how do i meet and get to know a girl when im on vacation at a beach where i dont know any one. what should i do when i see a hot girl. for some odd reason i just dont see how i get to know anyone on a beach. and usually i like to get to know people before i just start hitting on them. so is it just me or even though there are a lot of hot girls on the beach it still seams like a hard place to meet someone. if it really is not what should i do to start up a conversation with a complete stranger.
2007-07-27 01:53:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
every one seems like they are just with their family. i am with my family too.
2007-07-27 01:58:39 · update #1
Don't think of them as "hot girls," thing of them as REAL PEOPLE. Rather than focusing on a woman's body, focus on her interests. If she's reading a book, ask her if she recommends it (better yet, talk to a girl who is reading a book you like, so you'll have something to say as well as something in common). Or, you could ask her if she'd like to join in a game of volleyball. There are a million ways to appeal to a woman's heart and mind, which will last much longer than her good looks.
2007-07-27 02:04:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The secret to that my friend is to first evaluate yourself. Where are you from is the first of many question a female will ask you on the beach once you say hello to her. What you deliver as to where your from makes the big difference if you will get some or not and that's a fact!
Don't tell them your from a nearby county or your doomed.
Tell them your from Hawaii or Australia, but no where near home and the reason for this is because what ever develops in the next few hours after you meet her is secrecy for her as well as you and that's is where you leave it when you go home.
2007-07-27 02:01:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't think about the location, it doesn't matter. Your approach in ANY situation should go something like this. First, you need to appear social, meaning, have a buddy or a couple of friends with you and approach a group of girls. Now, the actual approach needs be indirect. That means, before you actually engage your target you need to get their attention by appearing to be having FUN with your friends. Laugh, joke, be active, so the girls will see that you are having a good time. Then they will want you to approach them because they want to be part of your FUN too. Wait for positive eye contact or see if they are wispering to one another about you guys. The MOMENT you see this, you and your friends should approach, because you already KNOW that they want your attention. At this point you can go into the, where are you girls from? blah, blah, blah, then tell them that you and your friends are going to this FUN club and they should come too because it's going to be FUN and CRAZY. Girls on vacation are looking for loose, relaxed and FUN guys to PARTY with. BE THE PARTY and you will have all the girls you can handle on vacation. Good Luck
2007-07-27 02:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by sirkusrock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with eye contact and a smile. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. A nice smile, say "Hi", she will probably be a little shy, too, just ask her if she'd like to go for a swim, or get a coke, then introduce yourself. You gotta let em know you are noticing them tho, the nice smile does that. Hope your bod is in shape, that helps.
2007-07-27 01:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by jxt299 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay dude I'm going to lay this out straight for ya...I'M FROM FLORIDA AND I LIVED ON THE BEACH MY WHOLE LIFE. WHEN TOURIST (YOU) WOULD COME VISIT AND HANG OUT AT THE BEACH AND TRY TO "PICK US UP" WE LAUGHED. WE DON'T WANT YOU GUYS. WHY DO YOU THINK YOU CAN SCORE WITH A LOCAL OR EVEN ANOTHER VACATIONER?? Just go to have fun b.c honestly no girl/woman would hook up with a tourist. Believe me, I have lived on the beach my whole life :) Just trying to help you out so you wont look stupid. Just try to make friend's and then they will consider chillin with ya
2007-07-27 02:00:16 · answer #5 · answered by ♥M♥ 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
1. Lip gloss 2. Dress 3. Heels 4. Cell phone 5. Big bag 1. Soccer 2. Computer 3. Nikes 4. No hair..yum!! 5. beard
2016-03-16 00:26:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Skinnydipping
2007-07-27 01:55:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could just start talking to one of them, " I saw you from over there and I just had to come and say hello" Nothing Cheesy, just straight to the point, that way there is no ambiguity and she doesn't think that you are some nut job perving over her.
2007-07-27 01:59:03 · answer #8 · answered by Mad M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Skip ALL of the drama and get a hooker. There'll be no getting to know them, no worrying about what to talk about, and none of the akward foolishness you'd have to put up with in hopes of getting any sex at all. Call for an escort and know exactly what your getting, how, when, and how often.
2007-07-27 02:00:03 · answer #9 · answered by annoyed_with_the_other_answers 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
To pick-up girls, a guy would do the same thing he would do anywhere else....... run up behind her and swoop'er into your arms silly!!
2007-07-27 04:01:24 · answer #10 · answered by jokin_jake 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋