In the past week he has cancelled dates on me 3 times. The first 2 times b/c he couldnt get a car, and the 3rd time bc he had to call his mom (she lives in another country, it was a non-emergency and she just wanted to talk to him) My plan is to explain to him that I am tired of him canceling on me, but should I even bother and just break it off? My time is just as valuable as his and it seems it doesnt get that...
2007-07-27 07:17:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh and I also have to drive on our dates b/c he has no car. He was trying to borrow his sis's care but it didnt work out.
2007-07-27 07:19:42 · update #1
In any relationship it is give and take. You shouldnt mind toting him around when your the only one with a car and you know that. He does need to respect your time together, and make time for you!! You have to make the decision though. Talk with him about it and see how things go after that. If your looking for a way out, you will come up with one. If not, be tolerant to him having a bad week.
2007-07-27 07:23:01 · answer #1 · answered by trisha b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you mean. My old bf kept standing me up. Maybe you should explain how you are feeling to him before you break up with him. He may not realize how his behavior is effecting you. However, if he still continues to cancel your dates then find someone who will treat you with more respect. And one who has a car :P
not sure how much that will help lol.
2007-07-27 14:26:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not explain to him that you do not want to just wait around until he can go on a date with you, and ask him that if he really cared about you when he had to cancel those dates, and if he would ever consider that you would at least like to hav ehim commit to going on a date with you.
2007-07-27 14:23:28 · answer #3 · answered by alex™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM!!!!!! He sounds like a waste of time. Your time is valuable-find someone more worthy of spending it with. If you let it go on like this you'll just end up disappointed and hurt later on down the road after many other missed opportunities. Don't explain-he should already know..........
2007-07-27 14:23:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, a little demanding arent we. those excuses sound pretty reasonable to me. on the other hand though it sounds like you might just want to break up with him in general. if so then just do that and dont make excuses like you are making. if it really is because he cancelled 3 dates, then maybe you should break up with him and find someone more compliant and available for your every beck and call.
2007-07-27 14:22:54 · answer #5 · answered by asg_is_chillin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should be mad because he talked to his mom. But I do think he could have rescheduled with you. That would have been nice. It kind of sounds to me like your not as into him as you want to be and I think you have plenty of time to find a new one since he keeps canceling
2007-07-27 14:29:17 · answer #6 · answered by Nan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's ditched you three times in a row, it sounds like he is trying to get you to dump him because he doesn't want to be the bad guy.
2007-07-27 14:22:01 · answer #7 · answered by alli8188 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not dump him straightaway. Just tell him exactly how you feel. He may not even realise that he's doing this. Once you've explained it to him he may surprise you.
2007-07-27 14:21:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look elsewhere immediately.
2007-07-27 14:21:05 · answer #9 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loser you deserve some one better than him.
2007-07-27 14:48:40 · answer #10 · answered by Jules 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋