I'm 14, I have a younger sister, 10, who a little ***** who gets anything she wants and is still always unsatisfied, and an older sister who had a baby about a month ago. My mom has always treated me like ****, I've even heard her say how out of all my siblings and me, I was the one she DID NOT want. She only complains when I'm around, she calls me home so she can complain when I'm out with my friends. According to her everything's my fault and she's screamed at me about how I should just move in with my dad(who'd probably throw me in a lake if I went with him) because then I'd die of secondhand smoke. Right now she's screaming her *** off at me about how I'm a little **** and all her problems are my fault. I've had seizures and I used to cut myself because of problems with her and there is no way in hell that I'm talking to her. Any way to deal with her?
2007-07-27 12:41:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I don't cuss in front of her.
2007-07-27 15:07:26 · update #1
Ask her what happened in her life that made her such a total bltch
2007-07-27 12:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 4⤊ 3⤋
You should definitely seek some sort of therapy but it doesn't sound as if your mother would be totally supportive of that. I would speak to a school counselor or anyone at your school who you trust. Maybe they can help you or talk to your dad about what's going on. Have you tried reaching out to any other family members i.e. aunts, grandparents, anyone who may be able to help you in your situation. I hope the best for you sweetie. I hate to hear about people being put through such hard times.
2007-07-27 19:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by pinkaddiction9408 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God that sounds AWFUL. What a *****! Are you sure that you wouldn't be better off with your father? It sounds like things couldn't be worse with your situation at home. Maybe move in with your sister? I wish you luck sweetie!
You're way too young to be stressed like this. If you lived near me, I'd take you in but you probably don't. :(
2007-07-27 19:48:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 1⤋
Sit down with her and just try to talk it out. She seems pretty stressed out herself and messed up. Probably needs someone to blame it on and your the one that is there. Too bad for you. I have 2 grown daughter of my own and let me tell you it was h--l trying to get through those years. You won't understand what she is going through until you are about 25 or going through it yourself. Tell her that if it doesn't work out you would like to go live with a relative or your sister. Good Luck.
2007-07-27 19:55:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
You need to talk to someone. For now, can you live with any relatives other than your dad?
2007-07-27 20:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by PrettySeaShell 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
As the one poster suggested, try talking to a school counselor or a teacher you like.
P.S. Another suggestion: Why don't you change your attitude towards mom & your sisters? Try beign sweet and cooperative with them for just a week no matter what & see if they change their attitude towards you? Consider it an experiment. You have nothing to lose & everything to gain.
2007-07-27 19:58:11 · answer #6 · answered by mstrywmn 7 · 1⤊ 4⤋
You need to tell someone at school like a counsler about this. I was treated like that and worse when I was your age, and I regret more than anything not saying something. She is abusing you mentally. TELL SOMEONE!!!!!!!! Do NOT let this go on!
2007-07-27 19:47:13 · answer #7 · answered by tarrelen 1 · 6⤊ 2⤋
I guess you learned all that bad language from her, huh? I think you guys are living off hate. How can so much hate and animosity be in one household? I would suggest trying to be positive in a hate filled house. Everything is not your fault at all. Parents are suppose to build up their kids and help them become beautiful loving adults. Since this is not happening in your house, you need help from somewhere. I suggest your local church. Join a church youth group and you will receive love, kindness and maybe a plan to live in peace. Good luck.
2007-07-27 20:03:53 · answer #8 · answered by oldknowitall 7 · 2⤊ 8⤋
Honey, you need to talk to someone! NOW!!! Good luck!
2007-07-27 19:51:06 · answer #9 · answered by iluvkatmcphee 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
what about your dad? other relatives? can't they help you or could you stay with them?
2007-07-27 19:53:23 · answer #10 · answered by racer 51 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋