How do you deal with people who always criticize you and find fault in you?

Question

they are not insulting you, just criticizing you all the time without supporting you for anything

Answer 1

I realise that they are just one of life's no-goers, you cannot expect everyone in life to like you, or agree with you, so I just say "Well, that's your opinion" and have as little to do with them as possible

Answer 2

What SUCKS is that before you married them, they are all wonderful, sweet & nice.
Then afterwards, they became this totally other person in the same body. Like they did a total 360 degree transformation, and you never even saw it coming.

O.M.G. This is making me sick again.

Solution : Seperate yourself from that/those bad energies, YOU are not at fault.
Put yourself into "new" positive surroundings where you can restart fresh, revitalize your health - mind/body/spirit, renew things that you love, gave up, or lost.
In a "new positive light", you will find the only fault you had..... was ever listening to or believing all the gibberish they were feeding you.

Answer 3

Sweetie,
Just let them kno u dont like them criticisin u so much. If it still doesnt change, try to exhibit an attitude where u r happy the way u r and are seldom going to change. Laugh out loud when they criticize u about something. That will definetly give them a clue.

Answer 4

"just criticizing you all the time without supporting you for anything"

In my opinion, that IS insulting.

I try to avoid people like that. I criticize myself enough as it. I don't need anyone else to do it for me.

Answer 5

I don't.. If someone wants to just criticize me all of the time then I don't need to be around them, life is to short to deal with people like this all of the time...

Answer 6

I'd ask them questions that put them on the defensive. Once I got them there, I'd make them analyze themselves to the same degree they felt they needed to criticize me...by the time I was finished, that person would feel like they were about 2" tall and it would never happen again!

Answer 7

first of all, when people keep finding faults with you all the time its a sign that they have issues with themselves. take a good hard look at you, are their claims unfounded? if not listen to them, make a few changes. if what they are saying is total bs then call them on it say hey, i dont like that you keep pointing things out thats wrong with me and i wish you to stop. it could go two ways they can stop and give you more respect from now on or they can continue at which point you cut the out of your life and loose one sourse of stress. good luck

Answer 8

I try not to dwell on cynical people. Life is too short to
Really waste my time on people that are wasting precious air.

I may take a moment to feel sorry for them and realize they are
Weak and only trying to spread Cancer (frowns)>>>Only a moment though
And then I move forward with a smile…….

Best wishes

Answer 9

I find that people that do that, are acutally criticizing themselves, but turning it on to you, escpecially when they have nothing to back it up with. Their using you as their criticiziting tool as you have the qualities their wish they had.

In other words you are near to perfect to them, so just take it with a pinch of salt.

Answer 10

The bet thing to do is avoid them, for in the world they are in they are just showing their faults and weaknesses. In plain English I'm always better than you and I always will be no matter what you do.

Answer 11

do you comprehend my ex-mom in regulation????? I had to realize that her opinion of me did no longer replicate who i'm. That takes an quite long term. comprehend that as quickly as somebody is continuously criticizing you, they're attempting to make you as depressing as they're. they do no longer experience stable approximately them self, so they ought to seem for incorrect in human beings. the suitable way i got here upon to guard it is to be well mannered, smile, and say "thank you, i visit artwork on that." It kills them while they cant ruin you.