This guy sending me sms and calling me everyday in the first 2 weeks, everything seems so great. Suddenly he stop call me, after 1 week waiting, i call him and he ask me out again but i said no.
After that, I was regret and i want him to call me back again, i send him a non-completed sms and hope he will call me back to ask about that message, but he didn't. So i call him and apologized for sending him that message, however, he sounds piss and cut off my line right after i said sorry.
Is he mad at me, should i call him again, please help. I don't want to lose him.
2007-08-20 04:08:46 · 12 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move on your lost him, see we all play games, look at me i will play hard to get look at me he will call back, well guess what he is not playing he liked you and you messed it up go find a loser in the bar
2007-08-20 04:13:56 · answer #1 · answered by wolfchat_2005 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off, guys aren't like girls -- normally they don't wait around by a phone, waiting for it to ring, or take the TIME to call every single day. When you do something EVERY day it becomes boring. Guys would rather be doing things. Hanging with their buddies, sports, bullshitting with each other, talking about work, etc.
When he finally asked you out, and you said no, that was that. Guys don't understand hints and head games... as far as he was concerned, you don't want him, so he moved on.
And you may not want to lose him... but you already have. You started playing head games with him, whether you knew it or not. Stop going after him every which way, and move on yourself.
Also, if it helps at all -- here's a little known tip about guys. They don't take hints -- they don't know what hints are -- it's just their nature not to know.
2007-08-20 04:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have thought of that when you said "no" to going out with him. After all, why bother calling him (i.e., pursuing him) if you are just going to shoot him down?
Yes, he is pissed, and no, you may not be able to get him back.... However, a good start would be to stop playing games with him so that maybe he can start to trust you again....
2007-08-20 04:12:44 · answer #3 · answered by BK 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you have already lost him and I see why with the head games you are playing! Why do you want him to call you if you are going to refuse if he asks you out, what is the purpose of his calls? Please don't call him again!
2007-08-20 04:15:33 · answer #4 · answered by angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably, why did you say no when he asked you out?
he was probably just tired of making all the moves in the beginning of the relationship, you're going to have to step it up; maybe go to his house as a surprise and bring cookies, that way he can't resist you
2007-08-20 04:16:29 · answer #5 · answered by -->[[Katie]]<-- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to wait for him to call you. He should not be mad because you said how you feel. It was rude of him to cut you off. Are you sure you want to pursue this? If so, as I said, wait for his call. Do not call him!
2007-08-20 04:13:18 · answer #6 · answered by Camille 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that he thinks that you are playing head games with him and he dont want nothing to do with that. i dont think he is mad at you i just think that he dont want any bull ****. call him if you are serious about him and let him know if he still doesnt give you much of a response then dont worry about it anymore just move on.
2007-08-20 04:12:04 · answer #7 · answered by Tara 9600 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be strong enough to talk sraight, such important matters should not be left on gussing; this is only wastage of your precious time.
2007-08-20 04:15:31 · answer #8 · answered by deepak57 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you give mixed messages, playing some games here, and aren't "up front" with the guy
say YES or NO, don't leave him hanging...
being wishy-washy isn't that attractive.
2007-08-20 04:16:42 · answer #9 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just let it go you dont want to sound needy
2007-08-20 04:14:43 · answer #10 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋