My wife and I both share a similar fantasy of having a threesome, and we've in fact talked a great deal about doing it... The problem is how does one initiate a threesome. We were wondering are there places to go or is there a recommended approach to initiating one if we see someone we both like?
2007-07-27 09:43:03 · 15 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
come on wise up its one thing talking about it lol.
but its another thing doing it
is it not the thought that counts ?
2007-07-27 09:46:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any city with more than 10,000 people has a swingers club. Find one that has an orientation session. You will be able to ask any questions you want since they have heard them all. Then at a party you can pick and choose who is best for each of you. They all know the rules and they follow them. It is the safest and best way.
2007-07-27 10:17:22 · answer #2 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably something you want to keep hush-hush (the neighbors don't need to know your guyes business!) So I would strongly advise in NOT including someone you know an acquaintance or friend because not only can that get out through loose lips but also it could ruin a perfectly fine friendship. I know several people who have used www.adultfriendfinder.com to find people for that and other activities. good luck and have fun.
2007-07-27 09:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by freespiritede1986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The chances of you both liking someone and they being into the threesome thing is slim to none. Why don't you try a magazine called "Connection." It's sold at your local adult toy store. Couples seeking couples, singles seeking singles, Couples seeking whatever.
2007-07-27 09:47:50 · answer #4 · answered by green3ch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I have had a few, and I think the best way to go is for your wife to choose the other girl or you to choose the other guy. Let the one choosing decide if it's going to be a stranger or a friend. Usually, in my experience, friends work better than strangers.
2007-07-31 03:00:25 · answer #5 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look up something called a Swingers Club. Thats how you find what your looking for. I've heard there a lot of fun as well. Nice relaxed environment, with no pressure.
2007-07-27 09:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by Kyle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I have to say is good luck.... My boyfriend and I have tried but couldn't figure out how to go about it. If you get any ideas let me know!! I want to have one with him...with another girl...he won't go for another guy in the picture.
2007-07-27 09:47:09 · answer #7 · answered by jennyღ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have done it more then once and i don't think people who are married should cause it cause's alot of prombles if you still want to do it look for it on match.com
2007-07-27 09:47:57 · answer #8 · answered by shawnda c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want a MMF or a FFM? And do you want it with a stranger or with a friend?
Answer these questions and we can give better suggestions!
2007-07-27 09:47:11 · answer #9 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would seriously consider such a move, if you truly value your marriage. Please give some very serious thought to the vows you made to each other.
2007-07-27 09:48:01 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋