Still dream about her?

Question

My ex and I broke up back in early March. She was such a great girl but I felt I was too young for the perfect girl and I broke up with her. She's with someone else now and I think about her all the time. Even last night I had a dream about her and I have dreams about her atleast 2-3 times a week. I'm kind of 'seeing' someone else now, but I'm still madly in love with my ex. She was my first real girlfriend, we were together all throughout college. I don't know what to do. I want to stop thinking about her but it just never ends. It's been nearly 60 days now of depressing thoughts. I just want it to be over. I hate this!! :(

Answer 1

i know it's hard getting through a break up! but just bear with it! you must really of loved this girl! but you may of been a good couple and she must of been as heart broken when you guys broke up, maybe even more than you!

but maybe you miss her because you guys were so good together, or maybe it's because it was your first real girlfriend and went through lots of stuff together!

the best advice i can give you is to ask yourself if you miss her because you are certain you were meant to be, or because she was your first 'real' girlfriend!

goodluck!

Answer 2

You need to decide if you want her back or not. If you do want her back then you need to tell her how you feel. Don't worry about the guy she's seeing now. Life is too short to care about that guys problems. Best case you two get back together and are happy. Worst case she tells you she's not interested. If she does tell you that then you have to move on and knowing that she is no longer an option will help.

If you realize that you don't want her back then problem solved. You can still think about her in the same way you have fond memories of college, or high school, or the first time you got laid. It can just be a happy memory instead of some haunting dreams that make you regretful.

Answer 3

You Were in college and yet you felt you were too young? And you're not now? It's time to grow up man.

If you really and I mean REALLY love her and see a future with her then you need to tell her how you feel. She may still love you.

If you can't see spending the whole rest of your life with her then leave her alone.

If you don't have strong feelings for the woman you are seeing now break it off. It's not fair to lead her on.

It would be a good idea not to see ANYONE if you are in love with the other woman. She won't believe you love her if you are with someone else.

AGAIN, Tell Her how you feel. Both of them.

Answer 4

That is the most common occurrence between men and women ever....not realizing how good a relationship is until we let it slip away, and it works both ways (sometimes they let us get away, sometimes we let them get away). It may help you to know that it happens a lot, and to a great many people...so many in fact, that it seems to be a ritual transition into adulthood, or one of those "lessons" we all have to learn. The bad news is, it may not ever be possible to rekindle anything with her. There's hurt and maybe a sense of betrayal involved, and you've both moved on to varying degrees. But on the upside, you can make sure that you learn this lesson thoroughly from this eventuality so that you're less likely to let the next terrific woman get away from you. (I still regret the one I let get away and that was nearly thirty years ago). Good luck, man.

Answer 5

I am a qualified and certified agent of phsycology. I have had this thing many many times in my officde which is very very expensive and good. I know exactly what you should do.

You are experiencing overdramatic condelescent disorder of homosexuality. You don't know you are gay yet but you will find out all in good time.If you want to speed things up and start being gay a little earlier... start watching gay pornography clips on the internet or buy them from a store near you.

And wack it to ur own buttocks.

Answer 6

Well, you just got to tell her how it feels. Maybe she feels the same way about you. Since you were together for a while you can just in one day get over her. Since it's been 60 days apparently you're not just gonna one day 'oops now I'm over her... oh well.' You still have feelings for her. Just get it off your chest, you'll feel better.

Answer 7

at first you shouldn't be going out at all with the 2nd gf. you should just enjoy the pain and the sadness away from the 1st one. you want it to be over, you can't! 'cos you're still in love with her and since she's with someone else now.. why don't you have a whole day to yourself, and have a good cry in your room.

Answer 8

Maybe you should talk to your ex about it. Obviously don't be too forward since she's seeing someone else, but tell her how you feel. Sounds like you need some closure.

Answer 9

If your still in love with her why not try and give it another chance.... if thats a no go then it takes time to get over someone you love...the best thing to do is listen to what your heart wants you cant control who you love...

Answer 10

hi pal!hey u see where ur immature desicion has taken u pal!!!!!!
well i ll adice u to tell ur gf everything truly
moreover u need to be alittle more sincere wiz her
moreover ur reason for ur breakup was quite immature.........
have a nice & not stressing talk wiz her

& u should accept the her final desicion
& the fact that she s seeing some1 else & not be diassapointed if she refuse to come to u

moreover its ur mistake or blunder ?
so i gess u should accept ur fate......
i wish u luck
happiness
take care
sory if ive been rude to u
bye