This girl I was seeing hasn't been in contact with me for weeks. We had a thing going on for the first couple weeks that we knew each other. I think to her it was a fling. I, on the other hand was finally glad that I was getting something going with ladies in a while. Basically, I think I was used. No calls back. Last time we were together, I remember us having a blast.To leave me hanging and having my confidence hammered down so suddenly, it hurts. Should I move on or wait it out? I think I should go on. What do you ladies think?
2007-08-20 04:30:10 · 15 answers · asked by Choppinsumwood 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on honey! Don't let one chix poor choice hurt your feelings to badly ... in the dating game there are ups and downs and half the time no exact reason for any of them other than timing.
2007-08-20 04:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by Done Cryin' 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should move on. I mean, If you did not show interest in you, it would mean I wasn't interested. I'd say she just wanted a fling and that's all, or maybe she did not even really know what she wanted. Anyway, if she does not even seem to be trying, it's not worth your time. hoped this helped.
By the way, I'm 20 if it makes any difference
2007-08-20 11:36:07 · answer #2 · answered by wingedstrider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ask if you should "wait it out". what is IT? more unreturned phone calls, more ignoring you, more ambivalence about you? i'm not sure what you imagine that you are waiting for, but it isn't her. it is likely the idea of her or the romance you've created in your mind. you admit that she likely didn't view the hookups with the same emotional attachment that you did, so what would make you think that time would change her feelings? she has given you every sign that she isn't interested. if you are still calling her, stop. it is obsessive and creepy and obviously unwanted. remember the good times you had, and stop trying to make more of it. find someone who returns your feelings before you cross into stalker territory.
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2007-08-20 11:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women and men just like to play games without thinking about the other person. Its pretty bad of her not to even talk to you about it but just to stop talking to you, why would you wait? She has shown you that if she wants to end it she wont treat you with respect. Just move on and find someone better and write her off as a lesson, next time talk about what you both want.
2007-08-20 11:47:00 · answer #4 · answered by kitty_witty18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry to hear that this happened to you. Girls like this give other girls a bad rep. Basically, if she isn't talking to you anymore, and just dropped off the face of the earth, she's seeing someone else. She probably has completely forgotten about you as well. I know it's horrible to think about, and I can't stand people that do it, but it happens to the best of us. If she comes back, tell her she lost her chance, and that you want nothing to do with her. She'll get the hint, and walk away with a bruised ego, just as you had to.
2007-08-20 11:41:59 · answer #5 · answered by Shawnne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your turn to figure out what to do. What do you do, when you don't get a call back? And what does it do to your self esteem, to feel used? How can you know if the person cared at all, when they've left you hanging without a clue? And how do you deal with the pain? You guys have been putting women through this crap for years. You've played with their affection and completely ruined their sense of well being. Now it's your turn. Figure it out for yourself, my friend.
2007-08-20 11:47:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. There surely is someone else better out there for you, is there not? If she hasn't contacted you in a while and isn't answering you contacts then she has moved on. You need to too.
2007-08-20 11:35:42 · answer #7 · answered by gorgeous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her. She is up to no good. She is probably thinking you are just a "friend type" or she has another man in line. Don't wait on her.
2007-08-20 14:16:55 · answer #8 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go on. Even if she wasn't using you, cutting off contact with you for weeks shows lack of care. God bless.
2007-08-20 11:34:09 · answer #9 · answered by wizball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No girl interested in you would be so rude as to not call in weeks. Forget her. Her lack of courtesy should tell you enough.
2007-08-20 11:44:50 · answer #10 · answered by BIRDY85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋