Family & Relationships - 21 July 2007

I have been dating him since he was 17 and I was 14.He will be 20 in Feburary and I will be 17 in Janurary.This isnt that bad is it?

2007-07-21 16:14:57 · 14 answers · asked by Domino V 1 in Singles & Dating

Every night when my husband comes homes he starts yelling & complaining about how he pays the bills, etc. He even turns off the A/C/ The house could be spotless, dinner fixed, you name it and he always finds something to complain about! It's getting old What can I do? I've tried ignoring him, yelling back and everything short of leaving him. Is this what he is trying to do, to make me leave?

2007-07-21 16:14:12 · 26 answers · asked by ms chip dog 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I do believe That I love the boy I'm with but i don't know if we should have sex.He respects the fact that I'm not ready yet and he never pushes it. But i feel like it should be about time.

2007-07-21 16:12:15 · 10 answers · asked by Kumori 1 in Singles & Dating

out of these two guys or gurls...which one wud you rather have a relationship with?

A guy/gurl who is very romantic and wants to go to a dance with you.kinda conceited and always thinks he/shes soo hott..talks to you everyday almost.that makes you feel soo much better about yourself.and that lives a bit far away then you.wants to stay on the fone with you even tho u say nuthing.and says he/she loves you even tho ur not sure that u love him/her.get into fights cuz he/she thinks your the only one for him/her.has a job

or

a guy that make you feel 3x better then the first guy/gurl.that always cheers you up no matter how bad you day was or wut happend.that gives you advice about situations that in ur eyes are most difficult.you have fun talking to and u two have alot in common and never shut up.kinda a nerd.doesnt do that much outside.gets into fights with him/her cuz he likes you too much and get jealous over a guy/gurl asking you to go sumwhere he isnt going.doesnt have a job

2007-07-21 16:10:37 · 3 answers · asked by loving you x3 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-21 16:10:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

uhhhhh What !!! I thought this was strange, is it just me or is that common ???

2007-07-21 16:06:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok me and my freind like this guy and my freind told him she liked him and he liked her so they started to go out then my freind comes and tells me about it (she was my B.F.F) so i tell the guy that i liked him when they were going out and he said that he liked me too(i dont my freind about this she would kill me).The next day my freind comes up to me and tells me that he broke up with her,then 2 days later the guy asked me out and i said yes and were still going out today.Is this wrong?please answer i need help

2007-07-21 16:06:13 · 12 answers · asked by omg 1 in Friends

i luv a guy i he hates me ....does flirting make a guy like you?? if so how??
how do u flirt or guys wat make u interested in chicks??

2007-07-21 16:05:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He moved out early this spring and has been sleeping on a floor and a futon. He works full time at Walmart, and he never asks me for anything.
Truthfully, I have a lot of guilt over how poor we were when he was a little boy. I worry a lot about whether or not he is permanently damaged by the way life was when he was little, so now I help out when I can. I pay his college tuition and offer to help him out in whatever way I can.
Should I buy him a box springs and mattress? The one I looked at is $600+ dollars at Menards and it would be a birthday present.

2007-07-21 16:00:04 · 21 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

to go out wit a senior while ur a freshman. i'm startin not c tha big deal wit it

2007-07-21 15:59:21 · 14 answers · asked by Mark W 1 in Singles & Dating

So my little brother is 12 and when he's around my parents or grandparents, or anyone that he wouldn't be immature in front of then he's standable. but when we're alone or with his friends he has a tendancy to call everyone stupid and retarded and ugly and he doesn't realize how much he is hurting others. this is just a mere reminder to you all that everyone has feelings and what you might say to someone else could do more harm then you expect

2007-07-21 15:56:23 · 11 answers · asked by shortmellophonegeek 2 in Family

We have been in a monagomous (well i have) relationship for15 yrs 4 yrs ago my mother had a stroke and he got a new job in a new state. Myself and my daughter went to my mothers and took care of her for 2 yrs. During that time he was relocating for a new career. We had a month or two of long distance discourse. Otherwise he came every wknd and holiday to be with us. however when we moved here he had not gotton a place ( he was living w/mommy again) His parents and all his coworkers had no idea we were together muchless that id been there for years nor did anyone know about our daughter. Ok i know some are curious, im well educated( coll. GPA 3.87) ex-model for mead,and at 40 i still have 20yrs young man telling me how hot I am. My downside luekemia, and reaccuring manic depression that comes with it. I work openly and honestly with my doctors to keep both under controll. 98% of people who know me would describe me as upbeat even, not sad or gloomy. i feel my times running out

2007-07-21 15:56:13 · 31 answers · asked by sxzartease 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when a boy you like likes you???

2007-07-21 15:53:24 · 17 answers · asked by Love 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband left recently. Said that he loved me and cared about me but was no longer in love with me that way. I am having a hard time admitting to myself he is not coming home. And i know once i do i can start the healing process. But how do you admit it and start healling?

2007-07-21 15:50:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have no family or friends that will help me move.

2007-07-21 15:43:19 · 17 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...My husband and I got saved and redeicated my life 2 years ago. He has been struggling with his drinking but he told me that he was delivered. I learned 3 weeks ago that he started partying, clubbing, drinking and smoking all over again. I love him and want to be with him but he is making it hard for me to live holy for God because I have some of these desires myself. He stays out until all hours of the night and I am miserable. What do I do?

2007-07-21 15:42:35 · 8 answers · asked by blesssedservant 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm a 5'10 , 245 lbs women.. i'm ot huge but i'm thick.. i find alot of men judge me on my looks.. but why? i mean i dont wanna change myslef for no man but it justed bothers me about it.. besides would it make a difference how big or small i was as long as i'm a good woman an love my man..

2007-07-21 15:36:54 · 27 answers · asked by Shelly 3 in Singles & Dating

Something really wrong you could never expect she'd do and let the family down. Lies, jealousy. You feel like crap as a parent. I know she's a good kid, something went wrong. What to do now? I must find a way to deal with this so that the girl fixes her mistake and we all get over this and everything is as before. When I was a teen something similar happened with the children of a couple friend of my parents. They gave him a harsh punishment. It worked but almost destroyed the boy emotionally. He never got over. Today, 25 years later, he's a great guy, great father, but hardly talks with his parents. A broken family. This would make me and my wife devastated.

2007-07-21 15:36:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am short so I need something with a high heel, but I want something comfortable. I'm just wondering if the silk is too dressy for outdoors. This style also comes in a satin fabric so maybe that make more sense. What do you think?

Here's the link:

https://weddingpartyshoes.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=205

2007-07-21 15:33:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

and whats with this whole 2 year crap i keep hearing. when your 14-18 "you can't date a girl thats more then 2 years younger then a guy" as all of my guy friends say

2007-07-21 15:32:45 · 13 answers · asked by Julia 2 in Singles & Dating

I've always been a shy person, but when it comes to guys I never feel confident, and I know that the way my voice comes out I probably don't sound very confident, either. How can I stop being shy around guys I like, and basically guys overall?

2007-07-21 15:32:23 · 15 answers · asked by Laurie 5 in Singles & Dating

My best friend is cheating on his 6 or 7th gf..I kinda saw it today(6 hours ago).I wanted to tell his gf because she's also my friend but her smile kinda made me back down :(
I did tell my best friend (wtf is wrong with u ) he said I don't know ....I said cheating on a beautiful girl is the same thing as ....he didn't even listening to me... he kinda saw his Japanese girl friend and said
( I want to break with you )

I was like O_O.....he left..she cried..I my bitted my lips until blood came out to stop my rage
(it hurts now also ^^). I kinda touched her shoulder and said (he''s a jerk.he'll say sorry )
but she violently just pushed me. I was like : (
and left her alone ? and cached up to him and I ran fast and punched him in the stomach ....she saw(dammit) and now she's crying even more....I left them alone well he couldn't move no doubt...

Was it the right thing to do ?

I mean what would you do ?

fudge !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I feel like killing him !

2007-07-21 15:32:17 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

k so im like 5 7 aparently rreally atractive but like not vain!! im like normal weight kinda thin but like ther is always the thing in the bak of my mind i could stil loose a few pounds..or not eat this pizzaor whatever?what is your advice..

2007-07-21 15:30:04 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband of one year just recently found out that he may have a 3-yr old daughter. The mother of the child seems very willing to work out child support, and custody arrangements between the two of them, if paternity comes back positive. She even is willing to go to court and have the arrangements set in stone... I guess my question is... Is this normal? Or maybe the quiet before the storm? I hear so many stories, and terrible things that happen in these situations. Has anyone been in this situation? Any bad or good stories? I would love any feedback you may have. Thank you.

2007-07-21 15:28:31 · 17 answers · asked by Natalie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My cousin's name is Andrew (Andy) and he's 15. I'm Lauren and I'm 13. I really don't know how to greet him and I really missed him. (No I don't want to date him, gross!) I want to seem outgoing, funny, nice and athletic. How do I make myself more interesting when I greet him? Remember I want it to be exicting too!

Thank you so much for your time!
Please answer with the most advice you have.
Thanks!

2007-07-21 15:28:26 · 9 answers · asked by Lauren B 1 in Family

ok...im depressed!!!

i got lots of problems!! family and frends!!
i dunno wat to do wif ma lyf...and hardly hav a day wifout feeling depressed!! What do i do? what do i have to think...im a christian!!

Frend problems: rejected and leftout everyday at skool for a whole term!!

i juss duno wat to do wif myself and ma lyf...

2007-07-21 15:27:37 · 8 answers · asked by musicADDICT ♫♪ 2 in Friends

and especially when they are cheating or seeing someone else behind your back

2007-07-21 15:27:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-21 15:26:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my mother &father inlaw owned a resort for 30 years.when i married my husband, i started to work there , this is my 8th year.they sold the resort last year. the woman i work for now, is always pulling me aside, and scolding me for something small, like 1 pine needle was left on the kitchen floor. this resort is way out in the wilderness, and pne needles are a part of life. her husband has a great sence of humor, and is always joking with us, and talking to us. if she sees this, she immeadiatly cuts him off and says( GET BACK TO WORK) her last worker, before me walked out on her in mid season, she called me, begging for my help, so i did, am i wrong for wanting to walk out to? why is she so mean to me?

2007-07-21 15:25:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would you rather go out with a beautiful woman who is annoying, or a more average looking woman that is not annoying?

2007-07-21 15:24:43 · 2 answers · asked by Helga G. Pataki 6 in Singles & Dating