ever since i was a little girl i have always been close to my dad i used to wake up in the middle of the night when he would get home just to fall asleep in his lap but for the last couple of years i havent been as close for the last few times i have seen him he has been drinking a lot and puts beer before me he has also said some really hurtfull things like he wish i were more like my step brothers cause at least he could be proud of them and when he said that to me i held the tears inside and told him that i loved him anyways how do i tell him that when he tells me these things that it ruins my day and hurts me deeply
2007-07-27 12:32:59 · 7 answers · asked by Tiffany F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The first thing is don't try to talk to him when he's drinking. There's probably something else going on that's bothering him. It's either too much for him or out of his control. How are things with him and your Step-Mom? You and your Step-Mom?
If you're going to talk to him, do it when he's not drinking. Don't condem his actions but rather just tell him you're hurt and you know that's not his intentions.
Remember, you are the only one in control of your life. Bad things will happen and people will hurt you. How you deal with it will determine your future happiness. Concentrate on your future.
It's really sad but you can cope and you will survive,
Good Luck
2007-07-27 19:14:55 · answer #1 · answered by Caretaker 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I am sure he is does not mean to hurt you, maybe he is not even aware, since you have not talked to him about your relationship with your Dad.
Tell him, how you feel that is the only way, then you will know for sure, that he truly loves you, and he would not do anything to hurt you.
Have a nice weekend.
2007-07-27 19:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by That one 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang in the honey GODS got something good for you around the corner.
2007-07-27 20:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him help for his drinking because alcohol messes with judgement and compresses (squashes) his brain.
When he's sober, he loves you too.
2007-07-27 19:48:12 · answer #4 · answered by Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have yu tried talkin to him..an opening up to make him realize prove him wrong bout things an try to get some help..
2007-07-27 19:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love him from a distance, show yourself by being all you can be... then he will see... be proud of yourself... God will bless you.. thats one man that will never look down on you.... he loves as is.... ps.best answer!!!!!
2007-07-27 19:44:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i feel sry for u!!
i wish i culd help but idk wat to do!!!
i hope everythin works for u!!!!
2007-07-27 19:36:55 · answer #7 · answered by Courtney C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋