My boyfriend...I mean ex-boyfriend broke up with me two days ago because he felt guilty for makingout with another girl (so much so that he didn't tell me...I had to ask him about it) and that he "feels better being single right now" :( I'm confused about it all even though he says I did nothing wrong...He decided that since I was his "best girlfriend ever" and because he really does love and care about me that we should just be friends...he's coming over for a movie today...and I'm not sure I can handle being "just friends"...should I wait or what? ((Also he honestly seemed to care about me and seemed genuinely sad about the breakup...but now he's back to flirting with girls and such...[not meaningless flirting mind you, flirting with a cause...]...how is it that he can bounce back so easily...but I can't???))
2007-08-20 03:58:19 · 9 answers · asked by Katie-bo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because what he says and what he means is different. He means that you are really wonderful and he cares about you but wants to go out, be single, and experience other girls without hurting you.
2007-08-20 04:03:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww...you are the kind of candy guy! There are not many youthful adult men that care approximately different youthful adult men's thoughts while they try to win over a woman they like; it is quite mature on your area. i think of which you're precise, because she already has a boyfriend, you're able to depart her on my own. approximately Hayley, i might defiantly tell her that i got involved if I have been you. at the start, she likes this guy, yet he's not her boyfriend. She see you greater regularly than she sees him, and he or she already has a relationship with you (as buddies), that should already be greater suitable than the relationship she has with him. Hayley, could have thoughts for you too, yet she might think of which you does not evaluate relationship her, because you saved conversing approximately Alice (incredibly in the event that they seem lots distinctive, or have very distinctive personalities). She could be focusing all of her attentions in this different guy, simply by fact she thinks your heart is unavailable to her. i think of you're able to tell her. If she does such as you (which she could because you look an exceedingly intense high quality guy), you're able to correctly be jointly. If she likes the different guy to lots, to contemplate every physique else, your thoughts should not be too injury (because you already know that's not you, her heart in simple terms belongs to somebody else), and he or she would manage to be flattered which you like her.
2016-11-12 23:48:05 · answer #2 · answered by bojan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy looks like a player to me! I think he has been doing this alot, only that you just realized! Even if you get back together, he will not stop. Thhis will just put you through another heartache, which you dont need. The fact that its hard for you to get over him means that you are really hurting! Which means you loved him alot, but he does not deserve your love. You can not get over a guy you loved in a day. Give yourself time away from him and eventually you will get over him.
2007-08-20 04:18:01 · answer #3 · answered by reallycrazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl try to have some other people while with him to resist any temptation later. For me, Its clear that your bf is a player. What i mean is that he broke up with you and then later on flirts other girls and eventually wants to see you. If you like to fix your relationship with your ex, you have to deal with later on in the future. Its not yet time, cause its been only days then he'll come back again, for what reasons? bec. he just misses you getting laid with no strings attached? ouch. That hurts girl. I think just give him time to realize everything, your worth.. As long as you're there with him and showing him that you're still there for him, he will never realize what mistake he made and your worth.
2007-08-20 04:12:06 · answer #4 · answered by mai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know i'm sure he does love you but he loves other things too. like putting himself in the situtation to cheat on you!
if you DEEPLY loved you he wouldn't not of put him self in ANY sistuation that cheatting could even be brought up!
i think it would be best if you both just stayed friends!~ There really isn't anyting complicated about it!
CHEATERS LOSE if you get back with him he will WIN double his money back.. you can love others and not be with them that is the joy of FEELINGS!
No one said it was easy tho! so Be strong girl i know you can! Keep your head up and DONT lower your standards just because your confused! The right choice is the harder one (Most the times) But you can do it!
2007-08-20 04:06:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still like him, I don't think that being friends is a good idea right now. It will definetly hurt once you see him with someone else. There's also the fact that he dumped you, that hurts... even if you didn't like him thaat much (I'm not saying that's your case). For him to make out with someone else and to break up with you he probably didn't like you enough, or he wasn't really ready for a relationship. It'll certainly be easier for him to move on.
2007-08-20 04:20:10 · answer #6 · answered by RGirll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question. the girls always stay sad for weeks while the guys are up and going the next day. funny thing, but it's just like that. guys always get over things faster
2007-08-20 04:07:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a cheater.
better learn now -- you are better than this. the guy doesn't even deserve your friendship.
guys like this never stop
2007-08-20 04:03:07 · answer #8 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz maybe he got bored with you...stop the movie and talk about it..tell him how you feel..tell him its gonna hurt you bein friends, everytime you look in his eyes you'll wanna cry...then move on
2007-08-20 04:03:41 · answer #9 · answered by ccstangfan2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋