2007-08-20 20:28:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Meaning that if a child is disrespectful to his parents would he also turn out to be a bad,disrespectful husband?
2007-08-21 04:47:13 · update #1
(((((Rae))))) yes, a person who disrespects women in his family is bound to disrespect a prospective partner as well. As the guy gets more comfortable with you he will feel comfortable enough to begin to treat you like ALL the other females in his life. So he MAY treat you nicely at first but as time goes on, he wil slowly show YOU that same thing, slowly at first but gradually increasing as he finds his level of comfort with you.
BB,
Raji the Green Witch
2007-08-21 02:51:40 · answer #1 · answered by Raji the Green Witch 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean in terms which one carries more weight in your emotional life? For me, both carry weight, but in totally different ways. A bad, disrespectful partner would either shape up or ship out, or I would ship out. And I don;t mean to sound cavalier about it, but I wouldn't stand for someone who, for example, hurt me, or screamed at me. Counseling would come first, but leaving would always be an option
The same isn't true, for me, about children. They might grow up and acquire some bad and disrespectful behaviors, but that doesn't make them a "bad" kid. (the same could be said for husbands, but my reaction with a husband would b e different.) A child is your responsibility and you can never walk away from that. If a child is acting out, getting aggressive, or whatever, a mother needs to be there, help the child, find out what is wrong, and shine love on the child even more, everyday.
This is just me. You can and should escape a bad adult relationship if the situation call s for it. You must never abandon your child. I can't see how that would ever be an option that would ever ever occur to me.
So, to answer your question, they aren't equal. Children come first for me.
Bright Blessings on this beautiful day!!!!!
Lady Morgana )0(
2007-08-21 04:02:00 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Morgana 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not always. Sometimes it's being a good respectful partner or husband that makes you a bad and disrepectful son. Parents don't always approve.
But being a bad, disrespectful person generally will make one a lousy partner as well.
2007-08-20 21:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
try great Brothers or different teenager companies. join him interior the YMCA, they often have classes designed for young ones and the activities, basket ball, swimming, artwork out issues will do him solid.; solid peer stress and solid grownup supervision in the two it is what he desires. See if the college has a 'mentor' application with somebody over looking a venture he needs to do. the different element is get him a activity..if he's busy he's far less in all probability to grant grief. Re>>suggestions are those: (and please upload or remark on those suggestions – i'm merely attempting to help her out!) • Make him write in very neat printing 5000 cases: "i can not be disrespectful to authority figures." • on the grounds that they stay to tell the tale 5 acres of overgrown land – Make him freshen up the valuables for a minimum of two hours an afternoon. • cut back/bypass over the junk nutrients he likes>>>>> IF he have been 8 and not sixteen a number of this could artwork yet he way previous this as a manner of correcting habit. he's very almost a grown guy. in case you take care of him like a toddler he is going to resent it.
2016-10-08 22:56:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not!
Peer pressure, schools and sin-full mass media mess up our children more than parents' imperfections!
Still, some learned behaviours do mimic the son's home upbringing.
We are proud of our son, and are happy to take the credit Rae, but...
All Glory belongs to our all-knowing God, who is good and changes us day by day. The Holy Spirit indwells our hearts, and is the (only GOOD) "best" part of us!
2007-08-21 01:10:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
rebel rae don't know about disrespect but here's some DV rap
If you're down with God, are you are hangin with the brothers?
Are the boys in the hood rappin to Rapture?
Have the monks gone insane lookin for their zippers?
You ain't no fool, mother told you.
Have no faith? Go with the strippers.
If pole dancing is divine, drop that dime.
Kneel no more, time to score.
2007-08-21 02:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by LordVader 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. you will find that they are more respectful than others as long as they get love, trust and care. Most of the case they do not get love and care from others and thats why they become like this. If you provide that they will be loyal to you and respect you.
2007-08-20 20:45:53 · answer #7 · answered by Life Rocks 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When we live in our families of birth we are training our characters for the future. As much as we might not like to admit it , it is true.
2007-08-20 20:39:03 · answer #8 · answered by Daisy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The old saying is how a guy treats his mom is how he will eventually treat his wife...and this, i must say, is true in all that i have seen.
2007-08-20 21:18:20 · answer #9 · answered by runningbarefoot 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i believe the way a guy treats his mother is the way hes going to treat you. its always like that..if not right away, then eventually.
2007-08-20 20:49:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋