I'm not sure there is much difference between men and women. Here are seven common warning signs someone is cheating on you:
1. The most common warning is when a partner tells you something is amiss and you don't believe it. He or she may say, 'This marriage isn't working,' or 'I am not happy.'
2. Sudden change -- or interest -- in appearance.
3. If your partner says, 'You need to see a psychiatrist,' 'You need help,' 'Get a job,' 'Lose weight,' or 'Go to the gym,' and is constantly critical, it's all part of the same theme -- which is that there is something wrong with you. Unconsciously, they are setting it up to say their partner was nuts and wouldn't even go for help. Another tip-off is when he or she starts picking fights about something you are good at, so you fight back and then he or she calls you argumentative.
4. Gives you guilt gifts.
5. If you get the cold shoulder at your spouse's company holiday party where everyone used to be friendly, it's a sign that his colleagues either know about the affair and figure you are on the way out, so why be nice? Or your partner has been making critical comments about you so they think you are no good.
6. When a partner is sneaking around a bit, it's a sign. Maybe he or she takes secret cell phone calls on the porch instead of using the phone by the bed, or maybe he is out on weeknights whereas he used to be home watching television. If you see that a person is not around that much and is gone on different nights, something may be up.
7. Sometimes people with a background of these types of things may be more likely to repeat them. There are exceptions and people can change patterns in their life, but if we are talking about red flags, history is a red flag.
2007-07-27 02:19:40
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answered by Happy-2 5
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The cheater is usually way out in left field thinking alot. They are very conscious of their phones. They are happier but moody. They dress nicer or sexier. Women will buy new bras and panties. They will disappear for a few hours. They really want you to go out of town or will come up with some reason why they are. Guys have friends that will keep secrets so they can always use them as an excuse. Women have friends who can't (most of the time) so they will never use a friend as an excuse.
2007-07-27 02:22:56
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answer #2
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answered by Maria 5
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Hiding things from you, working late when they didn't use to have to do so, phone calls that they leave the room to take, late nights or early mornings on the computer, they suddenly remember something they need to buy and rush out to do so, they start taking more trips that are supposedly work related and maybe forget to give you the name of the hotel where they're staying.
2007-07-27 02:23:17
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answer #3
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answered by Somethingtotry 6
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I think men will cheat more easily JUST for sex, and women are usually looking for affection when they are not getting any at home ...
But you can't paint anything too broad. Men crave emotional support and some women just get too horney and run out for sex alone ... mostly, it is a lack of love. If you don't love a partner enough to stifle your baser urges, there are issues bigger than sex at stake.
2007-07-27 02:28:39
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answered by Random_Girl 3
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distance, i feel like when i've been cheated on, and i cheated that there was a pattern. the cheater usually becomes distant. or also body language. usually (in most cases) you can tell a person is cheating, if you ask them things and they cant maintain their behavior. their eyes tend to wonder and they cant keep eye contact in tact.
they get flustered and so on...
become protective of their cell phones. keep them on silent of are always switched off "dead battery" excuse....etc...
man there are heaps, but eye contact always gives it away
2007-07-27 02:21:07
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answered by Kendi 5
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buying new underwaer
beeper or blackberry straped to his underwear is a sure sign
running out to the hardware store to buy a nail
multiple $200 cash withdrwals from the bank
daydreaming
laughing out of nowwhere
2007-07-27 02:39:50
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answered by Anonymous
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Hiding things, change in attitude, Less sex or even more sex. You thinking of cheating?
2007-07-27 02:20:28
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answered by Anonymous
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HIDING ON THE PHONE COMING HOME LATE
2007-07-27 02:40:06
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answered by Anonymous
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