How can i tell if this is real, or if its like the others?

Question

ive been in my relationship for about 7 months now and ive never been so happy in my life, i know im IN LOVE WITH THIS MAN,and i dont want to spend the rest of my life without him. he is a great man and loves my 2 year old daughter. but this is his first serious relationship and im afraid he got in over his head and will want out he doesnt have kids and never lived with another woman but he tells me he loves me and will never leave, i want to believe him but nowadays anything can happen right? should i stop worrying?

Answer 1

Honestly, no. Really unless there is a purpose to that relationship that uses the love, more then just love's sake, you've got plenty to be worried about. It comes down to a shared purpose in life that well keep a relationship going to the end, short of that and its only a matter of time before it ends, and this one seems its going to be the most painful of them all. Realize if love was all we need, we wouldn't need divorces at all, but the fact that they exsist proves how we like to feel that romance is all the love we need, its not near the truth. We need a reason, we need a purpose, without which makes us dangerous, and unpridectiable. I wish you the best of luck, but understand that you can't blame people in our world if they do fail you, we only have ourselves to blame.... and unfornuntely you can't blame it on the fact your stupid, ugly, or prowen to bad luck neither, its on you to learn your lessons. Sorry to be this way about it, but I'm about honest, not sugar-coating the issues. We as a species are ALL about love, we love like no other, but just becasue we have love doesn't mean everythings going to work out.....

Hell is paved with good intentions.....