a few weeks ago I felt alot of pain when i went to the toilet but it soon went away. my wife has just started to complain of serious pain when she goes to the toilet. i dont want her to know i was with a prostitute. what can i do??????
2007-08-20 19:21:19 · 26 answers · asked by jazzman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go to your family doctor and tell him you went out of town on a business trip and slept with some woman and caught something. That he need to see your wife and find some minor problem that is not an STD and treat her.
2007-08-20 19:31:56 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
This is what happens when you DON"T use protection! How old are you? Old enough to be married then old enough to know right from wrong...RIGHT? It's not worth dying over, is it? Do you love your wife? Apparently not enough to stay faithful. How would you feel if the situation was reversed? Would you wanna know she was screwing around behind your back? And you didn't use protection? With a ho? What the hell is wrong with you? Are you stupid? Maybe you just don't give a dam. You know what they say....what goes around, comes around! You deserve what you get DOG, I just hope you didn't mess up both of your lives for 2 minutes of unprotected sex with a ho. You need to come CLEAN and tell your wife the truth. That's the real way of owing up to your mistake. Next time KEEP YOUR PANTS UP
2007-08-21 02:41:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you had better come clean with your wife before she goes to the doctor and finds out that way. Either way, I'm afraid that you will have to accept your lumps for your actions. It won't be easy for you I'm sure, but it's time to step up and be a man. Apologize profusely all while telling her that it was the biggest mistake of your life (because it was) and that it will never happen again. Then keep your pecker in your pants in the future. Maybe you can save this marriage, but if not don't blame your wife.
2007-08-21 02:34:18 · answer #3 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to go to the Doc it could just be bacteria, yeast infection, etc anything but if its an STD shes going to know it was you - Wait first then see what the Doc says, if its an STD, start saving your money for the divorce.....Sorry bud but didnt you use a condom? God its bad enough you slept with a prostitute then you did it all "free" like that?!
2007-08-21 02:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both have to go to a doctor. If your wife's doctor wants to talk to you (which is most likely) try to talk to him alone and explain everything. So he can make the correct diagnose and gives the treatment. But I have to say that it is the most stupid thing to have sex with a prostitute without wearing condom. Really stupid. And if you and your wife don't go to a doctor that would be your second stupid mistake.
And as you see I'm not even talking about your disloyalty.
Good luck.
2007-08-21 02:33:47 · answer #5 · answered by Ardelia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
telling her that you slept with a prostitute is the least of your worries. if you passed something to her, then she will know that you were with someone. trust me it won't matter who. now that i answered that...how could u be soooooo stupid to cheat and to obviously be unprotected especially a prostitute? what a shame. tell your wife to go to the doctor so she can find out you gave her some sh*t and leave you sorry butt. i just hope for her sake that it is curable.
2007-08-21 02:35:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow, do I feel sorry for your wife, she married a pig!! Your more worried about her finding out about your disgusting behaviour than her health, you are a real winner!! Tell her the truth so she can get some medical attention, divorce your sorry @ss and forget she ever married a pig like you. Hope your wang falls off!!!
2007-08-21 02:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by Sunny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is very nasty you say you love your wife why would you think about sleeping with prostitute and then go back to your wife thinking nothing happened and your nasty *** catch some nasty disease and you asking people out here what to do my god your married and you don't know nothing about safe sex like you sound like you have no brain like your horniest take over you nasty man! if i was your wife i would beat your *** up and then lock your *** up in jail for a crime like that. Use your brain go to the doctors and tell your wife what you did! she has a right to know what her husband did and what he spread to her! MEN LIKE YOU DISCUSS ME!! you men give good men bad name! GROW UP!!!
2007-08-21 02:56:46 · answer #8 · answered by Red K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it could just be a kidney infection .. but here is what you do .. go to a doctor and tell him what happen and although you feel fine now you would like to get checked out.. they more than likely will draw some blood and do a pee test one you.. wait for the results.. if you come back clean then you know she just has a kidney or bladder infection and you dont have to tell her about what you did. but if it comes out that you have a stds then you will have to sit her down and tell her what happen..
2007-08-21 09:52:56 · answer #9 · answered by vis 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are consequences to cheating. You are discovering them. Unfortunately you dragged your wife into the consequences with you. Pathetic. Tell her the truth so she can get medical care.
2007-08-21 05:13:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋