Family & Relationships - 27 July 2007

2007-07-27 09:51:41 · 26 answers · asked by 1919 3 in Singles & Dating

for tonight?

2007-07-27 09:50:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I do!!!!

2007-07-27 09:49:27 · 9 answers · asked by Hunter MClendon 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well there is this girl and we went out for 3 years i still like her very much. i just can;t stop thinking about us. i keep thinking she still likes me and i can't get any of the memories out of my head. she is like the only thing i think about. what should i do?

2007-07-27 09:48:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he will walk around for days and not talk to me .. and say it has nothing to do with me,, or i am not the problem but when ever he decides to talk.. he blows up at me about all kind of things from days to months ago.. " i should have done this.. why didnt you do that.. this is the last straw " and I try not to cry but I am thrown off guard and often dont even know where he's coming from or how he could say he loves me and be so angry about a lot of nit picky things that I dont even remember..
If he asks my opinion and I try to say how I feel he just blows it off and says.. I dont have anything to complain about..

i feel like I walk around on egg shells.. and when I think we are doing fine "BOOM" he blows up out of the blue again.. i am constantly confussed.. i dont know whats real or not anymore

I dont know what to do.. know he says he loves me.. but why do I feel so lonely and dead inside...

2007-07-27 09:47:41 · 36 answers · asked by confussed05 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so this is what happen, my bf wanted to take me to a trip to the amusement park, but the thing is I already made plans with my best friend. He got pretty mad and was saying things like I was in love with my best friend, who is a male. I love my best friend just not in the way he thinks I do. We got into a big arguement and he left in fury. In the end he gave me an ultimaum: me or him? I chose me best friend...was I wrong to do so?

2007-07-27 09:47:36 · 21 answers · asked by Emily 2 in Singles & Dating

I need some advice my bf has been critizing me for a few days and acting really odd we live together and have a son and he always said to come in to his work and pick up some clothes and what ever I wanted so I did will all I hear when he gets home is how cool the girls he works with and one girl he said that she was really cool and i did meet her once and she was not very nice to me and so I go into the shop and he acts all strange and stuff and so when i went in the girls were all staring at me and smiling and stuff all really helpful and i felt really uncomforable so i left after pickingup my things and so I thought I was being paraniod or something and so I went on line today to check my e mail and found he has been checking out their pages on myspace and so I just started crying because I never get jealous or anything but him picking me apart and he asked if I thought this one girl he works with was cool and if I liked her and I better because he thinks she iscool so what do do

2007-07-27 09:47:11 · 2 answers · asked by kutiepye28 3 in Singles & Dating

Use a type of food, object, or anything to describe the best and worst taste you have had when giving oral to a girl.

2007-07-27 09:45:58 · 9 answers · asked by Grimm 3 in Singles & Dating

we were a very very conservative Indian family,,where ne discussion abt relationships is an absolute taboo..let alone sex and sexuality
i am 32 ..and single.while both my sisters(my age) r married for several yrs now and have babies
my ques is regarding one of the gurls who is married and settled in Australia.she came down in 2000 for 3 months on leave from her job and she casually talked abt a Turkish guy (she even spelt out his name) in her office.Now the ultra conservative thta our family is..my father didnt like that too much.but he kept quiet.This though isnt the issue..
A few days she was at our place for a stay over ..abt twice ..she received calls ON OUR LANDLINE(there were no cell phones here back then)..where she got all flustered ..talked in hushed monosyllables..and put the phone down.Now i know of it coz one of those calls i just happened to pick and it was sum guy from Australia asking her by her name
I havent told dad abt the calls..she pretended it was business
cal

2007-07-27 09:45:24 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well im 14 and so is my best friend.

she uses myspace everyday. (she is myspace addict) i told her myspace isnt safe and facebook is better (i have and most people have facebook)

she met this guy on myspace. she told me "they have so much in common" hes 15.

she wants to MEET HIM SOON!!!!! isnt that stupid.

i told her "look if you want to get raped go ahead, but im telling you dont meet this creep"

i just dont want her to get hurt. what else can i say to change her mind. If this guy does anything to her he will be hearing from my fist!

i just have this bad feeling if she meets him somethign will happen

2007-07-27 09:44:29 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I both share a similar fantasy of having a threesome, and we've in fact talked a great deal about doing it... The problem is how does one initiate a threesome. We were wondering are there places to go or is there a recommended approach to initiating one if we see someone we both like?

2007-07-27 09:43:03 · 15 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Singles & Dating

If you NEVER had a bf or gf in middle school and high school please answer my questions.

1.) Did you finally get a bf or gf and if you did how old were you?
2.) Did your bf or gf not want to be with you because you never had a relationship before? What did he/she say about that you not having a relationship before?
3.) On what date did your first bf or gf ask you how many relationships you had in the past? (Ex. first date, 2nd date, never...etc.)
4.) Does not dating in MS and HS affect your dating later on?
5.) Did any of your family make fun of you or call you lesbian/gay because you didn't date?
6.) If someone never talks about the opposite sex with their parents but they do with their friends, will their parents start to think they are lesbian/gay even though they aren't?

2007-07-27 09:42:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

From all the books I've read and things I see and hear, I really think Marriage has a deeper more special meaning to a woman than it does a man? Do you think so?

2007-07-27 09:40:15 · 24 answers · asked by Housecat 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so its not like i want him to be on top of me 24/7 but a call would be nice. He usually starts work at 5 in the afternoon and somehow he cant find the time to talk to me =/ why is that? I really care about him and i just want to communicate with him, i wanna talk to him i just dont know what to do. Just recently something bad happened in his house it was huge and very dramatic for him i could tell and he didnt even want to talk about it with me. I thought i was his girlfriend, what happened to honesty and trust??

2007-07-27 09:40:08 · 6 answers · asked by Clueless 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-27 09:39:20 · 36 answers · asked by I Wanna Know 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Basically me and my wife have separated. I really miss her...she asked for the split...painful for both of us and kids...no one else involved...after17 yearstogather I guess routine took its toll and we forgot about our selves...she says she does not love me but has still extreme deep feeling for me...she says she could never love anyone else like she did me...doesn't take the pain away...been7 months....miss her and the kids...is there a chance she may oneday realise that she still loves me? HELP!!!!

2007-07-27 09:38:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the other day i walk in on my husband doing cyber sex. when ask some close friends they believe that it was not cheating. they say how do you cheat with the words that you say. my thoughts say that you could cheat with words. how do you tell someone sexual things then say that it no harm . do u out there think im been over emotions. can i feel that someone is online talking sex when there wife in the same house with him. this to me is so unbelieveable.

2007-07-27 09:38:34 · 44 answers · asked by elisa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My mother passed away 2 years ago. My parents were married for 56 years. My dad had purchased A LOT of jewelry for my mom and her biggest fear was after she died that my dad would find some "twinkie" and give her all her jewelry.

Recently dad met another woman (Lu).. They've been dating 6 months. I met Lu several times and watched to see how their chemistry was together. It was definately there on dad's part but not on Lu's part. I saw no sign that she's even likes him that much. She's also very rude. She made snide comments during dinner.

Yesterday dad said they had yet another argument and he broke up with her. Today he told me they talked and that he gave her mom's diamond earrings. I told him he can not buy her affection but what else can I say to him to make him understand that Lu is just using him for a meal ticket and now jewelry? He takes her to eat 6 or 7 times a week.

None of us 6 kids want him to be lonely but none of us like this particular woman.

2007-07-27 09:37:59 · 9 answers · asked by DearAbby2 4 in Family

2007-07-27 09:35:07 · 20 answers · asked by you_new_friend 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We are thinking about a moissanite ring for the engagement... I just want to know what other people have experienced with moissanite... I have heard good and bad... in particular that the stone could be grayish or yellow in daylight... is this true and if so does it look horrible... This would be a great alternative for us because we are on a limited budget. There are some really nice styles from Bella Jewelry Co.

2007-07-27 09:35:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm not there yet, but, can you give mee some tips on how to kiss right.....?
PLZ AND THANK YOU!!!

2007-07-27 09:34:53 · 16 answers · asked by TempoBronze124 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband is a good guy, but he's rude to me and tries to make me feel bad about myself. I have a BA, but I'm dumb. I weigh 130 lbs & am 5'6", but I'm fat. I'm replaceable, and he reminds me of this daily. He doesn't drink, smoke, cheat....he works, and is a good father. He's just not that nice sometimes. Because of all of this I'm just not attracted to him anymore. Does this make me a bad person? Does he have to do something "serious" for me to justify leaving?...Whe have kids together...what about them?

2007-07-27 09:32:25 · 38 answers · asked by Confused 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad is a very verbally violant person, when he gets mad he doesnt even think about what he says. He has called up the government many times to tell them he doesnt like whats going on. One time he called up "fish & game" the local wildlife branch of the government because he wasnt happy that they created some new regulation...he threatened to go blow himself up rnext to their building. The police came to our house that day to make sure he wasnt going to do that. The police have also came to our house before because of complaints from people who felt threatened by him or cause they felt my dad harassed them. Well today my dad called up some airforce place because we keep getting sonic booms in our area and he was yelling at them to quit because its causing alot of problems in our nabourhood. He threatened to go make booms near their houses so their windows would break....(that happened to on of my dads friends because of the sonic booms) WHAT DO I DO...i dont wanna be taken away

2007-07-27 09:31:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am so sad. I am a pethetic loser arent I

2007-07-27 09:28:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-27 09:27:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

They are 38 and 35. I was in their weddings but I was 14 and 20 then.

2007-07-27 09:27:14 · 20 answers · asked by **** 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Since there seems to be no support group for daughter in laws with controling to say the least mother in laws and there seems to be a great deal of ladies with mil issues please advise if interested

2007-07-27 09:25:23 · 5 answers · asked by Kat G 6 in Marriage & Divorce

or uncomfortable

2007-07-27 09:25:05 · 6 answers · asked by Angie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just heard that my ex wife is telling her friends and family that she was emotionally beat down. Ww where highschool sweethearts and together for 16 years. She devoloped a relationship with a highschool teacher at her work she works in the kitchen. I got really upset at her one time and thats when she bankrupted us from gambling and I had no idea. I cooked cleaned baked planned trips and worked and supported her since I met her never once did she have to suffer. Do people start to believe there own lies? If I was such a terrible husband then why is she so nice to me 9 months after leaving me? I'm very hurt to hear how she justified leaving me and cheating.. Is this normal for spouses who want out and cannot communicate there feelings? I'm very hurt by this and I'm thinking of asking her to give me some examples of how she was emotionally beat down...should I or just let it go? We share our two kids everyother week together so we still communicate.

2007-07-27 09:22:18 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 14 years old, and my parents are divorced. My Dad lives in Washington DC and me and my Mom in Boston. My mom is a professor, and doesn't make all that much income, but enough to support us.

My Dad though, works for the government, and make twice, maybe triple as much as my mother.

He is legally required to pay a certain amount of child support, and he does, but nothing else! He refuses to spend any more than is legally required. When I go to visit him in DC he makes my mom pay for the flight.

He sometimes skimps out on his child support leaving us in the dust and because of this me and my Mom have been forced to move over seven times!

My 8th grade math teacher was absolutely horrible and i need a tutor before i enter highschool nd it is going to cost my mom $1600 a month, & when she asked my Dad to help, he offered $100 towards the entire year! He is doing it again! I dont know what to do, should i go & talk to him (what do i say?) Do i get em' to work it out? How? Plz help

2007-07-27 09:21:18 · 15 answers · asked by the_forbiden_forest 1 in Marriage & Divorce