Family & Relationships - 27 July 2007

Discribe what would be your perfect boyfriend/girlfriend. I want to know everything like personality, looks, and your perfect date.

2007-07-27 07:53:50 · 11 answers · asked by ♥Doll Face♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 21 years old, just had a baby and my self esteem couldn't be lower and to top it off, I find hundreds of pictures of this beautiful girl all over my computer(in the history folder, of course). I had to snoop because I was starting to wonder what he did on the internet. Then, he looks at her pics all the time. It really bothers me...why does he do it? We know this girl from a long time ago....like the 6th grade and she is drop dead gorgeous but why? Also, he has this thing with chicks in their bikini's...why? I found pics of "young lesbians".....another why? He won't give me any answers really....so maybe someone on here can. I don't want to discuss it with anyone because I don;t want anyone thinking that our relationship is rocky. He has done this before and I explained to him how much it hurt me but he turned around and did it again. Why? To remind you, we have been together for 6 years, married almost a year and just had a child together. I don't want to leave but if I have to..

2007-07-27 07:48:30 · 22 answers · asked by littlechic14_2000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-27 07:48:25 · 3 answers · asked by bella86 2 in Singles & Dating

Brad keeps on insisting that we get married, but I'm not so sure. I've been married a few times before, and I don't think marriage is necessary. Isn't our love the only thing that matters? What do you guys think?

2007-07-27 07:43:52 · 24 answers · asked by Addict. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-27 07:41:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

meaning that they feel sex is necessary in achieving a deeper relationship with their partner. Do you think if you were with someone who you absolutly loved, had an amazing relationship with, but could never have sex- would you be happy?? Do you feel sex is necessary in order for you to know how much you are loved???

2007-07-27 07:38:38 · 25 answers · asked by Smilingcheek 4 in Marriage & Divorce

little roach
on my broach
do I smell like cheeeeeeeeeeeese

I just ate
a big plate
of cheesy mac and peeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaasssssss

Do you see
food on me
that was not for yoouuuuuuuuuuuu

off you go
time to go
smoosh you on my shoooooooooooooeeeeeeeeeeeeee

TAH DAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-07-27 07:36:48 · 11 answers · asked by tinabadina 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is weird...my wife and I got married in July, but her parents want her to get a divorce so that we can have a real wedding next summer. Now I'm wondering, is that pointless? how long will it take for a divorce to be final, and what if we live together? Can we still get a divorce. I'm a New york resident and she's a connecticut resident. We're both going to be living together in NY. What should I do, and how does the whole process work?

2007-07-27 07:35:41 · 6 answers · asked by JASON M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

One of my groomsmens has informed me that due to unpredictable issues related to his job he may or may not be able to attend the rehersal. Thus, he said that he understands if his role is changed to that of friend of the family.

Now, I know that historically all particapants in the wedding are expected to show, but if he has to work I understand. Is it important that he absolutely has to be at the rehersal? At the end of the day, he probably can just follow the other groomsmen and do what they are doing. On the other hand, I also don't want this to cause problems in the ceremony.

2007-07-27 07:35:05 · 21 answers · asked by George C 2 in Weddings

Here's the story... well me and my girl of 4 years have been having problems. Lately she's been hiding text messages, calls, and stuff from me. I've talked to her about it and all. I've been suspecting she's cheating on me with a cop I don't like since high school.

Well tonight, her friend is in town. She goes out with her friend tonight. Well I ride by the Huddle House.. and see my girlfriend outside on her cell phone. I turn around and by that time they are leaving. My girl says the one guy held her keys for 10 minutes and wouldn't let them leave. She said they stopped by to say hey to them and that was it.

She comes over my house a while ago.. and her story has changed. She said they went and ate there and her friend thought she forgot her phone.. so they went back and began talking to them and thats when the one guy took her keys, just joking around.. She said they were there "by coincidence"

Fact is.. I rolled up on her

2007-07-27 07:34:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Despite all my efforts to discorage this, she flatly refuses! (although at times she has agreed to read less taxing material ie romance novels...) Even though I have explained on a number of occassions that the female brain is less able to absorb the same level of complex knowledge than the male brain can. She doesn't seem to be listening! Can someone give me adivce on how I can persuade her to give up this unhealthy recreational pursuit?

2007-07-27 07:33:54 · 39 answers · asked by cloudmaker 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-27 07:32:21 · 8 answers · asked by justme 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I found emails from a dating website on our computer and he has since changed his password so I cannot log on in his name (which I always have) - went to the site these emails were from and registered myself. Found his profile and he said he was separated and looking for some fun! What would you do?

2007-07-27 07:31:26 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My brother has a problem. He filed for a divorce about a month ago and he isn't asking for anything. Nothing at all, just for her to sign the papers. Well his lawyer told him last week that his wife called to make an appt. for today. Turns out his wife looked over the paperwork and said she was going to show it to her lawyer. My brothers thoughts are why would she even need a lawyer, it's going to be non-contested and he isn't asking for anything...why would she not just sign the papers? Also his wife won't talk to him for him to ask her why. Any ideas?

2007-07-27 07:29:52 · 11 answers · asked by Jay 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am sick of working and ready to retire... Any rich ladies out there in their 90's with a faulty ticker and bad eyesight?

2007-07-27 07:25:46 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I hate being in love with my boyfriend of 6 yrs. He's such an as*hole sometimes and i'm really sensitive, i try not to be but i just want to have a good relationship with him & to be a happy couple but i have very bad trust issues with him because he's cheated on me before! I don't want to love him but i just cant let him go, i don't see myself with any other guy!

What should i DO!

2007-07-27 07:23:18 · 42 answers · asked by liza 3 in Marriage & Divorce

im having a 1920's themed wedding, and i need some advice, what kind of music should we play? i know jazz and that sort of thing but any songs inperticular? and clothing.....my girls are wearing flapper dresses and boas, but we cant find and shoes, and accesories??? and our hair were still looking for a great pic to show our hair dresser. and as for makeup im not for sure what they wore back then, or even if the flappers wore makeup. so if anyone has any ideas or places for me to check out concerning the 20's please help me!!!

2007-07-27 07:21:04 · 9 answers · asked by cheater 1 in Weddings

anything u need to get off your chest? just say? anything at all? Random comments?

2007-07-27 07:19:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-27 07:19:06 · 12 answers · asked by cf1005 1 in Weddings

ok her maid of honor is not doing her job...there are 5 bridesmaids. 4 of us missed the bridal shower...i know the MOH didnt tell me about it until 2 days before. she is getting married in 2 weeks and i have not herd anything about the bachorlorette party, all i new was the MOH wanted to do somthing on a sunday, well we have 2 sundays left until the wedding and i cant pull money from a tree so i kinda think we should know whats going on by now! right? so should i tell the bride whats going on and that im going to plan a back up party...the bride was really upset that most of the bridesmaids didnt show and i dont blam her, so i want her party to be great and the MOH isnt telling us anything

2007-07-27 07:19:03 · 14 answers · asked by lovely 3 in Weddings

do you have faith in yourself,and sometimes fell in a deep hole for your over courage? or sometimes u feel that you are uncapable of acheiving your aims

2007-07-27 07:19:00 · 12 answers · asked by A's 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

How will u like to have sex with your men.Dogie styler-site on top-etc?

2007-07-27 07:18:27 · 13 answers · asked by gen2 3 in Marriage & Divorce

In the past week he has cancelled dates on me 3 times. The first 2 times b/c he couldnt get a car, and the 3rd time bc he had to call his mom (she lives in another country, it was a non-emergency and she just wanted to talk to him) My plan is to explain to him that I am tired of him canceling on me, but should I even bother and just break it off? My time is just as valuable as his and it seems it doesnt get that...

2007-07-27 07:17:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband told me this and it repulsed me to the point where I am no longer sexually attracted to him. What should I do?

2007-07-27 07:16:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-27 07:16:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Any support groups out there for dauther in laws with controling mother in laws who can't get a life of there
own?

2007-07-27 07:15:35 · 16 answers · asked by Kat G 6 in Family

My husband and I love each other very much, and have a good relationship. Our daughter is married, so we have no distractions at home. We are both healthy and active, and both have full-time jobs. The problem is, I have no desire for sex. It has nothing to do with my love and affection for my husband. I don't have ANY desire at all. Period. I know my husband does, but he is very good about not pushing me to have sex. He never asks why, and I know he doesn't cheat on me, because we are together except when he is at work. It never used to be this way. I always loved sex and the intimacy with my man, and never had any problems with reaching orgasm. I think it all started with the birth of our daughter at age 34 and just got steadily worse over the years.

I really hate to feel this way. But I can't seem to help it no matter what I do. I went thru menopause about 5 years ago, but I know that has nothing to do with my problem.

Can I fix this, and how???

2007-07-27 07:14:33 · 25 answers · asked by Barbi T 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

has any of you been so much in love that leaving or divorse isnt an option, you call someone insecure or desperate if they love someone so much they cant see spending there life without that person, that is me I feel sorry for all those people that think you should divorse or give up the love of there life,
for something the other did wrong, A mistake, I have been married 35 years to the same woman she has made mistakes and I forgave her, I have to say I am very happy, put away your pride and look around, nobody is perfect, are they?

2007-07-27 07:14:30 · 17 answers · asked by philtoldyouso 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i want to tell her the truth!!! how should i explain it?????

2007-07-27 07:14:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Well, me and my boyfriend of a little over four months (the longest relationship I've ever had) just broke up. We have a business together and still want to remain friends. Things sort of ended on a confusing but still a good note. I am totally in love with him and he no longer wants to be with me in that way. Last night I talked things over with my best guy friend. It really helped to talk with him. Right after I got home from talking with him(nothing happened), my (ex)boyfriend calls and says that he is going to stop by. I was totally cool with it. We hung out for about a half hour and just talked and sat on the truck of my car. We didn't necessarily talk about the relationship; we just talked. It was great. Afterwards, we hugged and he joked, but after that he gave me a long, real hug and we said goodbye. Now I still have to see him everyday that we work. How do I move on still having to see him constantly? And how can I trust him? I am vacationing on sat. i think that will help.

2007-07-27 07:12:12 · 35 answers · asked by Jessica 2 in Singles & Dating