Family & Relationships - 27 July 2007

I am 30 yreas old and I am "falling" for a female that is 20 yrs old. I have told her that we should only be friends, because I am REALLY TOO old for her. She said that she likes older men. When I am with her, it feels right, but when I think of her age I almost feel like I am robbing the craddle.

Question for you:

1. Do you think that the age difference it to vast?
2. Do you think that we should just stay friends because of this?

Your honest opinions are welcomed!

2007-07-27 02:58:48 · 14 answers · asked by Andre L 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

been with my girlfriend for 3 years. We were friends for 20years. Makes us 42ish. Could It happen to me.
(one of my buddys says it happens to everyone)

2007-07-27 02:57:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

In my previous question many responders said that I should not feel hostile towards her but imagine the circumstances that brought her to become a prostitute. I found out she's charging $250 an hour and by the look of her doesn't look unfortunate in the least! If I only had the time and money to take care of myself that well....now I really don't feel sorry for any of them. Anyone agree with me on this?

2007-07-27 02:55:27 · 28 answers · asked by skiphop32 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Last night, I went to bring my daughter her bracelet thing she left at my crib. My ex-mother in law was there with my ex-wife. At first, everything was all cordial, but then she started in. She asked me when my girls were going to have another sister/brother (half) because she knows that eventually the woman I'm with now will end up pregnant. I mean she said it so snidely it made me want to scream. Then she said she better not hear about one of the girls catching me and my new lady doing it, or she will make my life hell. She then asked me what day did I get paid! I asked her why and she just dropped it. She then told me that I need stop acting like a teenager and learn to keep my "thing" in my pants or the woman I'm with will eventually get fed up and leave me.
What gives?

2007-07-27 02:53:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My fiances father got re-married. At the wedding was my fiances real mom's brother. Him and his wife explained that even though his parents got a divorce, its no reason why they cant still be friends.

Normally, an arrangement like this would be fine. But it states directly in their divorce decree that each family is NOT to have contact with each other. (The moms side & dads side)

We promised the brother & wife that we would not tell the mom that they were there. Instead, we took a picture that 'just happened' to have them in the background and 'showed the mom how nice her sons looked'

She saw her brother & wife in the picture & freaked out (rightfully so) But then turned on me & my fiance & called us liars because we 'did not tell her right away' they were there. (its been about 2 weeks since the wedding)

We were trying to do the right thing, we kept our promise to the uncle cause we didnt 'say' anything, yet we still let the mom in on it, and shes mad at us. What to do?

2007-07-27 02:53:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Training should also cover cooking, cleaning, home economics, medical knowledge and how to take good care of their men ??

2007-07-27 02:52:53 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-27 02:52:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So, I'm moving out of state today to get my master's and i'm leaving my boyfriend behind. We've been going out 8-9 months now and he's my best friend. The huge majority of people I know say that long distance relationships never work and i'm really scared of what's going to happen to us. He's been trying to find a job where i'll be but what if he doesn't??? My parents are actually glad about this. Not liking him, they HOPE we'll break up. So, does anybody have any long distance relationship stories with a happy ending OR advice on how to make it work if he can't relocate?? Thanks!

2007-07-27 02:48:42 · 7 answers · asked by Katie T 4 in Singles & Dating

First time on this catagory and it is full of mostly women paying out on the men in their life. Will my husband leave me, my husband is a cheat, he looks at other women ra, ra ra.
Then everyone agrees with the answerer and consoles them and says Yeah leave the assh*le.
Is this what women really think about.??
I am now depressed.

2007-07-27 02:37:40 · 28 answers · asked by spils 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 42 and single. Is the single life better than being married to a pain in the neck person? I say YES!!

Your view?

2007-07-27 02:36:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She has no friends at home she says (and doesn't seem to have skills to make friends). She want to be with boys but again no skills to get that. She hates everything and she's here another week. How can we be less miserable?

2007-07-27 02:35:36 · 14 answers · asked by Sufi 7 in Friends

I confronted her....because she hasn't responded to my phone calls or emails...she then says we are not *tight* friends.. I'm hurt by this because she was one of my best...and for her to say this really hurts.... (I'm moving next week 5,000 miles away) and she says that since we be far apart she doesn't see how we can be friends . What the f**??? I'm very upset and heartbroken....this move was supposed to be exciting.

2007-07-27 02:31:32 · 4 answers · asked by The Ant 1 in Friends

the other day me and my friends were at a little store next to a gas station. me and one kid thought it would be funny to screw around with some stuff on a little counter. i did a little and then he did some other stuff, i wasnt really paying attention. (no we didnt steal anything) and the manager saw another kid with us but he didnt do anything, but hes the only kid the manager could recognize so they blamed him for it. so now today i have to go down to the store and apologize so he doesnt get in trouble. do you think everyone is going to think im really dumb? and do you think the kid i like a lot will care? (hes done stupid stuff too but yeah.) and i just feel terrible about the whole thing.. what should i do? we were just being bored and stupid and messing around, i just moved a couple bottles around and then this other kid did more stuff but iwasnt really paying attention.. what should i do? i feel so terrible.. the kid that got in trouble doesnt really care but yeah im scared....

2007-07-27 02:27:11 · 11 answers · asked by mhm. 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-27 02:17:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He would take revenge by doing the following:

Cheat on me and make me watch a 'crazy sex party' with him and another female, apply lube to the pair and video tape the sex. He would then make me watch the video over and over again with those metal eye openers from A Clockwork Orange.

Do you think that is appropriate revenge on a cheating wife? What would you do if your spouse cheated on you?

2007-07-27 02:09:47 · 21 answers · asked by qwertatious 4 in Marriage & Divorce

it always seems she gets mad at me for nothing!! now i kno ur probably thinking i did something but here is an example
well be talking and having fun.. then out of no where she'll stop talking and ignore me, i dont understand why she always does this then if i ask whats wrong she snaps at me like NOTHING and gets really pissed

2007-07-27 02:03:59 · 4 answers · asked by just me 3 in Friends

Its actually a friend of mine who really needs help. He left his horrible wife - who had been to jail several times for stealing - he got his own place and a job and wants the kids - then she up and moves to a abuse shelter claiming abuse - no evidence - and today he turned himself in on the warrant and they want 100,000 bond!!!!! he has no record and she has no evidence. This is her way of screwing him and he feels helpless. Is he helpless? Is there anything he can do? He cannot afford an attorney, so that is problem #1 - there is no way they set him a bil that high if he walks in with an attorney....ugh - can anyone help?

2007-07-27 02:01:24 · 5 answers · asked by rommy r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Girl #1
outgoing, fun, loud, aggressive, assertive, independent, strong, bold, sexy

Girl #2
shy, cute, sweet, innocent, quiet, a bit dependent on you, secretly a dirty girl

2007-07-27 01:59:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do i meet and get to know a girl when im on vacation at a beach where i dont know any one. what should i do when i see a hot girl. for some odd reason i just dont see how i get to know anyone on a beach. and usually i like to get to know people before i just start hitting on them. so is it just me or even though there are a lot of hot girls on the beach it still seams like a hard place to meet someone. if it really is not what should i do to start up a conversation with a complete stranger.

2007-07-27 01:53:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a girlfriend but i broke up with my ex 2 months ago i miss her so much......but i wanna not miss her anymore

2007-07-27 01:42:30 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-27 01:31:32 · 12 answers · asked by davidgrocks 2 in Weddings

I have been with my boyfriend for 18 months and love him more than ever. It's been a small struggle with my parents because he is 15 years older than me. I believe age is just a number and it doesn't matter as long as the motives are right and people are happy.
Younger people and people from eastern culture seem generally more accepting of age gaps, so I just wondered what the general mixtured opinion is?
Consider age gap to be 10yrs+ rather than smaller age gaps.

2007-07-27 01:24:31 · 39 answers · asked by immie123 2 in Singles & Dating

When you read all the top shelf mags, there are loads of stories about guys picking up women for a one night stand, and having NSA, most of the women I know all want some sort of commitment from men, are there really women out there like in the stories, or is that all they are, stories

2007-07-27 01:24:05 · 24 answers · asked by gantjulian 1 in Singles & Dating

my friends canadian dutch fiancee wants to wear her wedding ring on her right hand and not the tradional left hand, why is that?

2007-07-27 01:18:07 · 9 answers · asked by jist555 1 in Weddings

Is it ok to seek a consultation with a lawyer if you are contemplating divorce but not sure if you really want to go that route yet?

2007-07-27 01:16:56 · 16 answers · asked by JiminyCricket 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i feel so lonely and depressed all the bad memories keep cuming in my head from my childhood.as i had a bad childhood aswel my mum was very abusive. ans still is .plz help.thanks

2007-07-27 01:16:41 · 22 answers · asked by silky1978 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-27 01:10:57 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

about anything................. even sex

2007-07-27 01:00:52 · 1 answers · asked by sona 1 in Singles & Dating

ok...this is both embarassing and frustrating.
We live in a very small town. A few months ago, a black man moved into the house next to us. Over the course of a month or so, we would talk ..just the usual "neighbor" stuff.
I found out his name is Terrance, he is recently divorced, and he works a 3rd shift in a town near us.
The more we talked, the more I became attracted to him.
I hate myself for that!
I find myself peeking out my window now - just hoping he is in his yard working (with his shirt off!)
I fantasize about this man every day -
I have never been with a black guy, so I am sure thats part of my obsession. I also think about the "myth" and black men.
I am happlily married - but cant stop wanting him.
We are alone in my house sometimes, and I get so flustered talking to him.....i can barely form words! lol
I've even started looking at interracial sites online - and that is so unlike me.
WHAT is my problem??
Why am i so drawn to this one guy?

2007-07-27 00:56:42 · 22 answers · asked by Kathleen M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-27 00:53:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating