Here's the story... well me and my girl of 4 years have been having problems. Lately she's been hiding text messages, calls, and stuff from me. I've talked to her about it and all. I've been suspecting she's cheating on me with a cop I don't like since high school.
Well tonight, her friend is in town. She goes out with her friend tonight. Well I ride by the Huddle House.. and see my girlfriend outside on her cell phone. I turn around and by that time they are leaving. My girl says the one guy held her keys for 10 minutes and wouldn't let them leave. She said they stopped by to say hey to them and that was it.
She comes over my house a while ago.. and her story has changed. She said they went and ate there and her friend thought she forgot her phone.. so they went back and began talking to them and thats when the one guy took her keys, just joking around.. She said they were there "by coincidence"
Fact is.. I rolled up on her
2007-07-27 07:34:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Condolences--it sounds like you already know the answer. It looks as though, minimum, she is untruthful with you.
To me, it seems like she's cheating.
2007-07-27 07:38:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she's not cheating then she's getting close. If she doesn't have anything to hide then why is she hiding anything? Anyone who lies is cheating to a degree, lying is deceit and even if she isn't actually doing the physical part of cheating, she's still not behaving like a caring, loving girlfriend that wants to make your relationship work.
I say, end it, it sounds like it's not going to get any better but probably worse if you continue on, and it sounds like she has already ended it but just hasn't told you yet. Don't be a sucker. If she wanted to work things out with you, she wouldn't be hiding stuff, and lying to you.Tell her you won't continue on in half a relationship, especially since she isn't putting forth an effort to make things right. Tell her your breaking it off for good. And then get on with your life.
And don't feel bad that you lost someone who would treat you like that. She's not worth the heartache.
2007-07-27 14:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by candeekissez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety I smell something fishy, might be your girl. But big question is do you trust her and has she ever cheated on you before to where you found out or ever given you reason to think she would ever cheat on you. To me something don't sound right. This is shady but 4 years is a long time. Get a friend with a car she don't know and when she goes out you and your friend follow her. Best way to find out the truth is on your own.
2007-07-27 14:40:43 · answer #3 · answered by youcandoit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry man, time to move on. Don't let her play you, the one who is meant for you will not do that.
I knew from the beginning of my marriage that eventually my wife would eventually cheat on me. 12 years later she has. WHY? because I was naive enough to be committed to something that wasn't. That will never happen again.
2007-07-27 14:51:00 · answer #4 · answered by HiketheWild09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huddle House? Is that like the Waffle House?
And yeah, she's hiding something, but you already know that, so what's your question?
2007-07-27 14:38:23 · answer #5 · answered by ron-D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take full advantage of NOT being married and move on. She is clearly not someone you can trust. Be thankful to find out now rather than after you were married and had kids.
2007-07-27 15:13:04 · answer #6 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your probably right. women don't change stories unless we're lying. we are a stickler for detail. and her being sneaky just takes the cake. i gaurantee the meetings aren't by coincidence. i would try to catch her. shouldn't be that hard no offense but she kinda sucks at trying to hide it from you.
2007-07-27 14:43:20 · answer #7 · answered by MotherTeresa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you rolled up on her so what more do you need?? She is obviously not being straight with you because she cant get her story straight. She may not be cheating on you, but it sounds like she is making things up and not being honest about what she is up to.
2007-07-27 14:39:47 · answer #8 · answered by California Kush 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say this but something stinks... Unless you are an untolerant guy that can't take a simple truth, there is no reason why she sould be lying to you. I wouldn't go as far to say she's cheating (I am no one to say that) but her lying is bad enough. Time to reconsider...
2007-07-27 15:01:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES is she. If she is hiding stuff from u is because is knows she is doing something wrong. because if she wasn't there would be no reason to hide thing from u.And she can't keep her story straight.
2007-07-27 15:01:28 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋