i have a problem...
i have known this boy since we were little, like 2, and haven't seen or heard of him since about a month ago. he lives about 45 minutes away from me. we emailed a little bit but that was all...and then he mentioned he wanted my #...so i gave it to him. he called me and we talked a lil bit. we were just like old friends...but then he mentioned going to the movies sometime...i dont want to go to the movies...there are ppl i like at the same school with me...please help. what can i do? i dont want to hurt his feelings..but were not 16 so it would be really weird if we went to the movies or something...i just dont want to hurt his feelings! please help me!i dont want to go anywhere with him...or lead him on...but i cant hurt his feelings!
2007-08-20 04:32:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him you want to keep on a friendship level.
2007-08-20 04:39:33 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is some wise advise. I know asking him straight out if he just wants to be friends is hard (best answer). So, a good idea is to talk to him as a friend and maybe tell him about someone you like (even if the person doesn't exist, remember sometimes you have to tell a small lie to not ubset someone). This will give him a clue that you are consoling in him as a friend and you can also feel out his reaction to see if he likes you. I think though that he will get the picture.
2007-08-20 11:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by beak41 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't 2 friends go to the movies together? Ask him if he wants to be friends or more, and then tell him what you think of him.
2007-08-20 11:36:49 · answer #3 · answered by Narb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest that a girl friend or two come with you, and if he doesn't mind then you can keep it in the friendship zone. If he insists, then say that you really really want to be his friend because you think he's an awesome person, just not your type.
2007-08-20 11:40:28 · answer #4 · answered by mingoril 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just wants to spend time with you as a friend... Ask him about it... Or just tell him up front that you aren't interested in a relationship right now, but that you'll be glad to hang out with him just as a friend. Just because you go to the movies with him doesn't mean that you're dating him. And just because he's asked you to go with him doesn't mean that he's asking you out on a date...
2007-08-20 11:41:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you either want a friend or you don't.friends can go to the movies and not be more then friends.try to go as a group.
2007-08-20 11:40:24 · answer #6 · answered by granny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so your saying you dont want him as a friend? you dont want to go anywhere with him?
tough luck, your gonna lose a friend maybe
2007-08-20 11:36:45 · answer #7 · answered by D-Unit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell him that be a grown woman.
2007-08-20 11:38:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋