I do believe That I love the boy I'm with but i don't know if we should have sex.He respects the fact that I'm not ready yet and he never pushes it. But i feel like it should be about time.
2007-07-21 16:12:15 · 10 answers · asked by Kumori 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do what ever your heart tells you (means yes)
2007-07-21 16:15:31 · answer #1 · answered by Mike T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
KUMORI............sex is a natural thing but you must use cation when making the decision to engage in sex activity......
this a prime time for young girls to forget that they are highly likely to become pregnant.[very easy].if this should happen are you ready to settle in to the demands that comes with motherhood?...there is a lot that comes after sex that you may not think about at the time of it....
9Mons is not long enough for you to know for sure if you love that guy or even if he would stay if you did have a child...
young guys won't settle much until they are at least 25yrs of age, then it's hard to get them to be the father and husband that they should be and it's not getting any better....
you have referee to your guy as a "BOY" ...so this have to mean that you think of yourself as a "GIRL".....[not a woman]
WHAT EVER YOUR DECISION IS PLEASE THINK ABOUT YOUR FUTURE...........do it for you...........don't be taken in with sweet promises that a boy can't keep even if he wanted to....look at it in this way for now.......could or would you have time for school and a full time care giver if someone needed full time attention?........a cousin, a nece, an uncle or ant......honestly could you be with them 85% of your time starting tomorrow?...........think about the PAIN of giving birth...........with these throughts in mine are sure you're ready yet?............
be smart.......and waite a while longer, and i'm sure you will..........
live right.
live happy.
and live long.
STEVE.......
my wife and i have raise 2 daughters and 1 son and have 8 beautiful grandkids......but i still wish my youngest would have finish collage....she become pregnant and had to drop out...
2007-07-21 23:41:05 · answer #2 · answered by LITTLE_JOHN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not about how long you've been dating...will u regret losing ur virginity if you all break up...sex is emotional, so u need to be ready for this emotional ride...things may change btw u 2 or he may even change...dont be in a rush, just let things flow naturally and be sure to use protection if u do decide to...and u can also go to a help clinic in your area so that both of u can learn about birth control and even take STD test(even if u are a virgin)
2007-07-21 23:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by sckr4luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it! There is something to be said about waiting until you are married. It shows respect for your future spouse. It also means that you are mature enough - psychologically, financially, spiritually, etc - to have sex with someone. Right now, your hormones are kicking into high gear.....but don't let new chemicals override your mind. Be smart and wait. Please!
2007-07-21 23:16:16 · answer #4 · answered by Eastern US Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it just b/c there is peer pressure to do it. If u want to, then do it. If u dont want to then dont. If hes doing anything thats making u uncomfortable then stop. There isn't a specific "time".
2007-07-21 23:16:55 · answer #5 · answered by Abby Jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be sure that when you do have sex that its protected sex.sex is great unprotected/unwanted pregnancy is not.talk about it with your partner. he to might not be ready. the truth will allways set you free. good luck
2007-07-21 23:19:27 · answer #6 · answered by Smitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You're too young to be dating for that long and you're way too young for sex. Why not save it for marriage so that you'll have someone that respects you.
2007-07-21 23:15:22 · answer #7 · answered by Pache 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you'll know when it's about time.. it doesn't matter if you've been dating for 3 months or 3 years.. you'll know when the time is right.
2007-07-21 23:14:46 · answer #8 · answered by lilchikka2005 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love make you want to spread them but, you are too young!
Wait !
2007-07-21 23:16:27 · answer #9 · answered by DESIRE OF MY HEART 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't know that means that you are not ready-- if you do, make sure that you have protection
2007-07-21 23:16:10 · answer #10 · answered by bethhb123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋