2007-08-20 19:25:06 · 85 answers · asked by evildevin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I will not judge you because I do not know you and I hate when people do that to me. It sounds like you have a real problem. Marriage is a wonderful thing in most cases, but I do understand were things can go wrong. does he beat you or do any other things to hurt you. There most be a reason you hate him so bad. If you need to talk please feel free to email me. This is not a invatation for a hook up, but I like to help people and you seem like you need a lot of help. Forget what all these other people are saying. They might be right, but they don't know you or the sitution. Please, I understand or atleast want to try. I hope I can be some help and I swear I will not judge you. That is god job, AND ONLY GODS JOB FOR THE REST OF YOU!!!!
2007-08-20 20:35:52 · answer #1 · answered by Nomeni 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Do you believe in a God? If you do you will remember that marriage is scared and a commitment to God and your husband. You are disrespecting God, your husband, and yourself. How do you live with yourself? Do you think these other men want anything more than a piece of a**. You are mistaken if you think other wise. All they see is a easy prostitute. I would suggest marriage counseling. Of coarse, if that is not an option, I guess you husband can divorce you for adultery which is allowable. I would ask God and your husband for forgiveness and try to start over again. Have some self respect. Grow up and realize that there is more important things in life.
2007-08-20 19:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid the answer is in the question, dear.
I find cheating to be THE WORST thing you can do. Yeah. Over murder,
Granted, it is possibly to atone for whatever you've done, but as does everybody here, I suggest a divorce.
To be married to someone you hate is just not good. Marriage used to be a sacred bond, but is now nothing more than a title, and an easy way of manipulating the tax system.
I suggest an apology and a divorce, and then you should go on a leading a *normal* life, and let him do the same.
2007-08-20 19:37:11 · answer #3 · answered by Zack S 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Honestly lady, there must be a reason as to why you're still with him or you would have gotten a divorce already. Yes it is bad to cheat on your husband, it means YOU'RE NOT HAPPY! Get separated, tell him the truth and from there you guys are on your own. If you still want to be together, get counseling, don't go on line you'll just get verbally abused.
2007-08-20 19:36:45 · answer #4 · answered by dennise X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It IS bad to hate your husband and cheat a lot on him too. He is your husband, you married him. You are still his wife. There must still be some love in this marriage for you to stay.
2007-08-20 19:59:03 · answer #5 · answered by Nora C 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
why do u hate him? if you have a good reason, it's not bad that you hate him. get a divorce if you hate for a good reason and don't have one to try and fix things. as for the cheating....if you "cheat" on him for fun, and it's just who you are maybe you shouldn't be married or get married. buttt, if you're cheating on him as your way of coping with marriage problems, try and fix things, go to marriage consoling, etc etc.
by the way, don't listen to all these people who automatically judge you. they're just prideful people who think they know everything based on a picture and 14 words. do you hate your husband because he's controlling or sometihng? add details and explain why you hate him.
hope you either end things and move on happy or fix things and live on happy
2007-08-20 19:32:01 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you stay with him if you hate him and cheat on him alot? It sounds like you are a very selfish, self centered person. Get a divorce. Does he do the same to you? Are you using protection when you "cheat" or are you passing whatever on to your poor husband?
Grow up!!
Ask for a divorce, don't ruin his life too.
2007-08-20 19:36:05 · answer #7 · answered by Fireant 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
For eons, women have found a good provider for a mate and then when they are ovulating have sneaky sex with the Alpha male to select better genes for their children and giving their children a higher probability of surviving. Except for Alpha females with Alpha male mates, women that did not do that are not our ancestors.
Given the opportunity it is wrong not to do what is in the best interest of your children, including selecting better genes, so they can be prettier, healthier, smarter, and more athletic. Therefore, it's not wrong to cheat provided you only cheat 2 or 3 days a month.
However, if you hate your husband, you must decide if it is to your benefit to remain married.
2007-08-20 19:57:08 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes. it is bad. It puts you and him at risk for many medical issues.
If you really hate him, then just leave. Lawyer up and get divorced. You will be able to sleep at night and if you want to sleep around, you'll be free to do that without cheating on anyone.
Just be care full, sleeping around my just leave you feeling empty in the morning.
2007-08-20 19:50:40 · answer #9 · answered by wildwillyinva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could care less if you cheat on your husband, that's your own problem.
But have you ever thought of the fact that you could be putting his life in danger by sleeping around? He thinks that your faithful there for not getting VD checks. That makes yo a sucky person.
2007-08-20 19:36:01 · answer #10 · answered by babydragonspawn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋