Ok, my girlfriend went with her family to another state for some time, it is now 5 weeks, we have contact through msn and myspace, phone. Ok, when I enter her myspace, there is some guy writing her comments like "My love, why so lost?" or "My life, love you."
She writes him back comments saying "Love you!" and she writes me comments saying "Hope you are ok" I write her I love you comments, but she doesnt to me.
Ok, and then, when I once connected to msn, her picture had the face of the guy and I told her who he was, she responded "Its my cousin."
Next day, I checked the mans profile to see what was the first comment my girlfriend left him, and this was it " Hello! I can see you and I have similarities, Nice to meet you! Take Care!"
Ok, that being her first comment to him...ARE THEY COUSINS????? Obvious they are not!! She lied to me, what do i do?? What are your opinions??
2007-08-20 18:30:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am sorry. It not your fault. It is obvious that you are not measuring up. It is me, and we are not cousin.
2007-08-20 18:35:30 · answer #1 · answered by SO_CAL 4 life 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If they are not in the same area, she is not cheating. I play around with guys on myspace all the time. Facebook and MySpace cause social drama, try not to take them serious because in reality it is "just the internet" but I know from experience that is a hard thing to do. Inform her that her actions are disrespectful to your relationship and tell her the lies MUST STOP NOW!!!
2007-08-20 18:37:24 · answer #2 · answered by Soo Hurt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can't be positive because i dont know your girlfriend, but I dont think the relationship is worth fighting for. Obviously she lied to you which means that even if you tried to work it out you would have a hard time trusting her. This would make it pretty much impossible to have a healthy relationship with her.You deserve someone who will be faithful to you and if she has to lie about some guy then she obviously is not doing so.
2007-08-20 18:38:37 · answer #3 · answered by RiverT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is checking out other guys... Cousin wouldn't comment on eachother like that. Think the relationship through, have a serious talk about where to go from here...
2007-08-20 18:38:07 · answer #4 · answered by Smile2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know if she's cheating or not but even that person was her cousin why would she write like i love you and that guys also..she should know that you will go to my space/on line to see her site and ask questions on whats happening but she take it like nothing is happening what kinda girlfriend is that..if she was just joking then she should have told you maybe she just wants break up from you just dump her and find a better girlfriend,..
2007-08-20 18:47:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go jumping the gun just yet,,first try to find out who he really is,,talk to your girlfriend first ask her where he lives ,,or if he is one of the family member she is visiting,,try to get out as many answers that you can,,at the same time you know that they are all lies,,then you make a fake profile and say your a girl and message that guy and see what you can get out of him,,,compare the answers and see what happends,,i know this sounds like what a girl would do ,,but you never know what you might find out,,good luck
2007-08-20 19:03:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's already dumped you. You are writing I love you to her and she is writing I love you to someone else. She's lying to you so you need to move on. This girl is a waste of your time.
Is she new to internet, myspace, dating, etc? If so, maybe she isn't used to all the attention from guys and she's reallyl enjoying it. Again, you need to move on.
2007-08-20 18:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who cheat are garbage, plain and simple. What do you do with garbage? Do you take it to bed with you? No, you take it out and leave it by the curb.
You've wasted enough time and effort on the skank. It's time to hose off the smell of the ho' and move on with your life.
Just keep in mind, not every girl out there is going to be like this worthless piece of a$$.
2007-08-20 18:36:47 · answer #8 · answered by Mika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like this one is done and over with dude. cousin? do you really believe that one? get on with your life and don't waste any more time with this one...if she had any respect for you at all she would have told you, or broken up with you at the very least....she's a player and doesn't care whether you know or not, so why are you bothering giving her a second thought?
2007-08-20 18:35:00 · answer #9 · answered by #1 bossman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that you are not gonna deal with her bull ****, and tell her you are thru with her. It is obvious that she is lying to you and you shouldn't be dealing with that. Put her in her place and move on my friend. I know it is hard to believe that the person you care about is lying to you and you don't want to believe it but its better you break it off with her now before you get even more attached to this women. Good Luck!
2007-08-20 18:39:43 · answer #10 · answered by thedim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope I'm wrong if she loves him and wishes him the best as he says he loves her actually she and you are cheating on the man she loves. Good Luck Moving On.
2007-08-20 18:43:48 · answer #11 · answered by D Guru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋