Because I Really Don't Want To Do The Dating Service Thing And I Don't Go To Church And Singles Groups Are Lame. I Don't Frequent Bars And Dance Clubs Unless I'm With A Group Of Friends Which I'm Normally Not. I Mostly Work And Stay Home With My Small Child. But I've Been Single Four Years And He Hasn't Just Popped Up In The Grocery Or The Library Or The Home Depot Or At Work Like People Tell Me He Will. The Only Place I Can Think Of Where There Are A Variety Of Men To Flirt And Talk With Is The Club. Is That Really So Bad? Any Suggestions?
2007-07-21 07:37:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-07-25 07:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Here's what one of my guy friends told me - girls go to clubs to dance and have fun, whereas guys go to clubs to pick up girls (to get laid) and to get "rubbed on" (while dancing).
I definitely think a bar would be as good place as any to meet someone new. And you never know... There just might be some guy who, like you, wants to have a serious relationship, and couldn't think of a good place to meet someone new and is hanging out at a local bar. One thing is for sure though, there's no way you're gonna meet anyone if you don't go out much. Take a break. Chill. Get some girlfriends together and have fun! :)
2007-07-21 07:48:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im kind of young and i could never be in a relationship with a man that attends clubs. I just dont think that the man that is ready to settle down would be in the local club. Since you have a young child im sure you would want a well established man to be able to provide and if he is well established than why would he be out at clubs. Also, dont thnk that you need a man to complete who you are you have been doing it single and im sure can continue. Dont be looking for a man, if something is meant to be than it will just show up
2007-07-21 07:45:57 · answer #3 · answered by Arianna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey anything is possible. But do you really want to meet someone at a bar as this may be there regular hangout and so there may be more problems to deal with in the long run, ie: addictions etc. If you have any hobbies or interests maybe you can join a group of like minded people. You may find someone with whom to share your interests and even develop a long lasting relationship with a male. Best of luck.
2007-07-21 07:45:17 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't there anyone at your workplace you find attractive? Or do you take any classes where you could meet someone with the same interests? You need to lose the desperate look and try to concentrate on making friends with a woman first - nightclubs and on the street are not ideal places to meet people. Why do you say the women you see in nightclubs are stuck up? Do you ever ask them to dance?
2016-05-19 05:12:04 · answer #5 · answered by laticia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes definately. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and still going strong and we met in the skankiest club lol. And he's the niciest, considerate guy i've met! In fact a couple of ex-boyfriends i met in clubs/bars and they were all good guys, and i can say the same is true with the majority of my friends. So get your glad rags on and go down TONIGHT!!
2007-07-21 07:58:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
some really good guys do go to bars but most of the time they are the ones that are shy and quiet and you have to come on to them. but if you come on too strong they might think you are a hoe or you are desperate for a baby-daddy. try other places like at a lake or river where guys go to have fun but you can still take your kid. the worst thing you can do is hide a kid on a guy and then just spring the kid on him one day. you want a good guy then see how he treats you kid.
2007-07-29 05:09:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good man for the night is what your likely to find at the bar or club. I wouldnt count on finding a meaningful relationship there though
2007-07-21 07:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by David C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm... my bf told me before that he used to go to bars and clubs, ofcourse he gets hit on or he hits on girls and BOOM!!! one night stand baby!!! but he also told me that when that happend he wanted to be in a relationship with her, but he knew it wouldnt turn out right because what happend that night was not planned or maybe it was, its just the attraction. but my point here is... it depends really, because majority of men are there for one reason only, and you should know that too my friend. good luck!
2007-07-29 07:32:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
based on the fact that most of the friends i go to clubs with are really decent, sensitive amazing guys, i cant say no.
And yes while many guys are looking for one night stands, given enough chemistry anything can happen.
good luck to you!
2007-07-29 07:03:52 · answer #10 · answered by Laura w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋