He´s chatting with another younger girl, became violent with me when I had his daughter in my arms and is totally intolerent!!
2007-07-27 12:21:30 · 12 answers · asked by Miki 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
leaving would make me and infant baby homeless??
2007-07-27 12:22:15 · update #1
he is seeing someone else and resents being with u, get a job, sue for child support, and somehow move on, life is never easy but this is something u have no control over, and the longer u stay wit him the worse its going to get. leave with your dignity, if he is chatting with her, he is probably sleeping with her too. be true to yourself, and never let anyone disrespect u like that. he is violent because he wants to be with the girl, as she makes him feel young, and with her he hasn't got the responsibility of the baby. he is immature and not worth it. god will bring someone worthy into your life once u get what is not out of your life.
2007-07-27 12:47:49 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a mother, I would rather be homeless than to live with someone who was violent towards me and my child. There has to be a better option for you, even if it means living with friends, family or in a shelter until you can get back onto your feet.
You need to think about your baby and protect her at all costs!! You don't want her to grow up in a violent envirnment, seeing her mother getting beat on or thinking it's okay for a man to hit her. It's a vicious cycle that goes on for generations.
Please think of yourself and your baby and move on. There is someone out there for you that will love you & your daughter and will treat you both with the respect that you need and deserve.
2007-07-27 19:26:11 · answer #2 · answered by endo_chic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a shelter and get out. You cannot stay with an abusive person. You and your daughter deserve more.
2007-07-27 19:38:58 · answer #3 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM!! oh my goodness i am so sorry but would you rather be hurt very badly in a house or out (maybe in a better place) and safe? there are so many ways of help for you... there are many places that take in people without homes and everything... i am so sorry!!
2007-07-27 19:25:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is plenty of help and battered womens shelters to go to. Whether it is over or not is not even a question. You should be concerned of your childs safety not about the realtionship.
2007-07-27 19:24:42 · answer #5 · answered by Smelly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get some training, a job and leave. He will have to pay child support, but he doesn't have to also support you. Get some job training so you don't depend on abusive jerks.
2007-07-27 19:26:59 · answer #6 · answered by lollipop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's over...He's not worth ur time...im sure there are other guy out there for you that would treat u better than he is treating u!
2007-07-27 19:24:40 · answer #7 · answered by figureskater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you'll consider staying just to have a roof over your head? have you no family or friends that could put you up till you get your own place? i urge you to please get out for both yours and your baby's sake. good luck hunny x x
2007-07-27 19:25:43 · answer #8 · answered by kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's over
2007-07-27 19:25:25 · answer #9 · answered by MSW2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's places to go for help...if you need to
2007-07-27 20:01:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋