do for him to show him that his love and kindness is not taken for granted?

2007-08-20 19:19:29 · 12 answers · asked by Amayah 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We've been married two years. My day always gets started off on a bad note because she is constantly running 15-20 minutes late for work and I have to fight w/ her every day to get her out the door. We are not in a financial position to have our income interrupted by even temporary unemployment.

Also, she has really let herself go physically. I understand Mother Nature takes away outer beauty over time, but it's really like she decided I was stuck with her and just stopped taking care of herself. When her face breaks out, she messes with it until she has a half-dozen scabs that make-up doesn't cover and I told her it's disgusting but she won't stop, even when I threatened to take her cosmetics out of our budget.

I told her six months ago that I was fed up and a month later I gave her an ultimatum. She didn't change so I told her I may be leaving. She begged me to stay and I did, then I warned her again last week and no change.

What should I do?

2007-08-20 19:18:53 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend who lives under the control of a crazy *** mother. For 17 yrs we cannot visit or talk on the phone without her eavesdropping and controlling the conversation. I don't talk to him, I end up talking to her through him. Neither have any friends of social life. They have both been scamming disability SSI for over 7 yrs.
I am not this type of person and I have worked since I was 14,I am 36 and happy. Once in a while I will get sick of his paranoid crap and hang up.
My question is; How do I tell him in a polite way that I am not interested in his crazy ways of thinking. He is 38 and has become quite a Narcissist and quite verbally abusive. Any suggestions will be appreciated.Thank you.

2007-08-20 19:18:39 · 7 answers · asked by jerryboy47807 2 in Marriage & Divorce