i feel so lonley?

Question

my ex was cheatin on me 3 times sleepin with other women, we were engaged and it felt so perfect then i found out of his cheatin and it totally destroyed me, he always textin me sayin how sorry he i s and how mch he loves me, thou the day after breakin up he was in bed with another woman! i feel so lonley and destroyed part of me want him back, anyone with sugestions??

Answer 1

If you get back with that douche bag you deserve everything he ends up putting you through!! Completely end all contact with him. He is not the only game in town...get yourself together, gain some self respect and have some fun.

Answer 2

It's normal to feel lonely. Do you really want him back though? You want back a man who said he wanted to marry you, yet slept with three other women before you even made it to the alter?
Ending a relationship is extremely difficult. Allow yourself time to grieve, but also realize there is so much more to your life than this loser ex boyfriend.
Don't rent any sappy love movies either. How about you rent a documentary on a subject that interests you? Or spend the time you normally would have with your ex, volunteering. You could help at a shelter, at a food bank, or at a nursing home. I'm sure if you called your local city government they could hook you up with a great project. This way you are helping others, which will take your mind of the ex, plus make you feel good about yourself.

Answer 3

To put it nicely: IF YOU TAKE HIM BACK YOU ARE A WORTHLESS, HOPELESS EXCUSE FOR A WOMAN! Don't give in... unless you want your whole life to be filled with his cheating, and chaos. A 3 time cheater is obviously going to be a cheater. But loneliness does not last forever. Stay away from him until you gain some strength...it will come to you.

Answer 4

look if was cheating on you HE WILL DO IT AGAIN believe me. i know it hurts and all but once a cheater always a cheater. there are better fish in the sea...you just have to wait till the storm goes away you have to come out your cave and be confident and meet better fish hope i was a help!

Answer 5

Well, you need to recognize you found a jerk --he wasnt meant for you, he isnt worth the agony you are putting yourself thru. TRY to get him off your mind (he isnt worth it!), get with friends--anything, find a life away from him. You will meet someone much better down the road---you can only move up!!

Answer 6

Don't you dare take him back. Would you rather be lonely with him or be lonely without him, but with your self respect! It will hurt for a while but you will meet someone down the line who treats you better and don't accept less!

Answer 7

Once a dog, always a dog. He will not change. He may say he will stop cheating, but he won't, he will only try to hide it and do it behind your back.

Don't take him back unless you are willing to accept him as the sex addict he is.

Answer 8

GREAT NEWS!! Set yourself free from the carnage of distrust and philadering,, plug into spirited self,, read,, meditate,, strenghten your resolve,, you will plug into a mature man who is "healthy" for your spirit and emotional physical and mental health.. Life is short,, smile now,, and know that you are worthy of better respect....

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Answer 9

i think you need to do realize that he is not a good man, and why would you want that? he cheated because he is a dog, not because something is wrong with you. thank god you found out before you married him.

Answer 10

Consider yourself very lucky and fortunate, and find a person who truly cares, and appreciates you, and will remain faithful to you*....