Okay, me and my ex-boyfriend broke up a really long time ago and we haven't talked at all (well sometimes when i called him). When we dated I was underage and I wasnt "allowed" to date him so it was really hard to see each other but he always said that he was going to wait for me until I turned 18. But then we broke up when I was 18 because we used to fight so much because he would lie to me about dumb stuff! he acts like a really big %^&*@#! when he is around his friends, like he doesnt care about me, but when its just me and him talking he is alot nicer. (But alot of guys do that) Anyways he has a girlfriend who goes away to school in a different state and I heard through the grapevine that she is a snob, a slut, and she cheated on all of her ex boyfriends! What should I do to try and get him to talk to me? I miss him so much & I really believe that we are meant to be together! Has anyone ever dated there ex again after breaking up for a while?? Please help!!
2007-08-20 18:53:33 · 13 answers · asked by BreakTheIce 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your only in this state because you dont have another guy.
stop moping over him and get out and meet other people. the minute you meet the new mr right, this guy will be a distant memory.
you can wait 3 years or 3 weeks, its up to you as to how long you wanna feel miserable.
2007-08-20 18:58:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many of the problems you may be facing could be just the tip of the iceberg on what is really happening in your marriage. I dont mean to scare you but many problems when they either first show up or if they keep reoccurring could be just whats showing from a larger problem that either you or your spouse cannot even see. One of the only things you can do to help is to talk honestly and openly with each other in the marriage. If things become more serious more serious options need to be looked at as possibilities. I have a blog that has more information on some of what I've been writing about. If you feel like checking it out I would completly suggest it. Read here https://tr.im/yJuWL
Love is a choice that is made everyday when you wake up and every night when you go to sleep. Some days you may not feel the original feeling but love isnt a feeling or an emotion. Its an action a verb. Falling out of love may just mean you need to spice things up a little or that you were never in love in the first place. Don't just get out of a marriage just because you don't think you like the person anymore.
2016-07-18 16:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by lee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I miss my ex, I think about him quite often, but we still remain very close friends. So that is probably why I think about him... I do miss the good times we shared and our life together.... we were together for 3 years. We just both needed to get away from each other to grow up and help ourselves. If I wasn't married I would probably give it another try now that we both have grown up more. But in the end we drag each other down because we both have our "vices" and we would enjoy them to much together. I'm not talking about sex either... in the beginning yes we both thought about each other, but we had a pretty bad break up and didn't speak for like 2 months... I still care about him, I still love him and I'm glad that we didn't lose the friendship because we make really really good friends.... romantically we were great too... i suppose it's because we were young and immature.... we were both 19 and stayed together till 22..... anyway the answer is yes... i think most couples think about each other when they break up and you always wonder if things would work now... But i met my husband and consider our break up a good thing... i'm so much better off now.
2016-04-01 09:22:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omgosh! this is kinda what im going through. i started dating him when i was 16 and now i'm 20. i miss my ex so much. when i read this i thought of me and my ex. how strange! if you read my recent ? it's kinda similar. i really miss him but were both with other people now. i wish i could get back with him but i feel like he's never coming back to me. my ex acted the same way when he was around his friends! you sound like you lived my life! how strange. we totally relate on this subject! if you want to contact me email me! i would not mind at all trying to help you through this. i know it's so difficult!!! hang in there.
***we broke up because we fought all the time too over stupid crap! this could not be anymore weird!***
2007-08-20 18:58:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call him sometime and ask him how he's doing. Don't talk a bunch of stuff about his girlfriend, even if you heard all that stuff about her...it could all just be rumors.
Just talk to him and tell him you miss him. Or if that's too hard, then just find out how he's been, and let him know how you've been. If you just talk to him it'll be easier for you to let him know later that you want to try the relationship again.
2007-08-20 18:59:34 · answer #5 · answered by Ann V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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They might realize they need you and come crawling back!
If you do get back together, don't let the same issues that destroyed your relationship crop up again. Have a good, long talk about how you're both going to make it right this time.
2015-01-28 12:02:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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This is probably the most important part. With texting, you can stop and think about what you want to say to your ex at each step of the way. Instead of reacting emotionally, you can take your time, figure out the right thing to say (I’ll give you most of it), and be strategic with your ex without saying something that you’ll regret.
2016-04-23 10:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you really want him back? You need to really evaluate want it is about him that you love and miss because you said he lies to you, and that he acts like a whatever when hes with him friends. One he shouldn't treat you good or like you said nice when its convenient for him. But through all that if you really want him back. call him and just tell him what you want the worst he can say is no
2007-08-20 19:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by Simply D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First your are crazy. Second you will never realize your crazy until you contact the guy and then realize that there are tons of other guys out there you like more...
So, give him a call. Don't email! You will never get what you want with a email...
2007-08-20 18:59:36 · answer #9 · answered by no g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to move backwards. Unless you are extremely secure in yourself. You will have too many unanswered questions, many of which you will not even want to know the answer to. Too much has happened since you split. You will have questions about his gf and why she might have been better than you, etc.. That leads to plenty of arguments..
2007-08-20 18:59:21 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋