Family & Relationships - 27 July 2007

2007-07-27 11:57:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

For the employers.... if you have a part time clerical position open somewhere and you are giving 2 different times of the day to pick to work which are 8-12PM or 1PM-5PM.... would you let a person work 8-12 on Tuesday and Thursdays and then 1-5 on mondays and wednesdays so it will fit their schedules if they go to college??

2007-07-27 11:57:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm friends with this guy who would send me emails daily and little love letters and whatnot. He was really nice and cool to me. We talked on the phone a lot, etc. He recently told me not to talk to this slutty chick that we work with because he doesn't like her and shes a **** [shes a ***** too, shes mean to other chicks] so, anyways... now like out of no where, he's not talking to me that much anymore. He ignores me a lot now. And he talks a lot to the slutty fat chick whos a *****. He interrupts me when I speak to people and he doesnt talk to me on the phone or write to me anymore. I find that very ****** up. And he was shy when he was around me before but now hes acting like a showoff and talking bout how hott he thinks other chicks are. I mean what the hell?! I don't know what to say, cuz he wont listen to me for some reason and I dont know why. He's being really gay to me now too. And he like yells at me and ****. Like today I bought him some lunch, and he yelled at me to hury up

2007-07-27 11:47:58 · 5 answers · asked by pooky bear 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, as most know I am openly lesbian. I've NEVER had a girlfriend who was in any way willing to introduce me to their family, or include me in ANY family event. Example: For the last 5 years of my last relationship, I spent every singled Christmas holiday alone. I was not allowed to spend it with my 'girlfriend'. She left me at home and spent the day with her parents & siblings. She's not the only one to do that! Every single girl I've ever dated does that. Why?
I really don't see how I could be an embarassment. I'm an accomplished & professional singer, a world championship athlete, and now am a law student. I feel like I'm just not good enough for anyone, but looking at my credentials....it doesn't make sense. What's the deal?

2007-07-27 11:43:34 · 6 answers · asked by cyanne2ak 7 in Singles & Dating

I've been having an affair for nearly a year and have just found out that I am pregnant, the baby is unplanned but I think I want it.

The problem is my partner, how do I tell him that we stuffed up the contraception and that I am expecting his child.

I love my partner very much and always hoped that he would leave his wife one day and we would have a child together.

How do I convince him that this is an accident and not something I had planned, I know that is what he will think and it isn't true, I would never trap him that way.

Sorry for this being all over the place but that is how I am at the moment.

Any advice welcome.

And before you ask, yes he does have kids, 4 of them from 8 to 20 years old and he has been married 22 years. He hasn't been happy in the marriage for a couple of years though.

2007-07-27 11:42:35 · 12 answers · asked by Tabby 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-27 11:40:48 · 17 answers · asked by SOHOY S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is there a difference between loving one's husband, and being in love with him? Is it possible to love a spouse but not be 'in love' with him? Honest answers, please.......

2007-07-27 11:33:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband cheated on me with his ex girlfriend once and mother of his first two kids while i was pregnant with our now 17 month old son. It killed me because i suspected and asked him for 2 years before he admitted the truth and of coarse because it meant that he'd still had feelings for her at the time. I also found out from her that he had told her he loved her and wanted to be with her and all this on the night they were together. This is highly upsetting being that i still have to deal with her bc of the kids. He was my first serious and true love , i was head over hills. ever since he has admitted the truth i feel as though i still love him but i still cannot look at him the same even though its been 2 years since it happened. I tried to leave 3 times but he kept begging and crying and since we have built so much together i couldn't leave. why can't i bring myself to leave someone who hurt me so much and any advice on how to get through it if i stay?

2007-07-27 11:25:16 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boyfriend just sits onthe phone saying nothin..plz give me a list ofthing to talk about im stuck..i really want this relationship,but it seems likeit going no were..plz help

2007-07-27 11:25:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-27 11:23:53 · 26 answers · asked by Beautiful 1 in Singles & Dating

A female co worker has been flirting with me lately. She's pretty much made it clear that she wants to be intimate. I'd be lying if I said I'm not tempted. I'm only interested in a one night thing, nothing permanent. I care for my wife, but I just need a temporary release and escape.

2007-07-27 11:23:40 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hey my boyfriend really wants me to have a three some with him, and i am 18. i really want to because i am always open to new ideas but i was thinking and how is this possible? there is only three people. i agreed only if the third person is a guy so how do u think this will work? with two guys and only one girl? iplease explain to me in detail so i understand exactly what to do!
ts going to be another girl, not guy! so what do we do?

2007-07-27 11:21:26 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can I show this to them?

2007-07-27 11:20:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 17 at the moment turning 18 soon. I am attracted to a guy who has recently turned 21. We both get on very well and have been friends for a long time. I know he is attracted to me too. Is this okay or is the age gap too large?

2007-07-27 11:18:38 · 26 answers · asked by sarahmurray 1 in Singles & Dating

So if u give me an answer to forget him than it wouldnt work.Cause I LOVE HIM!!!!

2007-07-27 11:13:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anne S 1 in Singles & Dating

I think she is cheating on me

2007-07-27 11:13:14 · 16 answers · asked by BA D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I finished with my boyfriend of 6 months because he was obsessed with his ex who treated him really badly. I have listnened and supported him for the last 6months. I didnt want our relationship to end at all. We are still in touch but when I saw him last week, I felt so upset. He was still talking about his ex even though he knows it hurts me and I pointed that out to him. He said if we are to be friends he needs to talk about her because she is on his mind so much. I feel so used as it is as if our relationship meant nothing. He tells me I am a great person and he still finds me really attractive but it doesnt make me feel better. I dont have many friends as I am new to this area and my daughter has left home. I feel so low and just want to ring him one minute and tell him to p** off the next. How can I move on from this selfish man. How in the hell can we be friends when it hurts so much.

2007-07-27 11:09:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My partner has a porn addiction. I didn't mind when it was just a bit of fun between the 2 of us but it is now getting ridiculous! He promised me he would stop but I think he has been doing it again. How can I check? He deletes it out of history but I know there is another way!

2007-07-27 11:01:10 · 26 answers · asked by kazwaz01 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've heard people say they "love this person", but they're not "in love" with them. I never quite knew what that meant. Can anybody out there educate me? Thanks.

2007-07-27 10:59:59 · 12 answers · asked by KADKAD 1 in Singles & Dating

say u were allowed 2 give one kiss 2 any one in the world...they can be super famous or not...heck it doesnt even have 2 b human.. who would u choose and where would u kiss that person??!!!

i would choose cristiano ronaldo.....*drool*...on the lips...muahhhhhhhhhh...that would be amazing!!
o0o0o0o.....lol

2007-07-27 10:59:17 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met him for the first time and he was a total jerk. He wouldn't tell me if I had brothers or sisters. Just curious

2007-07-27 10:57:37 · 4 answers · asked by prisdiaz 1 in Family

2007-07-27 10:56:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

containing "a long list" of what they consider your personal faults?

2007-07-27 10:55:20 · 8 answers · asked by nodumgys 7 in Marriage & Divorce

We fight fight fight...not all the time though...but quite a bit! How can I

2007-07-27 10:55:15 · 10 answers · asked by Narissa 2 in Friends

Im 5'7 weigh 125, curvy body, (the package), peachy,tan clear skin, brown eyes, blonde hair(highlights), dress neat and expensive clothes. Smile alot and im friendly. i get alot of compliments on being attractive..im also very confident.. ok and here is the thing... if you would see me (guys) what would you do? come and talk to me? flirt, or what.. and the thing is im wearing a big bling on my hand! .... women can answer too. im just wondering because im just wondering why do guys think they can come up to me and ask me out .. i dont give them any signs or anything.. and i do have a big bling..give me some good and honest answers...

2007-07-27 10:54:02 · 7 answers · asked by sara 2 in Singles & Dating

http://www.anntaylor.com/catalog/outfit.jsp?ensembleId=1988&N=1200043&categoryId=221&Ns=CATEGORY_SEQ_221

I am getting married in 3 months and desperate to find bridesmaid dresses that can deliver immediately. And my girls are spread accross the country and no time for the standard 12-16wk delivery + fitting.

Our colors are chocolate brown and sage green. Do you think this dress is too summery for an evening October wedding?

I was thinking of pairing the dress with brown sheer shalls, brown necklace and brown shoes. Thoughts?

2007-07-27 10:51:37 · 33 answers · asked by NoTurningBackNow 5 in Weddings

My fiance took on myself and my 2 children from a previous relationship. They call him and dad and that is all that matters, but we'd like to include them in our readings in our upcoming wedding, to pronounce us as a family. We were thinking of giving them a necklace each too.

2007-07-27 10:48:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

feel I am with a stranger after this discovery. So far I have kept this to myself as I decide on my actions. The weight is becoming heavier and I am beginning to feel ill.

2007-07-27 10:45:32 · 37 answers · asked by Evet 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i went out with this girl on a blind date and i thought we had a great time. she was realy cute and seemed to be havin a blast. i just found out that she doesnt wanna date me, but she wants to be friends because she had a great time. other than looks, wat could be the reason for this?

2007-07-27 10:44:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you have been adopted, does it effect you and being able to be in a relationship? Do you outwarding state that you are not bothered by it, but underneath it causes problems with your relationships? Looking for some insight.

2007-07-27 10:40:29 · 4 answers · asked by Steph 3 in Other - Family & Relationships