Tell me Ladies (why cant men understand women)?

Question

been trying to figure out ladies for quite some time. I am sure i will get lots of people stiring . seems like i can never do anything right, Is this common with all women to men that the men are never right? please give honest answers instead of smarta** answers.thanks

Answer 1

Women and men just don't see things the same or think in the same way. This in not a smart s$$ answer, but I will tell you the same thing I have told my son is the key to stopping an argument with a woman and getting on her good side if she is upset. Say:

"I was wrong, I am sorry, can we talk about it?" then listen to a 15 minute rant while convicing her you are an attentive listener while thinking about something that is of great interest to you (in his case, sports cars) and pretend she is talking about that. Maintain eye contact and nod or grunt non-commitally to at least to pretend to be listening.

A lot of times after the woman has dropped her defenses and dumped her emotional load, she is ready to move on emotionally as she feels her opinion has been heard and cared about.

Answer 2

I don't think men will ever really understand women, or vice versa. Everyone is a unique person. It is more about respect. If there is a mutual respect between two people, they will get along. As for men being wrong, not all women feel this way. It is a knee jerk reaction that women have when in arguments with men. It is the same when men always think women have pms whenever they are mad, not true.

Answer 3

Listen--women and men have different brains and each assumes that the other thinks the way they do. It's not your fault--no one understands the opposite sex. There are definitely some women out there who are "always right"--but I've run into men who are exactly the same way. The good news is there are both men and women out there who admit to being wrong plenty--you might want to ask yourself why you're attracting these kinds of women. We attract certain kinds of people again and again for certain reasons. You might be attracting these kinds of women because you don't have very high self-esteem--in you in manifests as always feeling like you're wrong, but you're attracting women with low self-esteem too who make themselves feel better by finding men they can pick on for always being wrong. Start with you. Start understanding yourself better...and liking yourself better...and my guess is you'll stop attracting women like this. Good luck!

Answer 4

We think on different levels. Women tend to concentrate more on emotions and feelings, and men tend focus on more tactile things like sports, business, ect. Maybe that is why they say opposites attract. Together, if there can be a meeting of the minds, a man and a woman could provide each other with a healthy balanced way to view the world.

Answer 5

no two women are the same. so you could figure one out and know how to deal with her do the exact same things with another one and it be completely wrong. i also think guys try too hard to understand us sometimes when not all of us are as difficult or complicated as others. if you actually take the time to get to know a women it would be easy to understand her. granted there are some crazy ones out there you will never understand. men aren't the easiest to figure out either!

Answer 6

Actually, men and women are quite capable of understanding each other, they simply either often don't agree or don't use the same methods to reach a similar conclusion.

Part of the issue is they stick to their way of reasoning/thinking and don't try to see the situation from the other person's perspective...when you do that, it becomes easier to see how/why someone thinks as they do, even if you don't agree with it.

Answer 7

Become women don't understand men ! ha ha ha lol......
Men can be Right some of time and they can wrong some time but not just Any One it just the way We bought up( In other word Grow-up from)...

Answer 8

no its not always the case that women think men are always wrong but face it,most are.men don't take the time to talk to the woman,find out whats bothering her,why she left you,why she had an affair.if men would take the time to take care of her wants and needs before his maybe things would work out a lot different.women crave attention and affection and don't want to have to ask for you to make love to her,she wants you to initiate it and make her feel like the woman she is.that goes for the women too,some of us slack in that department so we're as much to blame sometimes.women are much more emotional than men and very sensitive to what you say.take time to show her what she means to you.let her know shes loved and wanted as well as needed.

Answer 9

With women we say one thing and mean another.

--No, you don't have to get me anything for my birthday I just want you to be there.

Really means: you better get me something, I dare you to just bring yourself and not a gift.

Men say what they mean. If they say they want chips and beer for their birthday that is what they want.

Women want a prince, a man that always knows what to say and do. We want a mind reader. We see movies like Titanic and The Notebook and think there are actually Jacks and Noahs in the real world.

Just my opinion! :)

Answer 10

Men seem "always wrong" to some women, because the men they choose to be with are insensitive and selfish.
Therefore, they do not listen to what their woman is saying, and that causes a lot of trouble.