I'm adopted, and I get made fun of for it.
I don't know why.
I was born on accident, emaning, I wasn't supposed to be born.
My biological mother smoke, and drunk while pregnat with me.
She smoked about 2 packs a day.
I was her fourth child.
And she didn't want me.
all her other kids were in college when I was born.
And my 'sisters' don't know I exist.
Would you make fun of me, or is she just a little buttface who has no life?
2007-08-20 20:08:35 · 9 answers · asked by Emmerz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
hey dont think like that! its not your problem sister! she did this all forget it and be happy with what you hav now! i really miss bros and sis like you!..don think much about that! be bold and strong...we all are born alone,some still have parents to takecare and some dont! its all life my sister don get worried about that..but be happy with this life and be a good friend, and mother later thats all we can do!i wanna care for you but how can i??we are at different poles right now i guess! takecare! don hurt anyone and don hurt urself!be happy! lov ya
2007-08-20 20:46:49 · answer #1 · answered by osborne! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was adopted all I have to say is that I am thankful. My adoptive parents were not the perfect parents I would have wanted. But, they were better then what I would have had if I had not been given up. No one has any right to pick on you for where you came from. Because they have not walked in your shoes and they can not judge. Always remember that you are special and no one has a right to take that away from you. Your were loved enough to be given away and not be left in a situation that would not have been healthy for you. Always remember that your birth mother did the best thing she could for you, she let you go to people that wanted you and could provide for you what she could not.
2007-08-20 20:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by ldyria 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She is an idiot. Just remember that her parents had to put up with her, your parents chose to have you. People can be so hateful and cruel. Just don't let them cause you to lose your confidence and self esteem. You are not a bad person just because your mother did not feel that she was able to give you a good life. The guy that owned Wendy's Hamburger place was adopted too, and just look what he did with his life!! He became wealthy with his good idea!!! Adoption does not make you a lesser person, it will probably make you a much better person!!!
2007-08-20 20:18:38 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your "friends" make fun of you because you were adopted then they aren't real friends. there is no shame in adoption, it sounds to me you got the best deal, by the sounds of your real mother.
I was adopted many years ago and i know i have the better deal!
i have since found out she died when i was twelve so i missed the opportunity to find out what sort of mother she might have been. You sound very well informed about your mother.
Devote your time and energy on your adopted parents and thank God for the life you have been given.
Have a good life
2007-08-21 02:27:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pft. adoption is barely an issue to me. who cares about blood relations? if you have someone that would adopt you, doesn't that show enough that they love you? i believe in God....and so you were born, which means you were supposed to be born. you have a life now- make something of it. i wouldn't make fun of you...i don't even get why it's something to be made fun of. she's just a little buttface whose jealous of your life because yes, she has none
2007-08-20 20:45:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just cheer up and think the positive way...
At this world sure will got peoples will love u...
Never give up, ok?
No matter how hard is ur life, just never give up...
Cheer and still cheer...
Wish u will be happy always and get a wonderful life...
Cheers.......
2007-08-20 20:19:38 · answer #6 · answered by WindWalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who makes fun of you for it? It is stupid and immature. People like that are losers who are making fun of you for this because they can't find anything else wrong with you.
2007-08-20 20:21:07 · answer #7 · answered by h1u4sxda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man... I felt sorry for you. But try to be patient. When you're old enough, GET THE HELL OUTTA YOUR HOUSE!!
Jessh.. if I were you, I dunno if I can cool myself. About your sis, punch her once. Maybe you'll feel better after that. But do it secretly, ok?
2007-08-20 20:36:01 · answer #8 · answered by L-kuza H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how u born is not really importune, how u grow up is very importune in yr life......r u happy with yr present family if yes...
(break the ice) ignore those silly people....................
2007-08-21 21:55:30 · answer #9 · answered by 1111 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋