Need Advice?

Question

I need some advice my bf has been critizing me for a few days and acting really odd we live together and have a son and he always said to come in to his work and pick up some clothes and what ever I wanted so I did will all I hear when he gets home is how cool the girls he works with and one girl he said that she was really cool and i did meet her once and she was not very nice to me and so I go into the shop and he acts all strange and stuff and so when i went in the girls were all staring at me and smiling and stuff all really helpful and i felt really uncomforable so i left after pickingup my things and so I thought I was being paraniod or something and so I went on line today to check my e mail and found he has been checking out their pages on myspace and so I just started crying because I never get jealous or anything but him picking me apart and he asked if I thought this one girl he works with was cool and if I liked her and I better because he thinks she iscool so what do do

I'm a good girlfriend to him I cook, clean, and iron his clothes pick them out for him also I bring his food to him and I'm pretty and smart and a nice person I never dis like anyone and everyone tell me how I have a kick butt personality and I have a lot of confidence in my self and I 'm a goodmom I never get jealous so why is he act ing this way to me can some one help please I 'm crying right now.

Answer 1

this guy is scum. my advice get out. he has showed that he can't commit to you, and today he proved it. if he was a decent man he would have married you before having a child. marrying a woman shows commitment having a child out of wedlock isn't right for the child. It looks like from the ? that you are to good for this guy. it sounds like you deserve better. the "boy" you are with know is disrespectful to you by saying how his co-workers are really cool etc. Find yourself a man, someone who is serious and doesn't want to play around. most importantly go find your son a father figure not a pimp.

Good luck

Answer 2

Its time to get out of DODGE*....