how would u feel if ur parents want u 2 marry some whom u don't like?

Question

how would feel if u like someone and u want 2 marry him/her
but ur parents want u 2 marry someone else then how would u feel will u tell ur parents or will u just marry him/her ur parents choose

please tell me what will u do tell ur parents or marry the person whom u don't like 2 marry
(u can suggest amy thing thx)

Answer 1

Of course you don't marry the person you don't want to marry. Frankly, it's not any of your parents' business who you marry. They don't have a choice in the matter. You have to do what you want to do. You only live once, and you don't want your life to be miserable because you didn't choose do do what makes you happy

Answer 2

I don't know how old you are, but you come across as too young to marry. Is there something your parents do not like about the person you love?
One of my children married a person of her own choice (whom we knew was lazy ) and has since regretted it. He has turned out as we predicted not to hold a job for long and to sleep as much possible.
Unless you come from a culture where your parents choose for you, I suggest you hold off on any commitment at this time.
Maybe you could concentrate on your career for the present and put marriage on the back burner.
Good luck and much happiness in the future you choose.

Answer 3

sweety! marry the one YOU like, do you know how many parents cant stand the person their child marries? that is something you draw the line on, it isnt their life if they like that person so much they can marry them. this is the rest of your life you are talking about. calmly sit down with your parents and explain that you cant be unhappy for the rest of your life and wonder what would have happened 'if'. marriage is a serious commitment, just make sure the one you choose is going to be the right one...too many first marriages are ruined b/c two people didnt understand what it was about, trust me Ive been there. if you still cant cool things off between you and your parents try NOT getting married for a while, eventually you will be mature enough to know which one you want and your parents will see this too.

Answer 4

I married a man that i loved and chose
i wouldnt marry someone that i wasnt 100% happy with
if your parents wont reason with you, then u gotta act really unattractive towards this guy, look and act like an idiot in front of him and he will get put off you
dont marry this guy that u dont love, cos after u marry someone they usually annoy u more so if u start out unhappy then youll end up a miserable mess, xxxxxxxxxxx

Answer 5

Maybe you should delay marrying anyone for while. Tell your parents you want some more time just to be yourself, and you're not ready to be anyone's wife/husband. Are you able to spend time with the two people in question? Perhaps you need to get to know them both better before you make any decision. Our parents are often wiser than we think when we are young, but marriage is a life long commitment and no one should have to spend their life committed to a relationship that doesn't make them happy.

Tell your parents that you are not ready for this big commitment and ask them to please not pressure you into making a choice at this time. Tell them that you need more time to think and to grow up so that you can make a mature and responsible commitment when the right time comes. Hopefully, they will respect you for making this reasonable, responsible, and mature request.

Answer 6

Make your own choice.

If you follow your heart, you could have a strained relationship with your parents for a while. It won't be easy to do this, particularly since you present yourself in your question as being extremely young.

If you do what your parents wish, you will be living with someone you don't like, day in and day out. That is a fate worse than death, because there's no escape except divorce. If you're living in a family that still believes in arranged marriages, divorce is likely not an option.

Answer 7

think about it deeply first. if you marry your parents choice, you don't love him & may fall in love gradually for whom he really is, & your parents will surely support you in any case.
but if you marry the one you are now in love with, you've both broken your parents heart & you'll receive no support if sth happen or you be turned down by your lover.

try to know your guy as much as possible, & explain everything to your parents & take any effort to convince them if you see he is a suitable case. then look at your parents' choice at every aspect ,ask them to explain the results of each one for you. then decide logically.

with the best wishes , good luck

Answer 8

Oh I sure would not let them pick my husband....That should be only ur choice not theirs after all its gonna be u that is living with that person not them ....you are your own self and u have every right in this world to marry whom u choose to marry so do what you feel not them

Answer 9

in my case, i wont marry anyone that i can never love or like. that is because i already hav someone whom my heart is with, which is similar in your case. tell your parents, let em know. i am sure if they really love you, they will accept it and move on. what is most important is that they just want you to be happy. you can never be happy, marrying, living someone that never and never will mean anything to you.
i think all you need to do now is sit down with your parents. & talk.

i wish you all the best in pursuit of your happiness.
keep the smile up, it will help. (:

Answer 10

1st of all, I would really feel angry, sad & devasted... but I must take control because it is my life... so what I would probably say to my parents if this will happen to me is --- " I am in love with someone else and if you asked me to marry someone I do not love then my life will be wasted. I will not be happy and it will destroy me. Please remember that I am the one who will live with the person for the rest of my life so it is my RIGHT to choose whom I am going to marry"...