What do I say to a girl............?

Question

just walkin down the street.?
I always see girls just walkin around that I wana get at but don't kow how to start and break the ice.

I'm a black teenager so plz nobody say stuff like start with the weather or just say hi. I really need to know how to get past that tension.

Also I don't wanna hear U shouldn't get at random girls just anywhere because it happens all the time.

race does matter black girls in my rough neighborhood react differently than the white girls on the north side trust me I've seen it.

Answer 1

try smileing at them first

Answer 2

This never works. Being black or a teenager has nothing to do with it. The fact is, most normal girls find being approached by some random guy in the street a bit creepy. My advice: go get a hobby where you'll meet girls and have the opportunity to actually talk to them before advancing to the "asking out" stage. You've got to have some kind of social link before making your move.

Answer 3

Growin' up on the streets of New York I know that "hi" or talking about the weather is extremely lame out here and the girls in New York know full well that that's just lame and they don't even wanna deal with you once you try something like that. They'll simply walk away.

The way to get their attention is through your surroundings, basically being aware of what's around you and anything significant that they have on. For example, if she's wearing an ankle bracelet and you REALLY have nothing to talk about, you can go on that. "Wow, that ankle bracelet looks real nice, where'd you get it?"
"Why you wanna know for?" (usual answer)
"Looks like somethin' I'd get for a good friend of mine, we've been friends for a while" (This gives you social proof, because she knows that YOU know other girls and can simply get another girl).

Another thing that can help you is if they're having a conversation with their friend and you jump in with something humorous, that'll get you in big time.

Answer 4

Thinking of some I've had pulled on me before. hm

I've heard it's not safe for a beatiful lady to be walking alone could I be of assistance walk with you. Ofcourse as you are walking mayhaps get a phone number and or date at the same time. If the lady isn't walking maybe I've always heard a woman shouldn't travel alone may I be of assistance and keep you company.

I may add more later this one tends to work.
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Answer 5

just a simple how are you doing today and you can throw some "G" into it adding beautiful or something to get them to smile. whatever you do please dont do the "smile ma, it aint that bad" thing i personally hate that. Have a little eye contact and come off strong but not to much.

Answer 6

Walk up to them and give them a line that's going to make them laugh. If you can make a woman laugh you can pretty much make them do anything. Just be creative but most importantly be yourself!

Answer 7

Surely don't start with: Have you ever had sex? Cause it's the worst question...
I think that you can anyway try with "Hi!What's goes around"....or something spontaneous like I'm...nice to meet you...
Just try you best and don't be shy...

Answer 8

start off by saying hello and introducing yourself. complement her on her outfit. Ask her how her summer has gone. Find out where she goes to school, you may know the same people.

Answer 9

I've heard black guys say, "Hey Mama, bring those big white thighs over here."
Seemed to work for them, but since I'm white, I don't think it would work for me.

Answer 10

ok. you shouldnt be finding random girls you wanna "get at".
thats rude and girls dont want to be harassed while walking down the street.