the main reason perhaps was i met my old college friend and realised we had so many things in common, and that there's so much more to know about life. i now have intention to leave my husband but certainly not for this old friend. i just feel i can't go on in my marriage when i don't feel anymore love for him and that our interests and needs have changed. we don't talk anymore as we don't share anything in common. i was a traditional wife and felt trapped and unappreciated. (thank God i realised it but only after 22 years). i feel happiest when i am with my four children.
2007-08-20 18:59:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell your husband how you are feeling. He may be feeling the same way.
Did you know you was out of love with your hubby before you met up with your old friend?
Anyway life is to short to waste it, esp if you know the marriage wont work.. I for one would think about counseling first.
Good Luck, faith
2007-08-20 19:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by faith♥missouri 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I was like your husband. It was never my intention for her (my wife) to feel as you have expressed. Her happiness is all that mattered, matters, and will matter- my happiness rests there too. It is a crazy little thing called love.
It is unfortunate that sometimes couples do not speak the same language of love. We love, but the other does not get it.
Good luck!
2007-08-20 19:49:12 · answer #2 · answered by each may believe differently 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so sad. but you are right if you are unhappy and can't make it and hes like what he is well go and be happy. i know the kids will realize what is up after you sit and talk to them.
2007-08-24 17:17:31 · answer #3 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋