Family & Relationships - 21 July 2007

i have kids and i think that is keeping us from living together but we have a relationship as close as a married couple. i don't like leaving him or him leaving me at night to go sleep in seperate beds

2007-07-21 08:16:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whenever someone talks to me, even if they just say "hi", I usually can't think of anything to say and I just smile dumbly. If I'm around people I know, I'm really loud and lively. But around people I don't know so well, my voice goes all soft so I can hardly hear myself and it gets all scratchy like I've just woken up. And if someone asks me to hang out, especially if it's a guy, I usually make up some excuse so I can avoid any awkward situations. Is there something wrong with me? Can anyone help me, or am I a lost cause?

2007-07-21 08:13:14 · 4 answers · asked by †StrongAsDeath† 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

What kind of bra can i wear with a strapless bra?
Also my wedding is at 11 am how long will the reception have to be? would i have to provide lunch as well as dinner?
I am having a 3 course meal will it be a good idea to add a buffet as well?what time would guests leave?(normally)

2007-07-21 08:05:36 · 28 answers · asked by mimij 1 in Weddings

I responded to a wedding RSVP that I WOULD be attending. Now I don't feel like going. It's today.

2007-07-21 08:01:42 · 22 answers · asked by MB-n-KC 4 in Weddings

Do u think she remembers me?
I went up to this girl almost 2 weeks ago @ my school... and asked if she wanted to get a coffee.. she told me she had a boyfriend but she sorta wanted me to stick around and we got to talkin... she asked me for my name and if we're in anything together but i soon left and i still feel she was somewhat interested.

I have only seen her once... but i didnt go outta my way to talk to her that time... Do u think if i went up to her again... she'd remember me and my name?

2007-07-21 08:01:00 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

some cute little nonsexual things

2007-07-21 08:00:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this guy we started dating this summer and just last thursday he says he wants to take a break like he says im locking him down and he wants to party or wateva cuz it's the summer. and then he says when i'm around other girls he feels like if he touches them or sumthin it wouldn't be rite or he does't feel rite and i said he can have girls as friends and he needs to no his dos and don'ts like boundaries and he said he doesn't want any boundaries so we broke up 4 now and he wants to get back together like at the end of the summer i'm like should i get back with him i kinda understand y he broke up with me because so if he touch another girl it won't be cheatin or anything cuz we broke up 4 now so i'm like he respects my feelings and most guys don't do that he could have me and go behind my back and do his dirt so he really thinks about my feelings

2007-07-21 07:59:08 · 5 answers · asked by keron s 2 in Singles & Dating

How long have you waited to ask a girl you like out. It has been 2 1/2 months since a guy I like asked if I was single, and nothing is happening. He might not been interested anymore, but I am wondering if this is a long time or not. Just curious. If guys are interested, don't you make a move right away?

2007-07-21 07:50:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we're both 18 and have dated for a little over a year now. i really really love him and i personally dont want him to go into the air force but its something he wants to do for our country. i'm just really nervous about the whole thing! any ideas on what i should do? should i support him or try to convince him not to go so we can pursue our relationship further?

2007-07-21 07:49:48 · 4 answers · asked by Trisha! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im 13 and me & my boyfriend talk about havin sex alot.. were so in love, and trust me .. everyone says were meant to be , yeah i know im 'only 13' but anyone can find true love.. anyways , im just wondering if i should have sex with him.. like in the next year ? I know for fact he would never leave me.. so im just wondering ? We would use condoms , spermicide & BC.. so any suggestions , im still thinking about whether i should or not , please give me GOOD answers !!

2007-07-21 07:45:58 · 23 answers · asked by Just Me* 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey. Okay. So theres this really hott guy I have seen around. My friend is sorta friends with him and she knows I think hes so hott, but know I really like this guy but I don't even know him! Is that like weird. I mean my friend told me all about him and said he was a great guy. How do I introduce myself to him? I really want to meet him!
Thanks so much!

2007-07-21 07:44:26 · 20 answers · asked by carlee 2 in Friends

what do you think of a 36 B?

2007-07-21 07:43:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was walking home with one of my boy mates last week and there was this couple behind us holding hands...my mate, who was walking on the other side of the road said she saw my boy mate look behind at the couple then she said he stared at me for like....10 SECS!!!! (shes definite about what she saw)
so.....does this mean anything?
my mate said she thinks it means that he wanted to hold my hand (shes pretty sure)
what about you?
what do you think?

2007-07-21 07:43:19 · 17 answers · asked by SophieKayy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-21 07:42:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They say this is a big problem?{why do the girls put up with this}

2007-07-21 07:39:56 · 13 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Singles & Dating

Because I Really Don't Want To Do The Dating Service Thing And I Don't Go To Church And Singles Groups Are Lame. I Don't Frequent Bars And Dance Clubs Unless I'm With A Group Of Friends Which I'm Normally Not. I Mostly Work And Stay Home With My Small Child. But I've Been Single Four Years And He Hasn't Just Popped Up In The Grocery Or The Library Or The Home Depot Or At Work Like People Tell Me He Will. The Only Place I Can Think Of Where There Are A Variety Of Men To Flirt And Talk With Is The Club. Is That Really So Bad? Any Suggestions?

2007-07-21 07:37:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When making love to my husband their are things that he wants to do to me. (oral, kissing certian places etc...) The problem is that some of these things do not turn me on. And Even though i tell my husband that does not turn me on he wants to do it anyway. He has told me that performing oral turns him on. I think he should want to do things that turn me on regarldess if they turn him on or not. When I stop him from doing something that I don't like he gets upset with me. I want our love making to be about him wanting to please me, but i feel that its just about HIM wanting to do whatever turns HIM on. Why does my husband want to continue performing oral sex (or any sexual act) on me if it does not turn me on?

2007-07-21 07:34:05 · 27 answers · asked by ilih2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We love one another very much and she is there because she does love her husband regardless of what she has done. She wants to be with me but dont want to get a divorce, dont want to lose the home or anything there, what should we do? There has been talk about taking a break from one another to see if that helps the decision making. We are in love and have a great relationship outside of her marriage. She is about 14 yrs older than me also. We do not have sex anymore and barely see one another and yet we so badly want to be together. I dont know what to do but I am looking for advice from all. Some one please help me...

2007-07-21 07:32:49 · 18 answers · asked by terry_j1984 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do they just forget? Is there some kind of logic behind it? What is the issue here? I know I know. I can call them right, and I do sometimes, but is it so much to ask for them to just do what they say they will. I don't tell them they have to call me. I don't even know why they say they will, and why they don't just do it.

2007-07-21 07:32:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this lady was having panic attacks, and on yahoo answers she wanted help to cope with them.
i tried to help her, and then i did my best and i was polite.
then 15 or 20 minutes later, i get an email, and he says back off, what the heck? whats their problem?

2007-07-21 07:31:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

It has been said that the main reason for mothers keeping children is because of the pressure from other women.

Mothers suffer finanial distress in trying to keep kids they cannnot afford.

And mothers account for 77% of all physical abuse to children.

This is a serious question for the serious thinker.

2007-07-21 07:29:55 · 17 answers · asked by I Wanna Know 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend of 13 years has a boyfriend who I just cannot stand and they have been together for 5 years. (they are both 22) She knows that I don't like him. He is such a loser, I could go on and on about the bad way he treats her. But my friend has low self esteem and doesn't think she can get anyone else.

What will I do some day when she says they are getting married? I can't be all "yay my best friend is geting married!!!!!!!!!!" I dislike this guy soooo much and I want what is best for my friend, and its not him. Anybody had a similar experience?

2007-07-21 07:24:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-21 07:22:14 · 8 answers · asked by Amina L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How can I stay looking young I have two problems tummy buldge and cellulite please help me..I am not a big person my weight is in control..thanks

2007-07-21 07:19:59 · 6 answers · asked by RM 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy who I really liked and he used to like me too but he's been ignoring me after we kind of dissed eachother and that made eachother feel bad and messed up..I said something that was messed up and now he's not talking to me. First of all, he was like "Can I come and f*** u" when we were both talking about sex subject to get eachother more and stuff.. I know I shouldnt brought that sex stuff but I just wanted to get to know him better thats all.. He said "Can I come and f*** u rite now" but I said no and then he asked me why and I told him "I dont want u to hit it and quit it" i kno he likes to joke and hes funny but then he said "I wont gonna do that cuz u said u good in bed" and then I was like "Can u hook me up w/ one of your boyz" I didnt feel like getting used I sent him emails and messages explaining to him how I feel and everything. But he still dont answer me.Do u think he wont gonna EVER talk to me anymore? What do u think? And please give me sum advice I really like him

2007-07-21 07:16:08 · 5 answers · asked by NeNe 1 in Singles & Dating

I cant get enough sex. When i stay with my male friend he only gives me some once then he's out. I want it all the time. Ive had sex with some of the guys at my job while at work just to get me through the day. I'm seeing a married man now actually two married men but they dont sastify me either. I've had 3some's and 4some's but nothing every gets the job done...please help

2007-07-21 07:14:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-21 07:09:30 · 7 answers · asked by chaquila q 1 in Friends

2007-07-21 07:08:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex was cheatin on me 3 times sleepin with other women, we were engaged and it felt so perfect then i found out of his cheatin and it totally destroyed me, he always textin me sayin how sorry he i s and how mch he loves me, thou the day after breakin up he was in bed with another woman! i feel so lonley and destroyed part of me want him back, anyone with sugestions??

2007-07-21 07:05:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

it was final on halloween how do i deal with it??

2007-07-21 07:05:36 · 5 answers · asked by melissa m 2 in Marriage & Divorce