Ive been seeing a guy I really like for three months but recently we decided ( I didn't want to) to take a break for a month as he told me he split up with his ex a few weeks before we met and needs time to heal, he says he doesn't love her but felt like he did not get the time return to his single status before embarking on another relationship. He doesn't want me to leave him but wants time to clear his head and when its done he told me he wants to start our relationship properly. I understand all this but can a relationship be successful if this kind of thing is happening?
2007-08-20 02:07:43 · 12 answers · asked by carmen260 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, the first year or so of a relationship is meant to be like the "honeymoon" stage.
DO u really want to look back on ur life and realise how much time you wasted with this guy who doesn't even want you while you're passing up opportunity with guys who actually WANT you?
2007-08-20 02:16:52 · answer #1 · answered by jeska102 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly.
I was in a similar situation back in the Spring. I had been dating this one guy for about 2 and a half months and then we decided to take a break for a few weeks. I was never sure about the relationship, but had decided to stick it out and hope for the best (It was after 2 weeks that I started feeling that way). It was actually me that wanted the break, because I was interested in someone else and had realized that I never liked the guy in the first place. I had just gotten out of a relationship when I met him, so it was a drawn out rebound. After the break I told him it was over for good. The break was simply a time for me to figure things out and to give him a hint at what was coming next. Needless to say, we haven't spoken since.
I'm sorry. But I doubt that your relationship with this guy is going to continue. Be prepared for the worst.
2007-08-20 03:15:01 · answer #2 · answered by Lucie<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it sounds to me like he wants his freedom for awhile. Why if he loves you would he want a months break from you. If he needed time to clear his head why has this only surfaced three months into the relationship.
I could be wrong but it sounds to me like his 'single' status is an excuse to play the field, I could be wrong but I think he is going to cheat on you and at a guess dump you.
Hope I'm wrong but please take care of your heart before it gets damaged.
2007-08-20 02:18:32 · answer #3 · answered by Tom M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After only three months you want a break huh? well walk away and find someone new.. otherwise you are in for a very rocky relationship and most probably a broken heart.
2007-08-20 03:17:55 · answer #4 · answered by robert x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me he got you on the rebound, forget him why would you want someone who has just ended something with someone else so soon. They cant possibly be over that person yet. If he is like that imagine how he will treat you!
2007-08-20 05:26:47 · answer #5 · answered by bluebell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has baggage he has done you a favour maybe it doesn't feel like that today you need to go out yourself what will be will be good luck
2007-08-20 03:00:37 · answer #6 · answered by RAINBOW 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...its the end of what was a new relationship
2007-08-20 02:14:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not so early I don't think so. Give him up. If he wants you he'll have to do the running.
2007-08-20 04:25:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, jus end it.
Get someone new, someone better. Then rub it in his face lol!
2007-08-20 02:16:23 · answer #9 · answered by jellytot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's the end of one. Count on it.
2007-08-20 02:14:44 · answer #10 · answered by ANGUS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋