I have this guy we started dating this summer and just last thursday he says he wants to take a break like he says im locking him down and he wants to party or wateva cuz it's the summer. and then he says when i'm around other girls he feels like if he touches them or sumthin it wouldn't be rite or he does't feel rite and i said he can have girls as friends and he needs to no his dos and don'ts like boundaries and he said he doesn't want any boundaries so we broke up 4 now and he wants to get back together like at the end of the summer i'm like should i get back with him i kinda understand y he broke up with me because so if he touch another girl it won't be cheatin or anything cuz we broke up 4 now so i'm like he respects my feelings and most guys don't do that he could have me and go behind my back and do his dirt so he really thinks about my feelings
2007-07-21 07:59:08 · 5 answers · asked by keron s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do you know what he did? he asked if he could cheat on you. its not right, especially because you said yes. dont get back together with him. it would not be right. he is worse than dirt.
that is my advice
good day to you
2007-07-21 08:03:24 · answer #1 · answered by climberguy12 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy trust me he's treating you like a doormat, he thinks you'll always be there no matter what so he's taking advantage of that. He just wants to cheat on you and not have to feel bad or worry about you finding out, if he really liked you he wouldn't be after any other girls, you would be enough for him. But obviously you aren't that important to him cause then he wouldn't run the risk of losing you. But it is obvious he really doesn't care. Sit back and analyze this situation... you're being used plain and simple, don't get back together with him go find someone who actually appreciates you.
2007-07-21 08:05:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to drop him like he dropped u if he rlly has feelins for u then he aint gonna leave u he can always flirt with u instead of other gurls. he is jus expectin for u to be there when he wants someone sorda like a backup or a chik on the side u dnt need that u can do better cuz im sure that if he were in ur position he would feel bad about it.
2007-07-21 08:37:51 · answer #3 · answered by kelseygurl_2011 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's looking for other options. Period!
Best thing for you to do is forget him. It' not what you want to hear but as a guy, if I like a girl, NOTHING will keep me away from her.
2007-07-21 08:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
geezzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz then geezzzzzzzzzzzzzzz again we're men we need more than one women its like a car you get tired of it you get a new one
2007-07-21 08:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋