Family & Relationships - 21 July 2007

My wife and I are having compadibility issues and need to find a sex counsler. None are listed in the phone book as a sex counsler.

2007-07-21 10:46:44 · 6 answers · asked by Sledder 1 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this girl i know named kayla and me and her have went out twice so we love each other still i asked her out recently and she said she has to have some time to recover from her x boyfriend i talk to her on yahoo every night till 6 in the morning, and then sometimes during the day she ignores me on yahoo and i do not no if she is doing because she is busy or if she just doesnt love me btw i really love this girl and if you could help it would be nice thanks

2007-07-21 10:44:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 20 yr old girl and love a 41 yr old man. I have thought about this a lot and several times put this love feeling away. But, then I keep coming back. He is perfect in every way for me. I can't imagine him not being with me. Our personalities match so well. I really love him and want to marry him. I feel he is the only one who understands me. I worry too much about him and care about him and love him. Any advice or comments???

2007-07-21 10:43:50 · 7 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-21 10:43:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in a muslim family when girls move out at after school its such a big deal and all other familys say " oh she's going to move in with a boy and sleep around. and if a boy gets a american girl pregnant is okay. and i wish i could have more trust upon me and i dont do that kind of stuff until i'm married i i only want to go to a awesome college because i want to make something out of my life instead of being like my brothers who smoke crap and drink (which is forbidden in are religion)

2007-07-21 10:43:19 · 5 answers · asked by Soccergirl15 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

it looks like it might rain, but its quiet and peaceful, you can hear a few birds. I hope you have it as good.

2007-07-21 10:42:07 · 18 answers · asked by pancakes 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

She's single. I was married. My kids are adult and they will not be living with us. Its not them she disllikes.. She thinks they are nice kids. Its the fact that i already did a beautiful thing with someone else. I really love her and she loves me so much. She is trying to overcome her feelings. She s been to counselling and read about it. How can i help her do this. She has already met them and the day went very nicely. She is very open about this and it really gets her down sometimes. Im 45 and she's 37. She does want to get married and have kids of her own and she says she loves me like she's never loved anyone else and i do too. Please help me help her. It's too good a thing to lose.

2007-07-21 10:41:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I act like a wierdo, i do random things ...funny voices, sing, dance , look at myself in the mirror, impersonations...really stupid **** that if people were watching in my house would think completely different of me, haha . Anyone else do this? cause i just can't picture some of my friends being this wierd even if they were home alone.

2007-07-21 10:40:09 · 14 answers · asked by mike 1 in Singles & Dating

What does a guy do if he likes you?

2007-07-21 10:39:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-21 10:39:46 · 23 answers · asked by Smiley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

yeah when you read that your probably like "what a baby!" but umm... no i bet you are too when you think about this for about 5 minutes... When you die.... where do you go? People say heaven (i believe in it) but what if there is no such thing? just is it like an endless sleep? what happens? strangly i wouldnt post this... because none would no.... but at least give me a line or two about like "proof"

2007-07-21 10:38:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is a little to good to be true. Besides doing all that he can for me, he says i am special, i complete him, i am his world and that he really likes me.

I just don't see how he can really be meaning this even though he says he's never lie to me...Should i just accept it or do i have a reason for being a little skeptical??? I mean we are only 16!

2007-07-21 10:38:02 · 25 answers · asked by Megan M 1 in Singles & Dating

and when you want to find love, you never find what you're looking for? why is that?

2007-07-21 10:36:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and myboyfriend have been on and off for 3 years, we were together for 2 and sort of together for 1 well we made it official again and we've been back for over a month and he wont say I love you. Even though he used to say it to me before we broke up a year ago. He said that he wants to say it on his own and he wont say it. How long it too long to wait?

2007-07-21 10:36:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-21 10:35:13 · 22 answers · asked by SweetV 2 in Singles & Dating

I haven't given him an answer yet....I know this makes me look bad. I've had a rough life and I just am not sure if I'm ready to take on this sort of challenge. what should I do?

2007-07-21 10:32:38 · 19 answers · asked by ?????? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-21 10:27:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My "fiance" and I were together 4 yrs.Some good, mostly bad.He was an 'internet man".Always talking to other women. While we were engaged. While we had a marriage license.He was asking them to marry him.He cheated on me in real life. Three times. I forgave.He would start fights while I was on a heart monitor.I kicked him out.I loved all I could. He wouldn't change.Now he has cancer, from smoking.He blames me for it.I wished it on him. I'm not that kind of person.I made mistakes in relationship also.He is with another woman now, I think. I sent him an e card pleading with him for forgiveness. And I forgave him for all the hurt that he inflicted on me and my daughters.I got no reply. I saw that he picked up the card.No forgiveness for me.He says he's a Christian. He quotes the Bible. I haven't seen him in 3 months...no contact except the card. I wanted to forgive him to help myself.What do I do if he refuses to forgive me???Should I write again?

2007-07-21 10:26:58 · 14 answers · asked by diecast_heart 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-21 10:25:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 5 months and have not had sex for the last 3, every time i ask she is too tired so on and so forth.
any ideas what to do

2007-07-21 10:22:40 · 35 answers · asked by bonodopeydog 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We met about 2 years ago & everything was great.The only thing is he smoked pot when we met.He said I was all the high he needed & that he would quit if we were together.We have a 5 month old now.I want him 2 grow up.He's 25 years old & because of his habit I have no respect for him & basically think he's an idiot.I hate feelin like this becuz I do love him.I just want him 2 stop.He's been tellin me for 2 years,I'll quit by myself when I'm ready.No change.He told me he's only been doin it about once a month.So I got ahold of his drug dealer who I found out was one of our mutual friends & squeezed out of him that he's been spendin about $40/week on it and buyin it once or twice a week.I told him it was the drugs or me & he said u know where the door is!I'm tryin 2 figure out what Im doing.He keeps cryin & gettin upset & askin me 2 stay.He says he wants me here becuz he loves me so much but he wants 2 do whatever he wants.I don't want my baby thinkin my dad is a loser.she deserves better

2007-07-21 10:22:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i like this guy but i don't know if he likes me....are there really any signs that he dous??

2007-07-21 10:22:18 · 13 answers · asked by laura 2 in Singles & Dating

So im friends with this guy...and were like ultra close, i mean i've told him stuff no one knows about me. I know he liked me for a while, i told him i didnt feel that way. Were still friends, but I want to pull back. I dont like feeling vulnerable, and lately he's been annoying me and i just want to have stuff about me that not everyone knows. Were too close, and I dont want that. How can I pull back, without seeming like im ignoring him or being mean? Help!

2007-07-21 10:21:48 · 5 answers · asked by Kemps K 2 in Singles & Dating

at 18 i have had nearly 12 g f's at different times. then one day my eye's froze on a female that looked about 22. i walkked up to her in a daze and whatever i said made her respond. i found myself talking with her after 2 hours, without knowing where the time had gone.

the relationship lasted for 5 years, she suffered a fall while rock climbing and died. i went into celebacy for 6 years after. everybody critizised our being together especially my exe's and the older guy's gave her a bad time too. in the early my mom was kinda pi..., off, but we did not care, because we knew what we knew.

there are lot's of jealous people who are against younger and olderer people relationships, even those that you've never seen before in your life. i say to them, va fai in culo !

2007-07-21 10:19:13 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this guy we like each other but im 13 and he is 17 is he after sleeping with me or does he care about me

2007-07-21 10:14:42 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-21 10:10:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is married. And she told me she had a message to give to me and i said from who and she said from her. And i said ok what is it? And she said "Boom Chicka Wah Wah". Im married too and want to know is she flirting with me?

2007-07-21 10:04:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

once they are old bangers get rid of them for a model that is nice to look at and comfortable when you get inside?

2007-07-21 10:01:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a 33 year old single mother of 2 boys ages 17 and 10. I had recently been seeing (well not seeing, but sleeping with) a 22 year old, who was an assistant coach on the baseball team for my 10 year old and also works at his afterschool program. He was (is) fricking awesome, and I miss him, I stepped back from it because I felt weird when he stayed over and my 17 year old greeted him in the morning. I'm in a funky transitional relationship right now with a loser...what do i do here?

2007-07-21 09:57:23 · 19 answers · asked by MissayQ 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been seperated from my husband for almost 4 yrs and am unable to find an attorney to take my case that I can afford. I have pursued child support enforcement through the state of Fl but when my spouse found out he left his job of 18yrs because the state is taking so long to get him. He thinks he will get out of paying. I desperately need help but because I have a decent job making decent money I do not qualify for any state or gov. assistance nor do I belong to any church or social group that is willing to come to my aide in my time of need. My only option is an attorney that is going to go after this deadbeat like a bulldog. Yet as hard as I have searched I can not find one even the state wants a $600 up frt retainer I just cant fit that into my budget as it's hard enough to fit groceries. I am not looking for a hand out or a pity party just an honest ligitamate attorney that will waive the retainer and make the husband pay in all avenues available.

2007-07-21 09:56:04 · 7 answers · asked by flawolfchild 2 in Marriage & Divorce