k so my girlfriend just broke up with me about an hour ago. we were together but every month we would breakup cuz we would want to see other people. ok so now its summer i havent seen her and she says oh i wanna break up cuz i never see you and i said its becuase u dont call me (i call her though..she never answers) so i was like were over, ok fine. then she texts me an says were cool right? i feel so mad! this ever happen to any1. she says when school begins we r gonna resume the relationship. i dont want to cuz i dont want to break up every month. can any1 help me move on.? thanks. also is she wrong for acting like thatt asking if were cool or am i just angry?
2007-08-20 16:18:49 · 22 answers · asked by Chuck Cartalono 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please grow up and move on...the World doesnt revolve around this B*tch does it?? if it does then whats her name, i got a few questions for her. But i know it doesnt. So tell her, enough is enough. schools gonna start, and im gonna do things different this year. If u have a network of the same friends, cut a few loose so u dont feel obligated to be around her. You know what You have to do even though u may not want to but, its whats best.
2007-08-20 16:26:14 · answer #1 · answered by bostonzerosix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a person that needs to have someone all the time. She wants her cake and eat it too. Basically you are being used. When there is no one around she can count on you being there. If that's what you want, so be it. Personally I would not settle for second best. If your not happy with this then don't settle for it. Move on. Let her know that you are done with her. Then go find someone and have a real relationship. A real relationship means being commited to each other. Trusting one another. Sharing with one another. Being there for one another, always. Having consideration for one another. She is not ready to settle for just one or be in a relationship. I would say to, move on. Good luck.
2007-08-20 16:35:07 · answer #2 · answered by darlene z 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's acting like love is a game, in my opinion. I don't think she has any right to treat you like a toy that she can always get back at if her other lil toys don't satisfy her. You have a right to be mad. As for moving on, i dont see how you can even like a girl who's been using you. I'm sure if yo ucan see that what's she's doing is wrong, you deserve much more than what she's offering. There are other girls out there, nicer, and more understanding ones.
2007-08-20 16:27:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell u the truth this girl sounds like she don't know what she wants in a boy if u guys breakup every month then that kinda says u guys don't wanna be in a relationship no because if u two were really feeling each other u guys wouldn't want to break up every month yes she is wrong for acting like she is just move on and don't waste your time on girls like her who don't wanna be please live your life and left her fall and realize her mistake of losing a boy who really like her
2007-08-21 05:46:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds selfish. you don't break up with someone you care about to have a couple flings and then get back together with the person you are comfortable with. don't answer her calls or texts and let her think about what she is missing for a while. in the mean time go out and meet a nice girl who will appreciate you!
2007-08-20 16:25:47 · answer #5 · answered by Erica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you have every right to be angry. You deserve better!
My advice is: Cut her off. Sounds like she doesn't deserve a relationship or a friendship with you. The best way to not get hurt more is to completely cut off communication with her.
I know where you're coming from. It ---will--- get better......
Best of luck. :-)
2007-08-20 16:28:19 · answer #6 · answered by Gracie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me ? This girl knows you are a pushover. you need to just tell her that she is right and that its over , not just until school starts but forever. This girl will keep hurting you because she has no thoughts about your feelings at all and you keep letting her get away with it.
2007-08-20 16:27:28 · answer #7 · answered by BILL 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she just wants to be with you when she doesn't have anything better to do. Find someone else who is interested in building a relationship.
2007-08-20 16:26:41 · answer #8 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find A New Girl
2007-08-20 16:24:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her. I don't see how you can stand to break up every month! If you don't want to be with her, then tell her so. But if you want to be with her, tell her that. Dose it bother you that you and her break up every month? If so you should talk to her about that also. I hope you the best with this.
2007-08-20 16:28:10 · answer #10 · answered by maggot_eyes 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋