Family & Relationships - 27 July 2007

i live with my mom and grandma and never c my dad. i feel like my mom doesnt trust me because ill ask her like when r u coming home from work? and she will say when i get home and y do u want to know? i try to ask what time but she wont tell me. and i know she knows what time she gets home because if my grandma wants to know she will tell her. & she also wont tell me what i can do ill ask can i go to my friends tommorow and shell say idk or maybe and leave me and my friends clueless sometimes at the last minute and its too late. i havent done anything really bad in the past so i dont understand y she wont tell me simple things like what r u doing how can i earn her trust?? p.s rite now im grounded because i lost the romote witch means im not aloud downstarirs and thats where she spends all her time soo

2007-07-27 13:00:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Is being thousands of miles apart and getting a sore back an excuse to break the agreement that was made that we would not go to opposite sex people to get a massage?

My husband says his back was really bothering him and he didn't think it would be a big deal to go get a quick, innocent massage.

I don't think it was the massage that bothered me, so much as his flippant attitude about it. Also, we had made an agreement. Should I be upset at him or am I over-reacting?

2007-07-27 13:00:11 · 21 answers · asked by Jenn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-27 12:59:50 · 13 answers · asked by michaeld 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How can a person recover from broken-heartedness? What he/she must do?

2007-07-27 12:58:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you have sex with your girl or wife, do you tend to find it sexier when the lights are on or off?

2007-07-27 12:57:38 · 20 answers · asked by Goddess Princess Minky 5 in Singles & Dating

wife permission, but his wife can have an abortion and her tube tied without his?

2007-07-27 12:57:24 · 8 answers · asked by I Wanna Know 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok almost all my friends has had a boyfriend. Im like the onli one who doesnt. In a way im not sure if im ready or not. wen will i noe that im ready to get one. Like right now im not realli ready. And one time wen mii Best friend asked me for advice on her bf and her troubles, she just told me that i dont understand wat shes talking about. and for short "i dont noe what shes talking about because i dont have a boyfriend." I was hurt a little but i know she didnt mean it intentially. is it my fault that i dont have a boyfriend? Any advice? O and wen i say for short, i was thinking that in my head.

2007-07-27 12:56:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Where is a good place to buy promise rings at in fort worth texas or near here.

2007-07-27 12:55:52 · 5 answers · asked by Raul H 1 in Weddings

do parents deliberately try to be assholes to each other during divorce ? all they end up doing is making an *** out of themselves my mom is a ***** she is getting married to a man I dont like my dad is a dick bc he likes to treat me as his counselor. all they keep doing is making me not want to live with either of them btw my mom and dad haven't even been split up for 3 months lil soon for my mother to get engaged eh ? yeah so I think they try to make each other sad but all the hell they are doing is hurting me !!!!!!!!!!!! What should I do ??????

2007-07-27 12:54:37 · 4 answers · asked by Kayla G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-27 12:54:28 · 8 answers · asked by wife of Ali Pasha 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband in the Millitary, threatens me sexually all the time on the phone, he will be back to visit, threatens to Divorce and take the kids if I don't obey him, I live in fear that the kids could possibly ever be alone with him, he says what he will do to me sexually, and if I say, what if I don't want to, he says that's to bad! he is crazy, any advise, with custody, kids have seen him two weeks out of the year, they are happy right now, and very loved! supervised visitation is the only thing I would feel would be safe.

2007-07-27 12:51:48 · 6 answers · asked by l 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well, im finkin if i say 'i love you' too much, its meanin will degrade ..mean nothin..but i also do want to tell her that i really do love her..lol..

2007-07-27 12:49:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Say what you feel Mean it!!
I don't judge and I don't do thumbs down.
Thumbs down is a humilliation!

2007-07-27 12:48:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I went out with a guy I have been talking with for about 2 months. He asked if i wanted to meet at Starbucks for coffee and I said yes. Would this be considered a date or not really?

2007-07-27 12:45:56 · 30 answers · asked by Luvn'g Stars 2 in Singles & Dating

Should I sign up anyway? He works but I don't work right now since there's nothing I'd be paid well enough I shouldn't stay home instead with the kids. Well...?

2007-07-27 12:45:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 14, I have a younger sister, 10, who a little ***** who gets anything she wants and is still always unsatisfied, and an older sister who had a baby about a month ago. My mom has always treated me like ****, I've even heard her say how out of all my siblings and me, I was the one she DID NOT want. She only complains when I'm around, she calls me home so she can complain when I'm out with my friends. According to her everything's my fault and she's screamed at me about how I should just move in with my dad(who'd probably throw me in a lake if I went with him) because then I'd die of secondhand smoke. Right now she's screaming her *** off at me about how I'm a little **** and all her problems are my fault. I've had seizures and I used to cut myself because of problems with her and there is no way in hell that I'm talking to her. Any way to deal with her?

2007-07-27 12:41:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Or rephrased in another way, is it worse to think of your wife when you are having sex with another woman or is it worse to think of another woman when you are having sex with your wife (or swap genders).

Please don't just say "they're both bad", I know they are both bad. Most thinking people see ethics as a hierarchy rather than just black and white, good and bad. How do those fit into your spectrum?

(btw - I'm not married and I'm not trying to encourage either behavior, I'm just curious what people think)

2007-07-27 12:35:36 · 17 answers · asked by megalomaniac 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I did too, and it's a SCAM. Who else has been duped and needs to report it to the BBB? Here's the link to the page!
http://www.greensboro.bbb.org/commonreport.html?bid=33022385

2007-07-27 12:34:35 · 1 answers · asked by brandonsmom 2 in Singles & Dating

i need any thought to help an old man , who is blind , and living alone , i need any stuff any thought any thing to help him plz help me help him

2007-07-27 12:33:41 · 3 answers · asked by Tornadistic Leader 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ever since i was a little girl i have always been close to my dad i used to wake up in the middle of the night when he would get home just to fall asleep in his lap but for the last couple of years i havent been as close for the last few times i have seen him he has been drinking a lot and puts beer before me he has also said some really hurtfull things like he wish i were more like my step brothers cause at least he could be proud of them and when he said that to me i held the tears inside and told him that i loved him anyways how do i tell him that when he tells me these things that it ruins my day and hurts me deeply

2007-07-27 12:32:59 · 7 answers · asked by Tiffany F 2 in Family

im so deep in the realms of boredom i fear there is no chance of coming back :-p

2007-07-27 12:32:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i want to manufacture water and i need a specific shape of the bottle. how or who can do it?
thanks.

2007-07-27 12:28:10 · 2 answers · asked by kabbala 1 in Family

Most of my foreign friends with divorced experiences in America agreed that relationships are better with any other foreigner,and not necessarily of their own background regardless of difficulties.
What is wrong,or why becomes so fatal the american adventure even among american couples?

2007-07-27 12:24:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my parents do drugs and i have a lil bro n sis. my sis is bout to have a baby and wants move in with her boyfriend. she is 16, im 17 my bro is 13.
my parents hav always been terrible and can hardly feed us. they moved away to ireland coz they wer in trouble with the law. i hate it and suffer bad ther in school, with family and my health.
now i want to move in with my grandparents who want us out of the situation its effecting us all. i wonder should i try and get a place for me and my brother and let my sis move away? or should i move across the world to my grandpa but leave my sis, or report mom and dad and risk my bro n sis being put into care? help me please i dont know wat to do.
im almost ready for college but i feel i cant leave my bro n sis with our parnts to suffer anymore.
please help. thanx

2007-07-27 12:23:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

hey guys. well today i went to the movies with my friend. and b4 that i talked to my cuz.(bff) well anyways i went to the movies and wen i came back today she called and said how sad u went to the movies. and i said sry i had these plans 4 like 2 days. and she caled me earlier today. then after the movies she called and said i hope u had fun and just hung up on me. im PRETTY sure she is mad at me. Does she have a reason to be? or did i do something wrong? thanx any thing helps.

2007-07-27 12:23:23 · 6 answers · asked by Hanabanana<3!? 2 in Family

He´s chatting with another younger girl, became violent with me when I had his daughter in my arms and is totally intolerent!!

2007-07-27 12:21:30 · 12 answers · asked by Miki 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Yesterday my wife told me she slept with "some guy" 2 years ago. She says she is sorry and I think she is but I feel like she's been lying to me for 2 years. We have two kids. I don't even know how to talk to her anymore, I'm just mad and sad. She is the one I have always confided in and now I don't feel like I have anyone to talk to. I just feel broken.

2007-07-27 12:21:02 · 25 answers · asked by Broken Hearted 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was thinking about having an outdoor wedding because I always thought it would be nice but every outdoor wedding I went to was miserable because it was hot and you get feasted on by mosquitoes. But in a way I still want one, but there is no way to know what the weather will be like. I'm gettnig married next year in July and I live in Georgia so do you think a outdoor wedding is a good idea or no?

2007-07-27 12:07:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My parents do nothing but stress me out. I was folding clothes today, and my mom told me to fold my younger brother's clothes. I figured that HE should fold them because he was sitting down playing video games.

NO I'm not lazy, because I folded everyone else's clothes, but I didn't fold his because he wasn't busy. So he wasn't mad at all and said that he would take care of his socks because he understood why that would make me mad.

So I went back to what I was doing and my mom started yelling at me telling me to fold his socks. He explained that he would fold them himself and she was like,"THANK you." Like he had done HER a favor.

She ALWAYS gets an attitude with me and I am the one that HELPS HER with the chores around the house. She never makes anyone else do anything because they are boys and she says that I should do the housework (even though they don't do anything else.)

I have tried keeping a diary to vent about my feelings, but she has read it and got even MADDER at me.

2007-07-27 12:02:44 · 9 answers · asked by . 4 in Family

I don't know how we got to this point, but it is hard to function daily. we have a 3 yr old together and I hate to think of breaking up my family. i love her, i love her, i love her!!!

2007-07-27 11:58:52 · 8 answers · asked by json 1 in Marriage & Divorce