Last night, I went to bring my daughter her bracelet thing she left at my crib. My ex-mother in law was there with my ex-wife. At first, everything was all cordial, but then she started in. She asked me when my girls were going to have another sister/brother (half) because she knows that eventually the woman I'm with now will end up pregnant. I mean she said it so snidely it made me want to scream. Then she said she better not hear about one of the girls catching me and my new lady doing it, or she will make my life hell. She then asked me what day did I get paid! I asked her why and she just dropped it. She then told me that I need stop acting like a teenager and learn to keep my "thing" in my pants or the woman I'm with will eventually get fed up and leave me.
What gives?
2007-07-27 02:53:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
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You do not have to put up with such garbage.
You especially do not want your daughter to be hearing this filth.
You do not know what she says when you are not there.
Your obligation is to be a good father, that is more important than winning any fights with people who life to fight.
If your daughter is not around to hear impolite stuff, and you have extreme self control for not getting mad at this stuff, you could turn it around.
Ask the ex-mother-in-law how much money she is earning, and how many different boy-friends she has sex with each week, and warn her that if your daughter witnesses her "doing it" you will make her life a living hell.
When she says any answer to these questions, ask her why she is obviously lying, does this mean you have a different boyfriend every day, or several a night with your prostitution business?
Again, you have to be extremely careful to avoid exposing your daughter to any kind of filth. That has got to be your priority.
2007-07-27 06:58:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keep your head up, Tambourine...you zone in on your girls and while I know you probably want to kick your ex-monster in law...ignore her when you see her or stay away from her house. Avoid any type of confrontations..and continue to do your part for the girls. Give your ex and her family no reason to ever say, You didn't do your part!" And what you do in your personal time is your business...as long as it does not directly affect the girls...it's none of their business!
You got some great answers and I totally agree with "Al M" very wise man...he should get the 10 points..
2007-07-28 01:24:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is upset you left her daughter for another woman? To be honest, if you moved on, I would not even listen to what she has to say. Let it go in one ear and out the other. Be glad your done visiting Crazy Lane and have moved to a new neighborhood.
2007-07-27 03:18:26 · answer #3 · answered by Kat G 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's mad at you because you used her daughter and hurt her and she knows you'll just do it to someone else. She's your ex mother in law, and you don't owe her anything. Be a man and simply be respectful of her age and the fact she is your child's grandmother. Walk away, you can do that.
2007-07-27 03:25:13 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
.that lady is crazy. What you do in your personal life is no longer her business since you and her daughter split. Don't pay attention to her, don't let her get to you. You go on and be happy with your new woman.
2007-07-27 05:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about that obnoxious nosey old lady, you never know what kind of things your ex-wife has been telling her. Or you could ask her a bunch of personal question right back, just to show her how it feels! LOLOLOL!!!!
2007-07-27 03:49:12 · answer #6 · answered by redhot_redhead 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You hurt her daughter...lol
Not a whole lot you can do about it. She will either get over it in time or you will have to stop going to her place. If one of your girls forgets something at your (crib) Then they will have to wait till next visit to get it or mail it to them.
2007-07-27 03:04:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think she's trying to tell you that's it not such a good idea to have another child until you accept your financial responsibilities and support your daughter.
2007-07-27 05:37:12 · answer #8 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to deal with her. Just tell her to shut her pie hole. Youre not married to her daughter anymore and you dont have to worry if she likes you or not.
When you run into her and she gives you a hard time just say shut your pie hole old woman you dont count. Just dont do it in front of your kids.
2007-07-27 03:45:41 · answer #9 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's a hater.....Just ignore her. If your ex-wife is cool with you then don't worry about the old lady.
2007-07-27 03:26:50 · answer #10 · answered by Candi is Dandy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋