Ok almost all my friends has had a boyfriend. Im like the onli one who doesnt. In a way im not sure if im ready or not. wen will i noe that im ready to get one. Like right now im not realli ready. And one time wen mii Best friend asked me for advice on her bf and her troubles, she just told me that i dont understand wat shes talking about. and for short "i dont noe what shes talking about because i dont have a boyfriend." I was hurt a little but i know she didnt mean it intentially. is it my fault that i dont have a boyfriend? Any advice? O and wen i say for short, i was thinking that in my head.
2007-07-27 12:56:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not so simple for many...they feel they need a bf...to feel pretty, to feel wanted , to feel they have something others don't...the truth of the matter is its not a necessity at such an early age...teenage years...as your aware you have plenty to occupy your free time with...why would so many take on a bf that only will lesson the things you should be foccussing on until your ready to be in a relationship...you will know when that someone special is more important than anything else.
2007-07-27 13:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is 'ready'. There is no rule that says you have to have one just because your friends do either.
Do bear in mind that most of your friends have one because their friends do and that's really not a good idea.
Ask yourself why you feel you need to have one. Your friend is right, you cant know what its like until you have one but again, that doesn't make you a poorer person.
I would even suggest that some of your 'attached' friends may be envious of you 'free' position. After all, you answer to no one.
Enjoy your life the way you want to. Never let others dictate what you should do, either by word or action.
Good luck and be happy.
2007-07-27 20:04:48 · answer #2 · answered by philip_jones2003 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to look for a boyfriend. When it feels right, then it will happen. No one can tell you when you are ready for a relationship, only you know that. It's like falling in love, no one can tell you, it just happens. Plus, I don't think that anyone is ever totally prepared for what's ahead. You can't predict what's going to happen in life so being ready for something is really just a way of saying that you're mentally and physically prepared for what could happen, even when you have no idea what that is. So don't worry about it, take your time and just do what feels right.
2007-07-27 20:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by .:?U keEp mE sMiLiNg?:. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh! you will know! I said today to a friend of mine; Dang...I would make a better wife today than ever before...but I don't want a husband. I am OK living like I am. It is SSSSOOOO OK not to have a man in your life. It is really OK! Some women cannot live without a man. Ask your friend that asked you her boyfriend problems a question that doesn't include a boyfriend...then say...oh...you really won't understand...you have never done life without a man!! Of course you would know the answer to her question! You have had a boyfriend before...I am sure...you are qualified to answer her question!! Because you are not in HER moment disqualifies you?? aaaHHH no!! Tell her how nice it is to be going through life...doing it YOURSELF!!
YOU GO GIRL !!!
2007-07-27 20:07:04 · answer #4 · answered by Sunnydays 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it happens for everyone at dif. ages your time will come when you find somone who you really like dont just pick any guy that comes your way make sure you really like him and that he really likes you. dont rush it or it wont work, besides being single is much better you dont have anyone to bug ya all the time you can go out and dance with any one u want go out with anyone you want
2007-07-27 20:03:40 · answer #5 · answered by elizacandle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not ready to get a bf yet, then goodness, please don't! Its absolutly fine if you do not want one yet! You might even be feeling a bit pressured because all of your other friends do, but don't rush. You'll know when your ready to get a bf, and you have plenty of time. ;)
2007-07-27 20:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll Just Know When It Happens..Relax..And Wait..Time Will Come..
2007-07-27 19:59:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mebbe yoo shuld lern hoe tu spel furst
2007-07-27 20:03:40 · answer #8 · answered by Ron M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how and when is not a question.FALLING IN LOVE in an unexpected time is more thrilling.YOu better feel and wait for it.
2007-07-27 20:01:38 · answer #9 · answered by Lucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will know when your ready!!! no one else can tell you when you are... i started dating when i was 13...
2007-07-27 19:59:33 · answer #10 · answered by Smiley :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋