the other day me and my friends were at a little store next to a gas station. me and one kid thought it would be funny to screw around with some stuff on a little counter. i did a little and then he did some other stuff, i wasnt really paying attention. (no we didnt steal anything) and the manager saw another kid with us but he didnt do anything, but hes the only kid the manager could recognize so they blamed him for it. so now today i have to go down to the store and apologize so he doesnt get in trouble. do you think everyone is going to think im really dumb? and do you think the kid i like a lot will care? (hes done stupid stuff too but yeah.) and i just feel terrible about the whole thing.. what should i do? we were just being bored and stupid and messing around, i just moved a couple bottles around and then this other kid did more stuff but iwasnt really paying attention.. what should i do? i feel so terrible.. the kid that got in trouble doesnt really care but yeah im scared....
2007-07-27 02:27:11 · 11 answers · asked by mhm. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh, and the parents already
know that it wasn't their son
because they beleive him.
and im thinking about saying to the manager:
"Hi, I'm very very sorry about what happened yesterday with ______. I
swear he did not touch anything, it
was myself and _______. I don't remember what ______ did but I just
moved stuff around on a little counter
and he did that, too. Then he did other
things but I wasn't really paying attention.
______ did nothing at all and shouldn't
be punished for the immature actions _____ and I did. I'm very sorry, nothing
like this will ever happen again."
and also.. seriously i really care if
the kid i like will care, im not supposed
to care what other people think but
idk if i pissed some people off... the kid
i got in trouble doesnt even care that much since im going down to apologize... do you think that the boy i like a lot, and that i might have a chance with, will think im really stupid and do you think i just blew it?
2007-07-27 02:28:43 · update #1
i know that im not supposed to care what other people think, but people are trying to hook me up with this kid i've liked for two years, I don't want to screw anything up.......
2007-07-27 02:40:17 · update #2
Take it like a big girl.
2007-07-27 02:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really doesnt matter what anyone else thinks of you. Youre being the bigger and more mature person here owning up to what happened and apologizing for whatever happened whether it was your fault or not. Your clearing your conscience by doing such. Theres not many young people out here today that would do such a good thing and that in itself should make you proud of yourself and able to hold your head hide amongst your friends. It is a little scary right now but youll feel much better after its all done, believe me. Congrats on being your own person and standing up and correcting a wrong. Im impressed. By the way your apology sounds good to me
2007-07-27 09:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a dumb thing to do. Actually, it sounds like you're being really mature and honorable about this. I would definitely follow through with that plan, and see what happens. You're definietly showing alot of maturity, and any guy would appreciate that, and your guts in going back and admitting to it. If you really want to go the extra mile, you could ask the store owner if there would be anny way to make it up, like work in the store for a day or whatever. Best of luck to yuou!
2007-07-27 09:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would go down and apologies to the store owner. Especially if you live in a small town!!!
2007-07-27 09:49:42 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doing the right thing is never easy, but it is the right thing to do. Take your medication and learn from the experience. Having fun is one thing, but try to have said fun without being destructive or disruptive.
2007-07-27 09:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by sinkablehail1978 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah being a stand up person can be scary - get used to it - you may have to do much scarier things as an adult.
2007-07-27 09:30:52 · answer #6 · answered by glen_loves_fun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah .. I think that is a fantastic idea ... It shows alot of bravery to be able to stand up and admit to what you have done!!
GO FOR IT!!
and dont do it again =)
2007-07-27 09:35:19 · answer #7 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try to explain it to the manager and by the way what the hell does this have to do with singles and dating
2007-07-27 09:36:01 · answer #8 · answered by IRRESISTABLE!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i don't think u are stupid that what u are soppuse 2 do do the right thing because it will come back 2 u and god don't like ugly so do the right thing
2007-07-27 09:34:29 · answer #9 · answered by missbossyeve 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel bad then you should go apoligze thats what i would do i would be scare too but after u apoligze you will feel alot better about it
hope this could help=)
2007-07-27 09:33:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋