I am 17 at the moment turning 18 soon. I am attracted to a guy who has recently turned 21. We both get on very well and have been friends for a long time. I know he is attracted to me too. Is this okay or is the age gap too large?
2007-07-27 11:18:38 · 26 answers · asked by sarahmurray 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its ok its only 3 years its not a big deal
2007-07-27 11:21:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age gap fine.
18 - 21 same age bracket.
if you said 18 & 25 I would have something to say about it...
2007-07-27 18:57:01 · answer #2 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with that age gap. In a couple of years it will seem like nothing at all.
2007-07-27 18:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok as long as he is into you and you are into him, then its ok, age is really nothing just than a number, there are many couples that date people way older that 3 years, the age gap between u two is practacly normal. just be sure that you really care about him and that he cares about you.
⥠good luck
2007-07-27 18:24:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not too big of a gap. But he can go to bars and you can't. He can drink and you can't . But if you get on well and he is not using you.If you have a respectable relationship - He has met your parents etc. Then I think its okay.
2007-07-27 18:23:04 · answer #5 · answered by primamaria04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not a big age gap at all go for it
2007-07-27 18:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by hortense h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's fine, it's only 4 years. Actually it's just over 3 years. What are you worried about?
There were eighteen years between my parents, they met when my mother was in her twenties, and stayed together for 36 years until my father died.
2007-07-27 19:19:08 · answer #7 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That age gap is just about perfect. Go for it!
2007-07-27 18:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by UnderwaterTomato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a rule of thumb, if you can count the age difference in years on one hand, and you're both adults, it ain't a big deal.
2007-07-27 18:28:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way thats not too much of a gap. about 3 years apart. just like me.
2007-07-27 18:23:17 · answer #10 · answered by kawee * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal and it's OK,I have been with older guys like 25 year old guys and I am 18!
Good luck and do whatever makes YOU HAPPY!!!!!!!
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2007-07-27 18:24:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋