Is this kinda of sacrifice something i shouldn't ask for from my girlfriend?

Question

okay well, it started out before she was going out with me. She was with him for about 10 months and she loved him A LOT. She tells me know its over between them and nothings happening. But when they were going out, just for an excuse to be together her him and two other people made this group named CCCJ. and they spent more time together then, but now they don't because they don't have anymore time to. K but here it is, even though they don't have time to be together out of friendship they see each other rarely in Martial arts. Everyone knows a guy would get jealous if another guy like that was in his girls life. especially when its her ex. so right now present time, her and him are like brother sister. but i dnt know i don't believe the guy. Would asking her to sacrifice seeing him or talking to him be such a sacrifice i shouldn't ask for? I just hate the guy that much, and hate how she talks to him still. What would be the right thing to do?

Answer 1

The "right" thing is just having her communicate honestly about how she feels about him, and to let you as much as possible on the dynamics of the relationship to a point wre you can see how it is a good part of her life. because if it is theres nothing to hide, and your going to love to hear it, if not, problems! Ether way you put it thou a very stressful situation for you unless you can get her to do that for you....

Answer 2

in any relationship, the key is always communication

u should really tell her how u feel about it, but on my point of view, any relationship that is on the borderline of between friends and more stand friends are very insecure of crossing either way, and the connection of the hearts that make a relationship special.

if i were u, i might get out of the relaionship personally, cos i might not want to risk getting hurt , and i dun like messy relationship.